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JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
I have lived in 6 or so HOA's with amenities ranging from the HOA owning an 18 hole golf course with all private roads to my present no amenity HOA.

When I bought here, one thing experience had taught me was to look for little to no amenities. The more I read on HOATalk, the smarter my decision was. We do have one retention pond and a small grassy area with a sign at the entrance we are responsible for. Other then that, nothing. What a relief.

For those undecided on HOA living or those going to give it another try, I suggest you look for an amenity free association. It will be care free living.

SallyR3
Posts: 113
Posted:
I totally agree with Johns comment above. And, like him I've come to this conclusion after reading hundreds of horror stories on line and having had some of them myself. My preference is to live outside of an HOA but that seems close to impossible. If you're young and reading this skip the pools, the equestrian center, the jogging paths, the weight rooms, the tennis and squash courts etc. All those amenities come with a huge price, and I'm not talking about the monthly fee. Look at the CC&Rs ... If they need more than 10 pages to express themselves, you're more likely to have problems. Live as independently as possible.

Since anyone can search for RE on-line, my advice is to have the listing agent pull the HOA docs before you ever visit and fall in love with the property ... some agents will do this and some won't. I've ruled out three different properties recently when I saw their CC&Rs exceeded 50 pages ... I didn't need to read them to know that they had covered every single little item and a sneeze could send you to court.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
Interesting. John46 is talking solely about amenities, but Sally is talking about HOAs in general and their restrictions, rules, etc.. At least, so it seems.
JoK2 (California)
Posts: 198
Posted:
Yes, one can associate more rules and regulations with more amenities, however, the Association outside of even the first "rule" is only as good as the members and the Board of Directors they elect to govern. The problem is not the size or even the amenities so much as it is the members who actually participate fully. But like everything else in life, it only takes a few to F things up and every single HOA is labeled as the worst thing since the dawn of time.

I see it my own tiny, no amenities HOA to ones on here with hundreds of homes and full blown pools etc. It's what you make of it, you can't have the "protection of home values etc" without having the "you can't plant that begonia but you can plant this one".

And those members who don't get involved are all ok with how things are being run, until their pocketbooks are hit or they have been denied in some way. Then they will get involved, but sadly for their own gain and not for the good of the neighborhood. (although they swear that's their goal)

Like every single thing in life, you are putting your faith into another person, or in this case a board of people. It's a risk, like taking a cruise or flying across the country. You are at the mercy of the people who are supposed to get you there safely, and you can't control that human anymore than you can control weather.

So if you've found your dream home and it's everything you've ever wanted, could you really walk away just because it's in an HOA? I would hazard a guess that you would buy it anyway.
PitA1
Posts: 222
Posted:
nope

with my PRESENT knowledge I would

RUN away

(or, ay my age, hobble quickly)
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Posted By JoK2 on 06/06/2014 5:01 AM

the Association outside of even the first "rule" is only as good as the members and the Board of Directors they elect to govern.

Or to put another way, it's only as good as the people willing to become involved in the running of the Association.
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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I concur with everything said here, especially as I reflect on what it took to finally get rid of our swimming pool. When I moved here, I thought it was nice that the community had a pool because I figured my niece and nephews would like it when they visited (I don't have kids). Instead, they usually visited in the fall or winter and so the pool was closed - and they were more interested in our Children's Museum anyway!

The amenities weren't a deal maker for purchasing my townhouse - it was great that it has a clubhouse, but I was more interested in the price, its location in the community and the attached garage.

It's like someone once said on this site - the amenities are usually put there to make the community more attractive so people will buy a home, but the developers don't usually think (or care) if those amenities will be desirable or affordable to the homeowners 10-15 years from now. For example, our community really doesn't need a pool because we're about a mile from a local park with a pool (and one of those funky slides you see at a waterpark). I do like that we have a clubhouse, but if I'd been the developer, I would have put more emphasis on the townhomes (starting with all of them having a 1 or 2 car garage so we wouldn't have as many parking issues as we have now.

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
RayC4 (Virginia)
Posts: 173
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Posted By JohnC46 on 06/05/2014 12:09 PM

For those undecided on HOA living or those going to give it another try, I suggest you look for an amenity free association. It will be care free living.


I certainly understand (and agree with) the point JohnC makes here.

However and just for the record, I live in a single-homes subdivision with six homes built that has zero amenities, zero landscaping, and streets maintained by the state. We currently have three active lawsuits pending, plus a recent HOA bankruptcy filing.

Trust me; an 'amenity free' HOA will not immunize anyone from severe and costly problems.
SallyR3
Posts: 113
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What in the world would cause grievances in such a tiny community?
RayC4 (Virginia)
Posts: 173
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Posted By SallyR3 on 06/06/2014 9:45 AM
What in the world would cause grievances in such a tiny community?

The tiny community has been and still is under 'Declarant Control.' Several years ago, the Declarant became angry. Simple as that. Overnite, our annual budget went from four line items to over thirty line items. Homeowner regular monthly fees went from $90/mo to $1300/mo (much more than my mortgage). Then there were the 'special assessments'...

Once bogus charges are challenged, legal fees come into the picture, most of which are 'passed onto' the homeowner members, and which in turn are challenged -- creating more legal fees....an accelerating downward spiral. Are we having fun yet?

My wife and I will not be moving into a Declarant Controlled situation again anytime soon, and I caution others to beware.
RichardP13 (California)
Posts: 1,767
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Posted By RayC4 on 06/06/2014 10:05 AM
Posted By SallyR3 on 06/06/2014 9:45 AM
What in the world would cause grievances in such a tiny community?


The tiny community has been and still is under 'Declarant Control.' Several years ago, the Declarant became angry. Simple as that. Overnite, our annual budget went from four line items to over thirty line items. Homeowner regular monthly fees went from $90/mo to $1300/mo (much more than my mortgage). Then there were the 'special assessments'...

Once bogus charges are challenged, legal fees come into the picture, most of which are 'passed onto' the homeowner members, and which in turn are challenged -- creating more legal fees....an accelerating downward spiral. Are we having fun yet?

My wife and I will not be moving into a Declarant Controlled situation again anytime soon, and I caution others to beware.

I would say that was "one pissed off declarant"!
SheliaH (Indiana)
Posts: 6,964
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Angry, eh? Smells like greed to me. Perhaps the anger comes from not being able to sell all the homes and still having to pay for certain services (which they're required to do as long as they control the community), so why not pass it onto the homeowners.

Someone else on this site suggested that people never buy into a HOA still under developer control because of stuff like this (not to mention all the assorted construction issues that have cropped up). That seems to be a recipe for disaster.


If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius
RayC4 (Virginia)
Posts: 173
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Posted By SheliaH on 06/06/2014 10:50 AM
which they're required to do as long as they control the community

Shelia, I realize we're in different states, but your comment here got my attention. What is your authority for this? (This Declarant doesn't feel he's "required" to pay for anything. It all gets passed on to the members (just as if the HOA had been 'turned over' but of course it hasn't).
RalphW2 (Florida)
Posts: 32
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I'm really naive ... what is "Declarant Control"?
RayC4 (Virginia)
Posts: 173
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Generally speaking, a new community developer will write a 'Declaration of Covenants' establishing the rules and regulations of the development (i.e. use of common elements; architectural guidelines; etc.) This 'declaration' runs with each property (attached to the deed) and normally establishes a Homeowners Association (HOA) which each property owner is a member.

In the early stages of the community there's not enough owners to 'run' the HOA. During this period of 'Declarant Control', the developer (the 'declarant') controls every aspect of the HOA -- they normally comprise the HOA Board of Directors, and have the controlling votes in any and all decisions for the community.

At some point when a certain percentage of properties are sold, the developer/declarant "turns over" control to the homeowners who elect their own BOD, officers, etc and begin running the HOA themselves. This is a formal process and in many states is regulated by statute.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
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What a fine,clear explanation, Ray!
KellyM3 (North Carolina)
Posts: 2,239
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Posted By JohnC46 on 06/05/2014 12:09 PM
I have lived in 6 or so HOA's with amenities ranging from the HOA owning an 18 hole golf course with all private roads to my present no amenity HOA.

When I bought here, one thing experience had taught me was to look for little to no amenities. The more I read on HOATalk, the smarter my decision was. We do have one retention pond and a small grassy area with a sign at the entrance we are responsible for. Other then that, nothing. What a relief.

For those undecided on HOA living or those going to give it another try, I suggest you look for an amenity free association. It will be care free living.


Yet you are a very active participant at HOATalk.com in spite of not being an HOA "fan." What is this, a fetish, to read all the bellyaching?!!!

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Kelly,

JohnC has been (and will likely) continue to offer some very sound advice.
To my understanding, he still lives in a development governed by an HOA.

He is simply suggesting that there may be fewer issues if there are fewer amenities.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
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Posted By KellyM3 on 06/07/2014 6:03 PM
Posted By JohnC46 on 06/05/2014 12:09 PM
I have lived in 6 or so HOA's with amenities ranging from the HOA owning an 18 hole golf course with all private roads to my present no amenity HOA.

When I bought here, one thing experience had taught me was to look for little to no amenities. The more I read on HOATalk, the smarter my decision was. We do have one retention pond and a small grassy area with a sign at the entrance we are responsible for. Other then that, nothing. What a relief.

For those undecided on HOA living or those going to give it another try, I suggest you look for an amenity free association. It will be care free living.



Yet you are a very active participant at HOATalk.com in spite of not being an HOA "fan." What is this, a fetish, to read all the bellyaching?!!!


Kelly

You misunderstand. I love HOA living. I am on our Appointed Transition BOD as we transition (113 stand alone homes) from our Declarant to we owners. If I see a good group of people running for the BOD then I will not. If I see fools running then I will run for self preservation reasons.

This is my 6th HOA (in 3 different states) and one of the simplest to operate. The simplicity was one thing I was looking for. I once lived in an HOA that owned a golf course, owned its own sewage processing, and owned the streets (private). You talk about a complex operation with many different factions. Lawsuits were very common there.

Even with my experience, I learn things on this chat. I also believe my experience allows me to add useful information. There are not many HOA situations I have not seen.

JoK2 (California)
Posts: 198
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Posted By KellyM3 on 06/07/2014 6:03 PM
Posted By JohnC46 on 06/05/2014 12:09 PM
I have lived in 6 or so HOA's with amenities ranging from the HOA owning an 18 hole golf course with all private roads to my present no amenity HOA.

When I bought here, one thing experience had taught me was to look for little to no amenities. The more I read on HOATalk, the smarter my decision was. We do have one retention pond and a small grassy area with a sign at the entrance we are responsible for. Other then that, nothing. What a relief.

For those undecided on HOA living or those going to give it another try, I suggest you look for an amenity free association. It will be care free living.



Yet you are a very active participant at HOATalk.com in spite of not being an HOA "fan." What is this, a fetish, to read all the bellyaching?!!!


We can't pick up the sarcasm you must be implying with this reply?
BanksS
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BanksS
Posts: 403
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Sorry folks, I got carried away with the delete button.

John,

You say you love HOA living. Do you mind elaborating on that? I have a genuine interest in knowing. What is it about your amenity free HOA do you love? And please lets not go down the path of maintaining property values. That has been debated on this forum a number of times with varying opinions. Thanks.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
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Banks

The less amenities, the less complex and the less expensive running an association is. Look at all the posts about pool troubles, tennis court troubles, etc. Granted some want amenities as they could not afford them on their own. Great to have a pool when you have kids but not so great if it is something you never use.

I also looked at other things I do not want. I want no parking lots. Look at all the issues many associations have concerning parking lots. I want no on street parking. I think it makes a neighborhood look like crap. I do not want a hodge-podge of crappy looking fences, rusting sheds, dirt lawns, over grown vegetation, junk cars, etc. While not amenities, they were things I did not want.

When I buy a home, I always ride around the neighborhood and ask myself is this a neighborhood I would want to live in? Does it meet my standards? Would I be proud to say I live here? The only way to guarantee the neighborhood remains at that level/standard, is to have some control over your neighbors. Simply put, I like the ability to control the neighborhood that an HOA offers. I do not want Harry the junkman moving in near me.

Hope this helps.

PitA1
Posts: 222
Posted:
engineered storm water utilities are (or should be) the majority expense for ANY association

if underfunded NOW there WILL be LARGE special assessments and/or bills later

these expenses will make a pool seem like pocket change
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
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Guess I'm ready to jump in. My husband & I wanted to live in an urban mid- or high rise 10 years ago. They all are HOAs. Their amenities vary from only, say, a gym and modest meeting room (mainly in mid-rises) and part time security officers. High rises have some or many of the following: well-equipped gym, spa, pool, valet parking, full time onsite PM and Asst. PM, full time concierges, full time security officer(s), Theater Rooms, one or more well-equipped lounges, billiards rooms, etc.

There's a ground floor commercial component, which adds its own complexity. Our CC&Rs are over 100 pages long (they've never been restated, so still have developer language in them).

Needless to say, the assessments are much higher in the fully-loaded HOAs of this type than the others. In all, though, there are rules for the physical amenities as well as noise nuisance rules, what may be stored on balconies and in deeded underground parking spaces. They are strict architectural guidelines for interior modifications, especially the installation of hard surface flooring.

I think all of this means that the more complex an HOA, the higher the dues. And probably the more needed rules

The extra rules don't bother us or anyone else here. I'm pretty sure that all agree it's a good thing that our window coverings and balconies are not in many different colors, etc. If they were (no HOA), our property values definitely would be affected because the surrounding high rises would be so much more attractive.

In thinking about the posts I've read over the past 2-3 years, it seems that the majority of complaints are about out buildings, basketball hoops, fencing, parking issues, exterior design issues, unkempt front years, dog poop, etc. than anything else. I believe that some of these are from very non-complex HOAs-few or no amenities.

It seems that it all depends on what folks can or want to spend to enjoy their lives and, as pointed out, by the quality of the HOA's governance.
RalphW2 (Florida)
Posts: 32
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Every 1 should remember if you don't use the amenities you are subsidizing those who do.
KevinK7 (Florida)
Posts: 1,343
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My opinion is that amenities can be nice but have some negatives that should be thoroughly researched. My neighborhood had none but sought to become mandatory and attempted to create recurring expenditures. They believe they needed certain things like pesticides or landscaping, lighting, and water without a real use. They figured install the meters and lights to create the expense to justify their demands for assessments. It eventually contributed to their downfall because they spent so much defending their actions they allowed these expenses to bankrupt them.

My other neighborhood behaved similarly in using existing amenities as a means to keep raising assessments (they would claim insurance costs were rising but that expense stayed the same and they would use funds to buy things like deck chairs or umbrellas or raises to the office staff). They then tried to get more built like playgrounds. Nice thought but they hadn't considered the risks.
AnnH5 (Florida)
Posts: 304
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I can't wait to leave my home in a "HOA" community. What I have learned (after nearly 10 hellish years)?

1. Buying into a community that is under development/still being built/brand new is a mistake. You look around before making a commitment to buy and everything looks shiny and new and glorious. You like the amenities and the subdivision looks like it is going to be a "winner". Fast forward to 10 years later. The control of the community has been turned over to the homeowners and the homeowners have no clue as to how to maintain the amenities. Those who are elected to the Board have their own "agendas" and those "agendas" do not include routine maintenance/replacement. HOA assessments have not been raised in 10 years because the Board members are retired and on a fixed income and will likely live in their homes for the rest of their lives and have no desire to spend a single penny over the assessments.

2. All it takes is one bad election, homeowners who are indifferent, and you end up with a group of highly uneducated/vindictive/self-serving/dramatic/indifferent (circle one or more) people who are now running the "business" of the HOA. The rest of the apathetic homeowners are just as happy as clams and don't seem to realize that their legal and financial interests are being represented by individuals who could care less about the legal and financial interests of ALL homeowners.

3. You buy into the subdivision with the mistaken belief that having the HOA will somehow protect your investment. The HOA has zero control over foreclosures and short-sales. The HOA may also fail to enforce the restrictions or sporadically enforce the restrictions so that in spite of the fact that (for example) all lawns will be maintained, you end up living next to the house with the worst lawn in the neighborhood (if not in the county). So much for having your investment "protected" under the blanket of a deed restricted community.

4. Everyone talks a good game about following the "rules" until someone tries to impose the "rules" over them and then it becomes OUTRAGE that they got a letter or demand to correct or fix their property. While it is at first mildly entertaining to watch a fellow homeowner rant and rave at the monthly Board meeting, it gets old after 10 years. Bonus points though if they are rip-roaring drunk while they air their grievance. Doing such ensures that it becomes legendary and talked about at barbeques, picnics, tennis games, Tupperware parties, etc for many years to come.

In the immortal words of Public Enemy: Don't Believe The Hype.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
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While only two, Ann & Kevin's replies strongly suggest that amenities per se aren't problems; poor governance is. And, as pointed out so often here, improving governance is in our (homeowners') hands. Takes lots of work and, often, courage.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
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Posted By CarolR11 on 06/08/2014 4:44 PM
While only two, Ann & Kevin's replies strongly suggest that amenities per se aren't problems; poor governance is. And, as pointed out so often here, improving governance is in our (homeowners') hands. Takes lots of work and, often, courage.

Well said.
KevinK7 (Florida)
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Posted By CarolR11 on 06/08/2014 4:44 PM
While only two, Ann & Kevin's replies strongly suggest that amenities per se aren't problems; poor governance is. And, as pointed out so often here, improving governance is in our (homeowners') hands. Takes lots of work and, often, courage.

Essentially. In my two situations it was extremely poor management and risk assessment. Those combined created an unknown liability that I did not want to be responsible for. Had I moved into a mandatory association with certain offerings I would be all for the HOA and being active in the company business, but I lived in a neighborhood that was designed to be voluntary that a few people hijacked. Unfortunately those who hijacked it were ambitious and moronic, which is another unhealthy combination.

For instance, the neighborhood lied to the county to receive grant money for beautification projects but then used that money to pay to install water meters and irrigation - a direct violation of the terms of the grant. Their rationale was that it was all going to the same place. What made this matter worse was they used this money on county right-of-ways since the HOA held no property, so not only did they squander this opportunity to really benefit the neighborhood, they did not secure it for the future. Or when they lied to the entire neighborhood and said their attorney will represent EVERYONE in court and not to worry about a single thing??!!

My other neighborhood wanted to build playgrounds and do full on renovations of a clubhouse when they lacked the funds to do so, paid an arm and a leg for seasonal yard work, and pursued legal enforcement of their covenants after they were notified that they did not follow the preservation requirements spelled out in the law. It just came to my attention that they foreclosed on a homeowner years after their covenants expired (the homeowner just now learned of the law). I did not want to be forced into membership of an organization that could potentially be involved in a huge lawsuit (like my first neighborhood).

And like I have said before, had the neighborhood acted appropriately, communicated clearly, and listened to reason instead of their groupthink mentality I probably would still be a member. Instead I researched the laws and got out and have saved thousands of dollars in the process.
RalphW2 (Florida)
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Ann, that is a very powerful reply you've made. I agree with you wholeheartedly. I do hope our young people w/huge student debt and the unlikely prospects of continued employment will rethink whether or not the choose to live in a HOA. Comments like yours need to be more prevalent so that young people are not enticed by the seduction. It's like one of those dates where you'd rather chew off your arm than wake up the girl.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
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Posted By RalphW2 on 06/09/2014 6:32 AM
Ann, that is a very powerful reply you've made. I agree with you wholeheartedly. I do hope our young people w/huge student debt and the unlikely prospects of continued employment will rethink whether or not the choose to live in a HOA. Comments like yours need to be more prevalent so that young people are not enticed by the seduction. It's like one of those dates where you'd rather chew off your arm than wake up the girl.

What is the correlation between Ann's remark and student debt? Will the debt not be there no matter where they choose to live? What does an HOA have to do with student debt?

Thanks

CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
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I'm also wondering about the logic of Ralph's remark, JohnC.
BanksS
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Posted By CarolR11 on 06/09/2014 1:51 PM
I'm also wondering about the logic of Ralph's remark, JohnC.

I'm guessing cost. There is a price for living in an HOA and by my standards some HOA's fees would be way out of my budget (and I am old.) I'm not speaking for Ralph but my interpretation is for young people to not let the "glam" of HOA living cloud their judgment when purchasing a home especially when some are saddled with a lot of student loan debt. As we all know costs rise and from some who have posted here sometimes that rise in HOA fees can be quite significant.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
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I guess i was think about the fact that fewer & fewer "young" people today can buy any kind of a home. Age of first homeownership has been rising for quite a few years now. And it's still also the case that most people don't have college degrees or debt. So, I just wasn't connecting the dots to real life.
JoK2 (California)
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Posted By JohnC46 on 06/09/2014 12:40 PM
Posted By RalphW2 on 06/09/2014 6:32 AM
Ann, that is a very powerful reply you've made. I agree with you wholeheartedly. I do hope our young people w/huge student debt and the unlikely prospects of continued employment will rethink whether or not the choose to live in a HOA. Comments like yours need to be more prevalent so that young people are not enticed by the seduction. It's like one of those dates where you'd rather chew off your arm than wake up the girl.


What is the correlation between Ann's remark and student debt? Will the debt not be there no matter where they choose to live? What does an HOA have to do with student debt?

Thanks


It's just ill placed political statement, ignore it.
RalphW2 (Florida)
Posts: 32
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Banks better expressed what I was trying to say when I addressed student debt. No political slam was intended. Costs in HOAs go up, and the more amenities the higher they go. Living HOA free is a better choice for young people if they can find a home outside of an HOA, which is becoming more difficult.
JoK2 (California)
Posts: 198
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HOA's have such an awful reputation that people have a bad mindset about them. It's the same rep as attorney's get. So no matter how good the board may be, the majority of the neighbors will call them: a group of highly uneducated/vindictive/self-serving/dramatic/indifferent or greedy, power hungry criminals and all the rest of the terms used on this forum.

NO matter the board, that mindset will never disappear. So it goes back onto the person who has to decide whether to buy into one. With or without amenities. It's all in what you make of it. I would buy into an HOA like this one again even with the possibility that the Board can go apesh*t because that can be stopped just by garnering the votes necessary to get that board kicked off.

Having done my time as a Director and then President, it blew my mind the stuff I heard some homeowners say. The hard truth is that 99% of the have no clue themselves, but that doesn't stop them from spouting off and causing and raising problems where there aren't any.

Everything in life is what you make of it. So if you want the pool and all that crap, they you have to have the BS that goes with it. And with the way our society is moving, living among each other in an HOA will prove to harder and harder because it's not about the good of the hood anymore.
MikeL13 (South Carolina)
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Posted By JoK2 on 06/10/2014 6:05 AM

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Having done my time as a Director and then President, it blew my mind the stuff I heard some homeowners say. The hard truth is that 99% of the have no clue themselves, but that doesn't stop them from spouting off and causing and raising problems where there aren't any.


You are entitled to your opinion. Is it possible the homeowners have a very good clue and you were just one of the power hungry BOD members? We appear to have a president that believes it is "his" community and not "our" community. Most I speak with feel he is out of touch, but like many places, owner apathy is rampant especially with less than half developed and most lots belong to out of state owners.
JoK2 (California)
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Posted By MikeL13 on 06/10/2014 6:33 AM
Posted By JoK2 on 06/10/2014 6:05 AM

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Having done my time as a Director and then President, it blew my mind the stuff I heard some homeowners say. The hard truth is that 99% of the have no clue themselves, but that doesn't stop them from spouting off and causing and raising problems where there aren't any.



You are entitled to your opinion. Is it possible the homeowners have a very good clue and you were just one of the power hungry BOD members? We appear to have a president that believes it is "his" community and not "our" community. Most I speak with feel he is out of touch, but like many places, owner apathy is rampant especially with less than half developed and most lots belong to out of state owners.

lol...
Me power hungry? Nope.
Me the one who found all the crap the previous mgmt companies did not do, and then had to spend a year to fix it? Yes that was me.
Me who was forced into spending way to much time and energy to get the HOA where it was supposed to be legally? YES. (I blame the work ethic instilled in me)
Me a board director who admitted their own lack of knowledge did not prepare them for being a director? Yes.
You? talking to people who feel the board is out of touch but doesn't do anything about it? again point proven.
Your second sentence proves my exact point. You know nothing at all about me, yet, your willing to accuse me of being a power hungry board member? Really? It sounds like you live on my street, and with the name you've logged in with, two doors down!
Darn right I am entitled to my opinion and it is based upon actual experience. When you've been a board member, you too can speak from experience. Thanks again for proving my point, er...my opinion!
SallyR3
Posts: 113
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Mike ... I agree with you. What follows is a little of a political statement ... Above all HOAs should teach us all why socialism can't work and doesn't work, Certain board members exclude their buddies and fellow board members from adhering to the rules. They are the elitists at the top of the food chain and know what they can get away with. Over time the community begins to deteriorate. Management companies only care about collecting their monthly check and aren't staffed to enforce the CC&Rs.

I was raised in a small community and I did a satellite image search expecting it would look terrible 57 yrs later. Quite the opposite ... Pristine small bungalows with yards maintained ... I wanted to move back.

Ralph, my hubby is President of our HOA and trying to get this HOA back on track ... It just might kill him in the process. He and I both agree that it's time to move south, but into an HOA we will not go. Whatever energy we have will go into renovating an old home as far away as possible from HOA socialism and gated communities. All we do is pay a monthly fee to subsidize all the amenities that are used by a very few. Aren't they lucky to have my money for their benefit? We value are freedom and for our remaining yrs want as much independence as we can possibly get.
MikeL13 (South Carolina)
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Jok, your reply is about bad management companies and repairing an illegal hoa. My response to your other post is about calling homeowners clueless.

Me, I am on a committee and attempting to learn as much a possible about hoa's and supporting my community as much as possible. There are many people here who try to improve things but just run out of commitment after being shot down all too often. It appears the long standing board has a management by intimidation stance and owners just give up.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
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Posted By JoK2 on 06/10/2014 6:59 AM
Posted By MikeL13 on 06/10/2014 6:33 AM
Posted By JoK2 on 06/10/2014 6:05 AM

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Having done my time as a Director and then President, it blew my mind the stuff I heard some homeowners say. The hard truth is that 99% of the have no clue themselves, but that doesn't stop them from spouting off and causing and raising problems where there aren't any.



You are entitled to your opinion. Is it possible the homeowners have a very good clue and you were just one of the power hungry BOD members? We appear to have a president that believes it is "his" community and not "our" community. Most I speak with feel he is out of touch, but like many places, owner apathy is rampant especially with less than half developed and most lots belong to out of state owners.


lol...
Me power hungry? Nope.
Me the one who found all the crap the previous mgmt companies did not do, and then had to spend a year to fix it? Yes that was me. . . .
Darn right I am entitled to my opinion and it is based upon actual experience. When you've been a board member, you too can speak from experience. Thanks again for proving my point, er...my opinion!

And this is a good example as part of the problem.

Statements are made that are not intended to put everyone into a specific category. Unfortunately, the way they are made (in this case, generalized) those to whom the statement does not apply to become defensive (hey, we are all human). Depending on various factors that can change from minute to minute, the defensive individual may lash out, laugh it off, keep silent and have the comment stew (to be brought up again at a later date), or disagree with the statement but can understand why it was made (by looking at the issue from the other perspective).

I do think that everyone can agree that there are certainly individuals who love to complain but not be part of the solution (To go to an extreme: I paid my assessment, you work for me, these are my whims, address them). I also think that everyone can agree that there are certainly individuals who serve only to address a personal agenda (simple: I want x and if I'm on the Board I can approve it extreme: My neighbor annoys me and if I'm on the Board I can force them to shape up or ship out).

I also think that everyone can agree that (regardless of the perspective) there are more complaints than compliments.

If everyone (and I'm talking in generalities) can take the time to think about what was said and try to look at the issue from the other persons perspective, you may not agree but you should have a better understanding of how to deal with the issue being discussed. However, we are all human and even if you try to do this all the time, there will be times that it simply doesn't happen. When that happens, hopefully the other person can still look at the issue from a different perspective vs. having that instance/comment be what you are remembered for.

That's my two cents.
PitA1
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worth $2,000,000.00
AnnH5 (Florida)
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I only wish I could post pictures of the sorry shape our "amenities" are in right now. Yes, it is all due to poor management. Our amenities will forever be tied to the management of the Association. As far as serving, that is all good and well unless you have a group of moronic tyrants on your Board. Try convincing these people that they need to repair and maintain the existing amenities and knock it off with their new "projects". It is an exercise in futility.

I will say this after 10 years with "HOA" experience. Our family would have been better off financially if we had just moved to a regular neighborhood that was near county parks and recreation centers. Paying a premium for "HOA" amenities that have now fallen into disrepair due to poor management over the last few years was a stupid move. Now when we go to sell our home and our prospective buyers see how lousy the amenities look, it will likely create another negative impact on us.
SallyR3
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Anne ... I really empathize with you. I'm on the Board and getting the tyrants to follow the CC&Rs is next to impossible. I'm always voted down and I've only been a Board member for a few months. I shouldn't say "voted" down because there's only been one meeting, but private conversations with the other members it's clear they want to keep friction in the community as minimum as possible, so if someone paints their home a color outside the approVed colors ... Not a word is said. Don't rock the boat. My community is over 30 yrs old and it's starting to slide. The CC&Rs are only important when the board wants to enforce picking up dog poo and collecting payments. And my Board is so week that they hired a management company to keep the money flowing in. And of course everyone complains that the management company never gets back to them.

But I'm with you ... Live near community parks if you have children. If you don't move as far away from an HOA as one can get. I can't imagine how bad a high rise condo would look after 30 yrs.

My recommendation ... Find a SFR outside a gated community with low crime statistics (I'm looking). Keep your independence. To be dependent on a group of people who are virtually no help is a crime.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
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Hey, Sally, there aren't any 30-year old high rises near us, but there's gorgeous twin towers near us that is 26 years old, and another single high rise of about the same age--also a few blocks away. The latter is considered the primo high rise in our urban area. They both are so attractive and functional because of healthy reserves, good management, and good governance. Are their monthly assessments high? You bet.
AnnH5 (Florida)
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Posted By CarolR11 on 06/11/2014 10:02 AM
Hey, Sally, there aren't any 30-year old high rises near us, but there's gorgeous twin towers near us that is 26 years old, and another single high rise of about the same age--also a few blocks away. The latter is considered the primo high rise in our urban area. They both are so attractive and functional because of healthy reserves, good management, and good governance. Are their monthly assessments high? You bet.

Carol, that is also a good example of "you might get what you pay for". Personally, if our assessments doubled tomorrow and the funds went into correcting all of the deficits, I would have no problem absorbing the additional expense. The sad fact is that our older, retired Board members would never be able to pay it (so why would they ever support raising the HOA assessments?). I have visited HOA communities that are beautiful but the assessments are also much higher. Who knows though, maybe higher assessments keep out the people who like to cheap things up and not invest in the community? Perhaps people who pay a premium actually expect a return on their investment?
SallyR3
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Anne I agree with you again. HOAs are better when developed for the wealthy as they have the resources to make sure their investment is protected. I know of many 30+ yr old high rises and while they were initially sold as the best of the best they eventually began to deteriorate.

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