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Posted By JoK2 on 06/10/2014 6:59 AM
Posted By MikeL13 on 06/10/2014 6:33 AM
Posted By JoK2 on 06/10/2014 6:05 AM
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Having done my time as a Director and then President, it blew my mind the stuff I heard some homeowners say. The hard truth is that 99% of the have no clue themselves, but that doesn't stop them from spouting off and causing and raising problems where there aren't any.
You are entitled to your opinion. Is it possible the homeowners have a very good clue and you were just one of the power hungry BOD members? We appear to have a president that believes it is "his" community and not "our" community. Most I speak with feel he is out of touch, but like many places, owner apathy is rampant especially with less than half developed and most lots belong to out of state owners.
lol...
Me power hungry? Nope.
Me the one who found all the crap the previous mgmt companies did not do, and then had to spend a year to fix it? Yes that was me. . . .
Darn right I am entitled to my opinion and it is based upon actual experience. When you've been a board member, you too can speak from experience. Thanks again for proving my point, er...my opinion!
And this is a good example as part of the problem.
Statements are made that are not intended to put everyone into a specific category. Unfortunately,
the way they are made (in this case, generalized) those to whom the statement does not apply to become defensive (hey, we are all human). Depending on various factors that can change from minute to minute, the defensive individual may lash out, laugh it off, keep silent and have the comment stew (to be brought up again at a later date), or disagree with the statement but can understand why it was made (by looking at the issue from the other perspective).
I do think that everyone can agree that there are certainly individuals who love to complain but not be part of the solution (To go to an extreme: I paid my assessment, you work for me, these are my whims, address them). I also think that everyone can agree that there are certainly individuals who serve only to address a personal agenda (simple: I want x and if I'm on the Board I can approve it extreme: My neighbor annoys me and if I'm on the Board I can force them to shape up or ship out).
I also think that everyone can agree that (regardless of the perspective) there are more complaints than compliments.
If everyone (and I'm talking in generalities) can take the time to think about what was said and try to look at the issue from the other persons perspective, you may not agree but you should have a better understanding of how to deal with the issue being discussed. However, we are all human and even if you try to do this all the time, there will be times that it simply doesn't happen. When that happens, hopefully the other person can still look at the issue from a different perspective vs. having that instance/comment be what you are remembered for.
That's my two cents.