As I understand it, and I am not an attorney, an
action without a meeting, addressed under FL 617.0821, requires unanimous consent.
Without having unanimous consent, any decision that was made as an action without a meeting could be overturned if challenged through the courts.
The Board would be better off holding the meeting and have the four of them vote the same way (effectively making your vote irrelevant). At least this way it would be legal. Hopefully, the decisions they are making are in the best interest of the Association.
My suggestion, bring this issue up to them. If need be, take it back in front of the attorney.