CfD (Virginia)
Posts: 265
Posts: 265
Posted:
Well, as some of you know I tried to get elected to our board, but really not very hard. Our annual meeting was held last night (second attempt). There were 6 candidates for 5 board seats, and I chose not to solicit proxies as some of you recommended. I knew going in I had no chance, but I had another friend who was stepping up and as long as one of us was elected I was fine with it.
My friend could not come to the meeting last night.
During the meeting, the president invited the candidates to stand and say a word or two about themselves and why they wanted to serve on the board. Each candidate in turn did this, and no one asked any questions until I stood and said my piece.
Immediately, members of the grounds committee started harassing me and questioning why I record meetings and saying how disruptive it was. I replied as honestly as I could saying I believed if the board was so strongly encouraging members of the community to come to a meeting, what would be the harm in simply recording them and making them available to the membership.
One grounds committee member insinuated that I was not making them available to the membership, and I offered to provide the recordings to every single person. I pointed out that the board already records the meetings, and anyone could request the recordings from the board. But I was deliberately badgered by the grounds committee.
Then a board member said, and I quote "I heard a rumor that you tried to sue the association". Of course this rumor is one she herself perpetuates and simply isn't close to true. Every action I've ever taken is to help our inept board members try to avoid litigation. But here was a board member trying to paint me in a terrible light in front of my neighbors, during the election, and as if I had done something wrong. It was surreal. I was then attacked by our president who stood and again painted a terrible picture of me to the membership. It was definitely a coordinated attack and intended to sway the election, but I politely and honestly answered every insinuation with facts and truth.
Then the board president waxed poetic about the next candidate, my friend who could not come to the meeting but was up for election as I was. He reported on his military background, said he probably wasn't there tonight because he had a special needs child he was sure needed his attention, and what a terrific guy he was.
My question: Does any of this seem fair to you? Do any of you experience this degree of bias toward a homeowner during an election...or any other time?
My friend could not come to the meeting last night.
During the meeting, the president invited the candidates to stand and say a word or two about themselves and why they wanted to serve on the board. Each candidate in turn did this, and no one asked any questions until I stood and said my piece.
Immediately, members of the grounds committee started harassing me and questioning why I record meetings and saying how disruptive it was. I replied as honestly as I could saying I believed if the board was so strongly encouraging members of the community to come to a meeting, what would be the harm in simply recording them and making them available to the membership.
One grounds committee member insinuated that I was not making them available to the membership, and I offered to provide the recordings to every single person. I pointed out that the board already records the meetings, and anyone could request the recordings from the board. But I was deliberately badgered by the grounds committee.
Then a board member said, and I quote "I heard a rumor that you tried to sue the association". Of course this rumor is one she herself perpetuates and simply isn't close to true. Every action I've ever taken is to help our inept board members try to avoid litigation. But here was a board member trying to paint me in a terrible light in front of my neighbors, during the election, and as if I had done something wrong. It was surreal. I was then attacked by our president who stood and again painted a terrible picture of me to the membership. It was definitely a coordinated attack and intended to sway the election, but I politely and honestly answered every insinuation with facts and truth.
Then the board president waxed poetic about the next candidate, my friend who could not come to the meeting but was up for election as I was. He reported on his military background, said he probably wasn't there tonight because he had a special needs child he was sure needed his attention, and what a terrific guy he was.
My question: Does any of this seem fair to you? Do any of you experience this degree of bias toward a homeowner during an election...or any other time?