I have been asked before about a man 55+ with a 30 year old wife has a child, what would we do. If it were a 2 bedroom unit, we let the baby stay is what I say.
It matters NOT what you say.
Us 55+s do NOT rule society.
The BIG covenant does ~ ie. the Constitution and Federal Law, e.g. the Fair Housing Act
A parent, by definition, is the legal guardian of their child(ren).
Should parents separate/divorce one may be awarded custody w/o the other losing guardianship.
A grandparent could be awarded custody w/o guardianship.
Foster care is exactly that: paid custody w/o guardianship.
NO community, repeat NO, can have a person's child removed from said community based solely on age.
NO community, repeat NO, can have a person's 'guardianee' removed based solely on age.
The 'fly' is that MAYBE they could be barred from moving in with children under HOPA, but once in all the 55+ bets are off when guardianship/birth (NOT MERELY CUSTODY) occurs because it in in society's interest to protect the child.
Us Old Farts simply need to remove our hearing aids and stop driving when children are out and about behaving normally.
ps. the amount of water wasted in our pools by splashing children is, however, ENORMOUS