MichelleN5 (Maryland)
Posts: 12
Posts: 12
Posted:
Our community is only a few a years old, and when the builder turned the majority of the board over to the community, the first thing our new board did was decide to create a community listserv. One board member agreed to undertake this task, went door-to-door collecting emails, and put together a community google groups forum. Since then, the same board member has sent out numerous posts and evites both explicitly stating that the post/evite was from the HOA or implicitly stating as much by saying it was from the "_____________ (insert trademarked name of community) Community." The board and community have fought with him on this issue numerous times -- there's been nasty drama on the listserv, hours of time wasted across multiple meetings, and unnecessary disorderly nonsense at HOA meetings (which most recently resulted in an attendee having a heart attack during the meeting). Also problematic, when the board wanted to send out a clarification email to the listserv regarding the last personal evite that went out to the entire listserv on behalf of the "community," the same board member, who remains owner/manager of the listserv, changed the vast majority of the listserv recipients' email notification settings so that they would not receive it. He is also now declaring the listserv to be his own "personal and private" listserv. So while the listserv was originally and HOA endorsed/sponsored venture, it has turned out to be something quite different from what everyone's understanding was at the time it was endorsed and people signed up for it.
This board member is a source of major disruptions in every meeting, and he prevents the board from getting anything done by completely hijacking the meeting and subjecting everybody to really long incoherent diatribes in which he claims people are trying to "remove him from the community," despite "all the good he has done for the community," everyone in the community is "racist" (He is Indian, and to prove this point he referenced a very public dispute he had with another Indian in the community) ... blah blah blah. Anyway, needless to say, meetings are not well-attended, and management consistently leaves all drama and conflict out of our minutes. While I'm considering seeking his removal from the board, I'm not sure people are aware of half of the problems he causes, and I'm not guaranteed to get the necessary 51% of the community to agree to his removal. (FYI, we have 7 people on the board, he is in the minority on the listserv and holding himself out as the HOA issues, but the two people that stand with him are willing to continue enabling him. For example, the HOA attorney has already said he would write a cease and desist letter, but, despite this they claim "there's no problem here;" "freedom of speech [protects false advertising];" and "the community doesn't care about this issue, let's talk about something else.")
Does anybody have any suggestions for how to deal with this individual or otherwise move forward?
Does anyone know whether his censoring/selectively censoring posts on what was supposed to be a community listserv violates any laws other than maybe the Open Meetings Act?
Also, does anyone view our board's not being able to function for over 2 years now as a failing on management's part? Is the HOA manager supposed to enforce Robert's Rules or some semblance of forum decorum at meetings? If not, do we need security to do so?
Sorry, I know there's a lot in here, but any help on any issue would be much appreciated. Thank you!
This board member is a source of major disruptions in every meeting, and he prevents the board from getting anything done by completely hijacking the meeting and subjecting everybody to really long incoherent diatribes in which he claims people are trying to "remove him from the community," despite "all the good he has done for the community," everyone in the community is "racist" (He is Indian, and to prove this point he referenced a very public dispute he had with another Indian in the community) ... blah blah blah. Anyway, needless to say, meetings are not well-attended, and management consistently leaves all drama and conflict out of our minutes. While I'm considering seeking his removal from the board, I'm not sure people are aware of half of the problems he causes, and I'm not guaranteed to get the necessary 51% of the community to agree to his removal. (FYI, we have 7 people on the board, he is in the minority on the listserv and holding himself out as the HOA issues, but the two people that stand with him are willing to continue enabling him. For example, the HOA attorney has already said he would write a cease and desist letter, but, despite this they claim "there's no problem here;" "freedom of speech [protects false advertising];" and "the community doesn't care about this issue, let's talk about something else.")
Does anybody have any suggestions for how to deal with this individual or otherwise move forward?
Does anyone know whether his censoring/selectively censoring posts on what was supposed to be a community listserv violates any laws other than maybe the Open Meetings Act?
Also, does anyone view our board's not being able to function for over 2 years now as a failing on management's part? Is the HOA manager supposed to enforce Robert's Rules or some semblance of forum decorum at meetings? If not, do we need security to do so?
Sorry, I know there's a lot in here, but any help on any issue would be much appreciated. Thank you!