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KarenP1
Posts: 41
Posted:
I am so frustrated with my self-managed HOA that I no longer participate in any association functions. After years of interaction with people who ignore our covenants, by-laws, state laws, rules, regs., roberts rules of order- and mounting late assessments; I just can't take it any more. I have tried in vain to provide info, links to web sites and seminars, speak out, join committees, run for the board. Everthing. I give up like the other 145 house holds in my HOA. Apathy abounds.
What Virginia needs is training for self-managed HOA's. Board members are not familiar with how to run an HOA and do whatever they want. Management companies now have to get training. We need self-managed boards to have it also.
Does anyone agree?
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
That is why many of us post here. It is for educating board members and those interested in their HOA. It is not really a sounding board to whine about issues and call people names. We believe there is a gap in education and understanding HOA documents. The answers you seek are in your documents but no one tells you how to use them.

It is frustrating and many of us have been there. I know the apathy was rampant in my HOA and had a con man President who ran the place carte blanche. I found that keeping to the documents, quoting them, and carrying a copy of them to each meeting helps in changing direction.

There is no reason outside or inside meetings to hold some kind of "workshop" of reviewing and discussing the rules. Take a section at a time and break it down. Take some baby steps before you start walking the talk.

Do NOT expect someone else to do the work. You want something done do it but with approval to take the lead. A HOA there is no "They" or "Them"...It is YOU and YOUR NEIGHBORS! Adopt that attitude and more will follow.

It takes leadership and hard work to make changes in your HOA. Lead by example. The example being the CC&Rs. If they do not work for ya, then take action to make changes. You find the power for change and education is in your hands if you all learn to work together.

Former HOA President
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By KarenP1 on 03/10/2014 3:21 PM
I am so frustrated with my self-managed HOA that I no longer participate in any association functions.

That's a shame.
By not participating you are allowing those who are willing to participate to make the decisions that will affect your life and your property.

However, that is a choice everyone has to make on their own.

Quote:
Posted By KarenP1 on 03/10/2014 3:21 PM

After years of interaction with people who ignore our covenants, by-laws, state laws, rules, regs., roberts rules of order- and mounting late assessments; I just can't take it any more.

Did you serve on the Board?

I can understand the frustration. Unfortunately, if individuals like yourself don't participate to try and make these things happen, then they will simply continue to occur.

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Posted By KarenP1 on 03/10/2014 3:21 PM

I have tried in vain to provide info, links to web sites and seminars, speak out, join committees, run for the board.

Provide info to whom, the Board or the membership?

All anyone can do is provide access to the information and be willing to take the time to explain it so those who are interested can understand it. You can't force individuals to attend or, if the do attend, actually learn.

Quote:
Posted By KarenP1 on 03/10/2014 3:21 PM

I give up like the other 145 house holds in my HOA. Apathy abounds.

Again, it's a shame that you have come to this decision.

Apathy, in my opinion, exists because:

1) Indivudals are happy with the way things are being done
2) The problems don't affect their wallet/pocketbook
3) Individuals bought into an HOA without understanding that they need to participate more than simply paying assessments and complying with the rules.

Even in Associations with management companies or property managers, there still has to be a Board of Directors, Officers and various committees.

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Posted By KarenP1 on 03/10/2014 3:21 PM

Board members are not familiar with how to run an HOA and do whatever they want.

Sometimes this is true. Other times, the individuals will take the time to learn.
I've also found that if there is a perception that someone knows how things are to be ran (either by presentation or simply the length of serving) others will take their que from that individual. They know that they are unaware and if it appears that you know what is happening, then they will often defer to your opinion.

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Posted By KarenP1 on 03/10/2014 3:21 PM

Management companies now have to get training.

Yep, that was recently adopted in VA.
They are also required to have continuing education.

The problem is, just like the seminars and information you provided, there is zero guarentee that the person attending actually understands what the information is. Certifications and degrees only indicate that someone was able to pass a test with the minimum score OR that they simply attended a seminar. It is zero indication that they are actually any good in the profession that they have chosen.

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Posted By KarenP1 on 03/10/2014 3:21 PM

We need self-managed boards to have it also.

This has been discussed in an earlier thread. See:Subject: Making unqualified volunteers qualified

There are questions that are unanswered. Here are some of them:

1) Are you willing to pay for the class and the time (as the individual may need to take time off of work) needed for the individual to attend?
2) With minimal participation now, would requiring training shrink the volunteers more or increase them? (I'm thinking decrease them)
3) If a Director is certified do they lose the legal benefits of being a volunteer?
4) If an individual is certified, should they then receive compensation for serving in a position that this certification was required?

Our attorney offers monthly seminars on different Association management topics. I've attended a couple of them. Unfortunately, since these seminars are during the day, I am unable to make all of them unless I take time off of work. Taking time off of work to attend a seminar is the same as taking vacation time away from my family.

Therefore, although I am happy to volunteer my time (and am one of the individuals who will take the time to verify a statute or governing document prior to making a decision) if I had to become certified or take mandated training, I would likely quit volunteering. I spend enough time away from my family completing my volunteer duties for the Association. It is all the time I'm willing to give (in fact, I'm trying to cut that amount down).
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Oh,

I applaud you for getting the information out there.

It took me three years of educating the membership before I saw the first changes start to occur. I only saw those changes because of an issue that affected the individuals wallet/pocketbooks (raising assessments). However, in that meeting, I could see that others were now asking the same questions I had asked earlier.

It took another two years before major changes were accomplished. However, changes did and are continuing to occur.

It doesn't happen overnight and you might never see the fruit of your labor. However, if you have spent time educating the membership, you may see changes in the future.
NancyG3 (North Carolina)
Posts: 342
Posted:
Karen - Me to. I agree with you. In NC there are bills pending regarding this. I just don't know how it will be enforced.
JeanneK3 (Maryland)
Posts: 562
Posted:
Karen:
I might have a resource for you but I can't post it here. Can you give me a personal e-mail address?
Jeanne
JanetB2 (Colorado)
Posts: 4,219
Posted:
Colorado now requires annual owner education:

38-33.3-209.7. Owner education

(1) The association shall provide, or cause to be provided, education to owners at no cost on at least an annual basis as to the general operations of the association and the rights and responsibilities of owners, the association, and its executive board under Colorado law. The criteria for compliance with this section shall be determined by the executive board.

Easiest if performed at the annual meeting. The problem is not everyone attends and you have some who just do not understand some things no matter how many different ways an item is explained.
DeeZ (Missouri)
Posts: 10
Posted:
Karen you have my complete sympathy. Please read my post under Deez. Our Board deliberately fired the Management Company so they could do what they want. They also ignore letters of correction and Attorney warning letters. They told me at our annual meeting last year "they can do what they want because they are the Board, and did not have to follow our bylaws or Indentures,"

Some of the responses to your post are from Board Members who obviously worked hard for their Associations and do not understand how unethical, and law breaking some Boards are. I would love to have them in our Association, but they would never have a chance to get voted in because of the proxy manipulation that is going on here. We have a BOD member who has been here since the very beginning with the builder, and now has two of his buddies on with him. He will and has done everything possible to stay on the Board including (our old Management Company told me) manipulate proxies.

Like you I have tried every route I can think of. I also used to help where necessary such as canvassing for special assessments and meeting quorum requirements.

Because of the threats I have received I am also at the point of giving up. Our bylaws and Indentures are difficult to read - they need to be rewritten to get the Builders information removed but our Board will not spend the money to do that since they don't want to follow them anyway, nor will they put an Attorney on retainer, they only pay a Attorney to figure out how to get around the rules.

I love my beautiful home and I have some of the most honest and kind neighbors you could ever hope for, but I would move in a minute if financially possible. Since I have been confronted on several occasion when I am outside I no longer feel safe in my yard or walking. I now live in a state of low anxiety ever time I step outside and that can not be good for my health.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Deez there is a completely different view as a board member that you don't see. Criticize their decisions all you want, but walk in their shoes a mile and you will be asking for compensation for "War wounds". Not saying that yours or anyone else's HOA doesn't do things wrong or "illegally". Just saying you have to see the OTHER side of things as well.

"Illegal" in the context of a HOA isn't the same as "illegal" you go to jail kind of thing. A HOA is ONLY managed by it's members for it's members. Which means the board is elected to represent the majority of what the members want. The rules being either soo old and not applicable any more, may mean they don't follow them to a "T". Doesn't mean they are "illegal" or doing things wrong. It just may mean that the rules aren't what members want and they can't afford to change them.

A HOA is ONLY funded by the members FOR the members. They can ONLY use the money they collect to pay for the things they want. No HOA needs an attorney on "Retainer". That's more fantasy than reality. It's cheaper and more flexible for a HOA to hire attorney's on a case to case basis. Lawyers are usually needed for things like filing liens/foreclosures, representing the HOA in court, and filing record changes at the courthouse. Keeping one around simply for advice and feedback is just an "extra" that drains the budget. Your asking they have one is not exactly the best solution for a HOA.

Your documents are PUBLIC. They are available at the courthouse or online. Those are your CC&R's and Articles of Incorporation. By-laws do NOT require to be filed but can be with the CC&R's as a "courtesy". It's the CC&R's that are the actual deed restrictions and to be followed. I don't know what your need was to hire a lawyer to get the HOA to provide this documents and spend the money of all the members on it.

Suing your HOA is suing yourself and your neighbors. You can't get around that statement no matter how much one tries or wishes. It is a FACT. However, stating that FACT, doesn't mean you should not sue. It simply means you need to accept this fact if you decide to sue as the consequence of your actions. Don't be all surprised if other members are NOT happy with you. Your going to sue your HOA, you should do it with the group of others that agree with you, than do it individually. Still if you have a group of members upset, your HOA rules do allow you all to act as a group to make changes without ever going to court.

You want change then do it yourself. Learn to follow the rules. That means gathering those wonderful votes to either vote the board out or to gather votes to rewrite the documents. Which can be done if you follow the Percentage of owners that will need to sign or meet to make those changes. It's going to cost a few thousand dollars to file, hire a lawyer, and lots of time collecting the needed signatures. It took us nearly 3 years and over 2K. Does your HOA have a few thousand to spare on such a project? If not, then that is why your board is not pursuing this option. It can only do what it can afford. End of story.

Former HOA President
JanetB2 (Colorado)
Posts: 4,219
Posted:
Well stated Melissa ... some members do not understand that the State Laws change and some of those changes will over time supersede some sections of old CCR's.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
All I am saying is the perception can be off by members if they don't understand the reasons behind the decisions. It's NOT black and white and all documented. Does that make it "wrong" "illegal" or "run by idiots"? No. I don't think so. You do the best that you can with what you got. If you got apathy in your HOA, then you do what is possible. The apathetic want you to do the impossible.

My rule has always been and still is... Do NOT present a problem unless you have a solution in mind. It does not have to be the 'right' solution. It just has to be a direction for the problem to be resolved with. Your HOA isn't following the rules you want them to? Then look that rule up and quote it. No need to get a lawyer involved. Bring the rules documents to the meeting and quote them. A lawyer can help TRANSLATE what that means if you want. However, a good business practice in a HOA is to have the rules available at the meetings and refer to them during to answer questions.

Rules get outdated or updated all the time. It's not always possible for your HOA to keep up with them. With everyone here wanting people to go to the legislature to make changes, they neglect to realize once those are adopted, your HOA has to adapt it's rules. Which requires to be filed, re-written, re-distributed (at cost or charged), and lawyers hired to file/write/advise. It is ALL in your documents to make the changes you want. Those changes just have to be what the MAJORITY wants.

Former HOA President
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
Melissa, when a state changes its statutes and they then conflict with an HOA's governing documents, the HOA does NOT need to go to the time & expense to change its docs. State laws ( which I think you're calling "rules") trump HOA docs unless the state law says otherwise. This often is expressed as "Unless an Association's documents say otherwise . . ."

It sounds to me like it wouldn't matter what Nancy or Dee's HOA documents say or state laws say. Their Boards are acting improperly if what Nancy & Dee write hasn't been exaggerated. If you read Dee's threa, her HOA's Board probably really has acted illegally.

I agree with those who say that each of them nee to gather as much support as possible and throw out these rogue boards. But it looks as though both have tried and haven't prevailed.

MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Remember most people seem to skim past that statement it must comply with local, state, and federal laws. They want them spelled out for them or claim illegal... Plus many do not know the new laws and board members do not keep up with them either. They barely keep up with the existing rules.

Example: Satellite dishes. Those are allowed now by the Feds. Most HOA documents still have them banned. The old huge discs existed back then and were eyesores. New technology they are smaller. People still come on here complaining about not having or moving their dishes. No one updated their documents to reflect this change. So guess who gets accused of illegal rule following and someone is not doing anything about it?

There are some things that do need spelled out. However, considering the expense and time of updating, it gets put on the back burner. Then you get those who now insist on following such and such rule without the concept of why it existed in the first place. Satelite dishes were banned for size. They were not banned because of any laws.

Take time to read your documents and again learn to write your comments by referencing the rule in violation. This educates all involved and gives the oportunity for those to decise to change it if it does not work or apply anymore.

Former HOA President
DeeZ (Missouri)
Posts: 10
Posted:
Thank you Carol you are exactly right. I am talking about breaking State Laws and Federal Lending Laws. I understand some Board Members have worked very hard we actually had one once upon a time but she was driven off by the actions of the other two.

If you go to Deez you will see what action a small group of us have taken in the last two years to correct our situation. I will add one member of our little group is an Attorney and she has now given up, as the only option she feels left is litigation.

It is not our intention to turn our Association into a war zone. We went about our actions quietly giving the BOD every opportunity and lots of time to correct.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
Melissa, you wrote the sweeping generalization: "Remember most people seem to skim past that statement it must comply with local, state, and federal laws. They want them spelled out for them or claim illegal... Plus many do not know the new laws and board members do not keep up with them either."

Perhaps your Board didn't know when new laws were passed that affected your HOA, but our Board certainly does!! And I think many other Boards knew these changes too! If the law conflicts with our governing documents, let's say our CC&Rs, we publicize the change in a newsletter or elsewhere. In Calif. there is NO REQUIREMENT to actually change a governing document with Owner votes when a new local, state, federal or other law changes. I'm thinking that might apply in many states but I don't know. What is the requirement in Alabama, Melissa?

Our old CC&Rs still say that dishes are banned, but for several years now, our Rules & Regs state those of 39 sq. inches are permitted. (I think we have two.) It cost nothing to insert that in our Rules and required no homeowner vote.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Carol

While not in this case, your example could be a classic case of the BOD trying to overrule Covenants with a Rule & Regulation.

In your case and for the sake of discussion. If ones Covenants could ban satellite dishes (which we agree they cannot do) then a Rule & Regulation trying to get around the ban (like limiting size) will not fly. Many BOD's try to do things like this all the time.

JoK2 (California)
Posts: 198
Posted:
Posted By MelissaP1 on 03/13/2014 3:41 PM
Remember most people seem to skim past that statement it must comply with local, state, and federal laws. They want them spelled out for them or claim illegal... Plus many do not know the new laws and board members do not keep up with them either. They barely keep up with the existing rules.

Yes, it is difficult for people to understand how all of the rules and regs apply and in what order. A very recent discussion on sheds came about because I suggested adding language to CCR's we are about to amend, to allow for sheds with some specific materials only. Our documents do not state anything about sheds other than they would need approval for one. The homeowner thought that the county code allowed for sheds, but the code she was referring to was only regarding what size shed required a permit or not.

A good reminder about not having the need to change documents just because the state or federal laws changed it for us.
DeeZ (Missouri)
Posts: 10
Posted:
I agree Carol. In my case not only does our Board not comply with our Bylaws and Indentures but they don't obey State Statutes or Federal Law if they stand in the way of something they want to do such as signing off on Licenses to give away our common grounds to themselves. I am concerned because they are following up with Quit Claim Deeds.

I am looking at the Special FHLMC Provision-- "By act or omission seek to abandon, partition, subdivide ,encumber, sell, or transfer all or any portion of the common ground which the Association owns, directly or indirectly ( the granting of easements for utilities or other similar purposes consistent with the intended use of the Common Ground shall not be deemed a transfer within the meaning of this subsection)This takes a 67% vote of the first mortgages or owners representing at least 67% of the total association vote consent.

They used the " granting of easements" in the 9 page License they have recorded at the county as justification for their ability to do so.

License Agreement
"Whereas, pursuant to authority granted under Article VI, Section 3 (there is another section but this is their main argument)

Indentures
3. Easements To exercise such control over the easements, streets, drives, trail systems, walkways and rights of ways except for such as have been or may hereafter be dedicated to public bodies or agencies as is necessary to maintain repair supervise and insure the proper use of said easements, streets, drives, trail systems, walkways and right of ways by necessary public utilities,........

One BOD member does not live on the common ground and has said repeatedly at our annuals meetings he doesn't gain anything from the common grounds and does not want to pay assessments for them and wants to give the common grounds away to the homeowners. Part of this is documented in our minutes.

These acts are not being done in ignorance they are trying to scheme to avoid rules and laws. I will add this was all done in secrecy. No records. No vote. No notification.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
JohnC, I purposely used an example of federal law that Melissa mentioned. It supersedes our CC&R on that topic. I would never suggest that any board do what you say "many" do "all the time."

I am sorry for you troubles, Dee.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By CarolR11 on 03/13/2014 6:46 PM
JohnC, I purposely used an example of federal law that Melissa mentioned. It supersedes our CC&R on that topic. I would never suggest that any board do what you say "many" do "all the time."

I am sorry for you troubles, Dee.

Carol

Sorry if you think it was an accusation. It was most certainly not meant as such.

I did feel it had the basis of a good example of how some BOD's try to get around thing with Rules & Regulations.

We see posts on here all the time asking how to get around and/or limit things such as rentals, pets, parking, out buildings, fences, etc.
JoK2 (California)
Posts: 198
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JohnC46 on 03/13/2014 5:47 PM
Carol

While not in this case, your example could be a classic case of the BOD trying to overrule Covenants with a Rule & Regulation.

In your case and for the sake of discussion. If ones Covenants could ban satellite dishes (which we agree they cannot do) then a Rule & Regulation trying to get around the ban (like limiting size) will not fly. Many BOD's try to do things like this all the time.


We just found this to true, BOD cannot write a resolution or such to "over rule" the CCR's. It is not legal to do so. The CCR has to be amended.
KarenP1
Posts: 41
Posted:
Don't know exactly how this works. How do we exchange personal email addresses?
KarenP1
Posts: 41
Posted:
DeeZ
I am so sorry you are going through such stress. I appreciate your understanding and all of the replies I have received. I have attended all meetings and participated in four committees throughout the last 8 years up until a year ago. I tried to focus only on important issues such as by-laws, deed of deciation, state laws, architectual rules; things like that. And quoted the appropriate documents. I was told we didn't have to follow them. Sometimes I was just looked at and met with silence. Members were allowed to make rude remarks and even call me bitch. These members were usually past board members or board members spouses. Those who agreed with me were silent during meetings, but would speak to me afterwards to say they agreed. They were afraid to speak up for fear of being treated badly. I did try to run for the board and the incumbants went out and got proxies from those who never attend meetings telling people I was bad for the board; and successfully voted me out.

It is time for new board members this month. Four board positons are open. The president posted a notice on our bulletin board that there was 1 opening. Our newsletter was just delivered. In it is stated that there are 4 positions. The 3 canditates listed are the current board members who are rerunning, leaving one position vacant. This means the 3 current board members whose terms are up get re-elected- no contest, because the vacancies were not announced. The president is one of these 3. This gives me an opportunity to go to the meeting and nominate myself for the 1 position left. Maybe I could get some changes made. But maybe I would risk a divorce in the process because of all the problems with this community and that would definately not be okay with me.....(my husband is as frustrated as I am and will not even talk about the assocaition).
KarenP1
Posts: 41
Posted:
Thank you for your post, Tim. When I speak of education for board members, I am considering basic understanding of what their role as a board is, what their responsibility is and where it comes from. What statutes apply to the HOA. What documents take president. What the by-laws and Deed of Dedication are. What the limits of the board's power is. Who determines what money can be spent in any given year. Who is responsible for what maintenance. Things like that.

I know this doesn't sound generic enough, but I think it can be made to be. I attended many seminars and they were very informative and covered many areas. I din't have to pay anything. I would have been willing to pay a nominal fee though. I do not believe we need as intensive training as was mentioned in past posts on this site, but we have uninformed people who may or may not want to do the right thing and have absolutely no idea what they are doing. I find that egos and power struggles get in the way. Some people are afraid of change.

The bottom line in my community is that my board members, even the very nice people, do not take the time to go on any web site or even read Roberts Rules to learn anything. They do not read state laws, they do not know what our documents say. Decisions are made, money is spent and that is that. Our membership organization is not member orientated.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Karen

Just to clarify, there are 4 positions on the BOD that will be up for election. There are 3 announced candidates (incumbents). Unless more then 4 run, by default they will be re-elected. You may not like this, but there is nothing wrong with that.

What you might consider is getting some others that you agree with to run. Get say a total of 6 running for the 4 positions. Of course this could mean that you might not get elected.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Posted By KarenP1 on 04/11/2014 3:08 PM
Don't know exactly how this works. How do we exchange personal email addresses?

You actually have to post your e-mail address or ask the person you want to write to to post theirs.

Understanding the concern of privacy, many members (like myself) will create an e-mail account specifically for this use. This way, your home or work e-mail is still kept private. Some service providers allow you to make up to x number of e-mails. If your service provider isn't one of those, you can utilize a web provider (like Hotmail, gmail, yahoo, etc.).

Hope this helps.

BTW, my e-mail is [email protected]

CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
Take JohnC46's advice, Karen. Make sure a real election occurs and that all of your HOA & state's election rules are followed. You must rally others.
SG3 (Pennsylvania)
Posts: 63
Posted:
"Apathy, in my opinion, exists because:

1) Indivudals are happy with the way things are being done
2) The problems don't affect their wallet/pocketbook
3) Individuals bought into an HOA without understanding that they need to participate more than simply paying assessments and complying with the rules. "

Learned helplessness and throwing in the towel can easily be added to this list.

Some boards do not want community participation. It makes their life easier. They just want to do whatever they want and make it impossible for anything else. They are in control and there is really nothing you can do about it.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
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Posted By SG3 on 04/14/2014 2:16 AM

1) Indivudals are happy with the way things are being done

Sometimes. Unfortunately, too often, it's the adage of ignorance is bliss.
It could be that if they knew what was actually happening, they would be ticked off.

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Posted By SG3 on 04/14/2014 2:16 AM

They are in control and there is really nothing you can do about it.

SG3,

If you truly believe this I don't understand why you are part of this forum. Most of the posters on this site have seen things that were simply wrong within their own Associations and took steps to correct it, and succeeded in correcting it.

Nobody will tell you it will be easy or that it will happen overnight. In my case, it took three years of educating the membership before there were any signs of membership becoming concerned. However, when they did become concerned, things happened and changes were made on the Board. It was a year after changes initially started when I was elected to the Board. The things I saw as a member were nothing compared to the things I saw as a Director. However, things continued to change and continued to get better.

What I'm saying is that there are things you can do about it. It simply depends if you're willing to be in it for the long haul or not.
SG3 (Pennsylvania)
Posts: 63
Posted:
Tim,

I'm not sure why you are disagreeing with your own quote.

We have had various groups organized and hired lawyers over several decades. Still a mess. People don't bother fighting it anymore. Newbies might start something up again, who knows.

Three years is nothing.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
SG3,

Perhaps it's my memory. Please show me where I stated that there is nothing you can do about a self managed board. I was of the impression I was disagreeing with your statement, which I quoted.
SG3 (Pennsylvania)
Posts: 63
Posted:
#1 is from your list above.

Tim Quoted By SG3 on 04/14/2014 2:16 AM

1) Indivudals are happy with the way things are being done

Tim:
Sometimes. Unfortunately, too often, it's the adage of ignorance is bliss.
It could be that if they knew what was actually happening, they would be ticked off.
SG3 (Pennsylvania)
Posts: 63
Posted:
Of course you can try. We had organized groups and lawyers Involved whether it was the developer, self managed, or an MC. Lots of legal fees people need to be prepared for. Talk talk talk that never resolved the problems.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
SG3, I stand corrected.

I thought you were referring to the other section I had expanded on where you said nothing can be done.

Yes, apathy can exist because people are happy with the way things are being done. Expanding (not disagreeing) on that comment would include the adage of ignorance is bliss. Since it's likely difficult to know for sure why individuals are happy it could be that:

1) They are happy because they are fully informed and agree with the way things are being done.

2) They don't have a clue what is going on but because it doesn't affect them directly, they are happy and believe things are great.

3) They are partially informed and are happy with the way things are being done and they are uninformed on other issues and, because of this lack of knowledge, believe all is right with their world.
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
No, Melissa,

the directors are elected to run a not-for-profit CORPORATION

NOT

cater to the whims of the members

AND

they are bound by state corporate law

IF YOU DON'T LIKE THIS FACT - DON'T LIKE IT - IT REMAINS A FACT

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