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GeoM (Missouri)
Posts: 28
Posted:
A year ago I was registered here as user, OutCast. I was suing my Association for not following its Declaration, written in 1940 and provides a non-amendable assessment clause.

Just as in my Association, few in this forum could comprehend how a modern-day HOA could operate on 1940 funding. The reason is, simply, a dollar in 1940 was like $156 today. With an average annual wage of $1300, $10 was nearly 1% of that family income. Consider also that as a start-up, undeveloped plat of 600 lots, it needed much more money for building its infrastructure in the first 10-20 years (coming out of the depression and into WWII) than it does today, fully developed.

The services that were required then encompassed everything from mail delivery, street signage, snow plowing, maintenance of “common areas”, and more, whereas, once annexed into the metropolitan area, the city absorbed all those services. The “common” areas were taken over as rights-of-way, which I saw was an issue in another older post regarding a stone monument on their city-owned entrance. No longer do we have any common areas, although, similarly to the post just referenced, our BOD continues to pay both insurance and summer mowing (????) --costs approximating $4000 that are totally unnecessary, as is snow plowing ($1000-$3000) and private security ($8000-$10,000); our 3 or 4 largest encumbrances.

So, could this HOA continue to operate on $10 times 600 homes? Six thousand dollars would be more than enough to pay a secretary to take minutes at the Annual and Bored meetings and send out dues statements once a year. The astute reader will be quick to calculate that homeowners are then sending in their dues to pay a secretary to send out notices for which they will again pay their dues so that she can be paid to bill residents, ad infinitum. The question then becomes whether it might not be smarter to dissolve the Association.

That is not my present plight, however. Having won my small claims case by claiming back dues owed to me of nearly $400 plus court costs, the HOA-selected attorney filed for Trial de Novo and is putting me through the hoops as far as Motions, Continuances, late Interrogatories (he missed 3 dates), etc., etc., for which I must research and prepare responses. I am learning as I go. I have been once granted a motion by the judge and had motions twice denied. The BOD is already in debt to the attorney for more than $5,000 to keep from paying me $400, which is totally, legally, and contractually mine to be awarded, and in line with our Declaration. There is no doubt they are not willing to lose to me because to do so, they will have to admit they have skinned the residents for the past.....years. Three “elder statesmen” of the 6 current directors have, between them, over 115 years residency and 23 years Board service. Seeming to be no morality among them, the litany of conflicting (in)actions to the governing documents is mind-blowing whether by this BOD or the multiple others in my 15-year residency. Even the attorney, in my interrogatories responded to the question of the meaning of Fiduciary Duty that it “has different meanings in different contexts.” Ummm, no. Rife on the internet can be found the 4 responsibilities of the Duty in any number of settings, but always the same meaning.

We have 2 months to go till trial. I'm sure I will get many more roadblocks thrown at me. I can only hope that on the big day, the judge will severely reprimand or even sanction the attorney for taking so much of the court's time with frivolous motions on a case that is pretty much cut and dried. I think not many Circuit court judges overturn the ruling of the lower (small claims) court. Am I asking a question? Not really. Not yet. But I welcome any responses from my previous nemeses as well as supporters.
BanksS
Posts: 403
Posted:
I remember you Geo and the vitriol that was ignited when you posted about your lawsuit. Now the HOA is appealing a $400 judgment and spending over $5,000 in legal fees. Sounds like a clear violation of fiduciary duty to me.

I'm still with you on dissolution. With no common elements to maintain and your services are provided by the city, you don't need an HOA.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,061
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Posted By GeoM on 02/14/2014 5:16 PM

A year ago I was registered here as user, OutCast.

I was going to post a link to the initial thread.
However, there doesn't appear to be any threads posted by a user named "outcast"

Perhaps the thread was so volatile that the moderators deleted the the thread.
Perhaps the spelling of the username is incorrect.

However, I do remember past discussions around such a case. It's a shame we can't link to the initial thread.

Geo, thank you for the update.

Tim
BanksS
Posts: 403
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Posted By TimB4 on 02/14/2014 7:15 PM
Posted By GeoM on 02/14/2014 5:16 PM

A year ago I was registered here as user, OutCast.


I was going to post a link to the initial thread.
However, there doesn't appear to be any threads posted by a user named "outcast"

Perhaps the thread was so volatile that the moderators deleted the the thread.
Perhaps the spelling of the username is incorrect.

However, I do remember past discussions around such a case. It's a shame we can't link to the initial thread.

Geo, thank you for the update.

Tim

Try OutC
GeoM (Missouri)
Posts: 28
Posted:
Note to Larry, et.al.,

The judge granted both my Leave of the Court and my Amended Petition after the attorney motioned to dismiss. Even after the judge's order, the attorney has again created a motion to dismiss.

The attorney required his Interrogs and Production of Documents be returned in 30 days which date I met. He did not complete mine in 30, requested an enlargement of time and then missed his own deadline 10 days later. That's when I petitioned the court to compel him to respond and asked for sanctions. Judge denied my motion, but gave the attorney 11 more days, which he also missed. If I had an attorney, s/he would probably ask for sanctions again. I know I run the risk of p*ssing off the judge since I'm pro se, so what I did was to write a letter to the court for the file, rather than a motion.

Because it is the time of year when our BOD begins to consider budget setting I motioned for an injunction against distribution of annual assessments (April). When the Board found out about my injunctions, they stopped plans to set the budget and ROA. However, current and past BODs have set long-standing precedents (4 years) of fighting me regarding their following the Declaration's ROA and have made statements that they have no intention to ever pay me. When I found out last week that the atty has not received my Production of Documents request in a letter stating he "must have overlooked them" (I hand-delivered them to him personally with my Interrogs). Without the financial info I requested in those PODs (bank statements, all accounts, etc.), I am unable to research if there has been any attempt to spend down or hide Association resources. So I also requested an injunction to freeze association assets. After 40 days, the judge denied both injunctions. I expect the BOD to now begin the process of the budget and mailing assessments.

I'm not sure where all this is going, except to demonstrate to Larry that I am pursuing this with a slightly more than "messianic belief" that I am right. I am unacquainted with Larry's background, but I estimate I've spent at least 1000 hours on how to prepare my defense and keep up with the att'y stall tactics.

Could I stop at any time? No. To do so would place all current and future residents (heirs, successors, and assigns) at the mercy of continuing and equally hubristic Boards.
Could the Board stop at any time? Yes, unequivocally. They will [probably] lose again.

I am not so hard-headed as to believe that I can't lose, but if I do, it will be on a technicality of law, rather than on the merits of the case. One judge in this decade (my small claims court) has already spoken. And in 2004-05 another resident took the Association to court on the same issues and the Declaration was upheld by 2 judges then as well. That case was buried to the residents until 2010 when I discovered the document just as that Plaintiff did.
FrankS10 (Kansas)
Posts: 276
Posted:
Nice to see a principled person. Best wishes!
JonD1
Posts: 2,350
Posted:
So Out I have to wonder the purpose if any for your return.

Sounds like you are still tangled up in the legal system with no end in sight.

I remember you were less then forthcoming with some of the details in your situation and sometimes provided your version but not the missing parts.

The $400 you were awarded covered what period of time?

Your legal expenses in this matter amounted to how much?

And you have 1000 into this on principle.

My guess would be the Board and perhaps your fellow owners would see your actions in a
Very different light than your presentation.

And as other crusaders you make claim their efforts are made to serve the owners who in many cases don't support their actions,
The present owners which would include the current Board and any and all future owners for whom you speculate.

Just have to wonder besides yourself who appointed you savior for groups of people who have not asked you to do so?

And just like Chris from Jersey you too seem to not understand after you sue YOU do not then get to decide how things go or how the other side responds. Whether your Board resists your actions or appeals any decision is not YOUR call.

And as with Chris and others when the opposing side YOU sued doesn't roll over they and the legal system are now at fault.

So in the end this is not about protecting others that is a smoke screen. And despite YOUR claims you too could drop this $400,
crusade. But my guess you won't because being right and proving that is all that matters to folks like you.

As I remember you sued for yourself alone no one else.

Sort of brings into question those you claim to be protecting......
BanksS
Posts: 403
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Posted By JonD1 on 02/15/2014 4:34 AM
So Out I have to wonder the purpose if any for your return.

Sounds like you are still tangled up in the legal system with no end in sight.

I remember you were less then forthcoming with some of the details in your situation and sometimes provided your version but not the missing parts.

The $400 you were awarded covered what period of time?

Your legal expenses in this matter amounted to how much?

And you have 1000 into this on principle.

My guess would be the Board and perhaps your fellow owners would see your actions in a
Very different light than your presentation.

And as other crusaders you make claim their efforts are made to serve the owners who in many cases don't support their actions,
The present owners which would include the current Board and any and all future owners for whom you speculate.

Just have to wonder besides yourself who appointed you savior for groups of people who have not asked you to do so?

And just like Chris from Jersey you too seem to not understand after you sue YOU do not then get to decide how things go or how the other side responds. Whether your Board resists your actions or appeals any decision is not YOUR call.

And as with Chris and others when the opposing side YOU sued doesn't roll over they and the legal system are now at fault.

So in the end this is not about protecting others that is a smoke screen. And despite YOUR claims you too could drop this $400,
crusade. But my guess you won't because being right and proving that is all that matters to folks like you.

As I remember you sued for yourself alone no one else.

Sort of brings into question those you claim to be protecting......

JonD1,

You asked Out what her purpose in returning to the site is. I often wonder what your purpose here is.

Hmm the prospect of possibly getting $400 from the HOA, never having to pay them again, and getting rid of the HOA for good. Doesn't sound too bad of a prospect to me.

I applaud her for paving the way for others.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,061
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Posted By BanksS on 02/14/2014 7:48 PM

Try OutC

Thanks Banks, that found it.

Here is the initial thread: Subject: Suing my HOA

It was the thread that went off of the initial posting when Mike joined the discussion.

Please don't reactivate that thread.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,061
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Posted By JonD1 on 02/15/2014 4:34 AM

So Out I have to wonder the purpose if any for your return.

Jon,

Out/Geo did specify that her reason was to provide an update. She won her case but it is being appealed. Perhaps in an attempt to make her spend enough money that she will consider the fight is not worth the cost and drop the legal action. Attorneys are taught to deny, deflect and delay for the sole purpose of frustrating the other party (probably to also ring up billable hours) in the hopes the case will be dropped.

I do understand fighting the good fight on principal alone. Therefore I don't have a problem with anyone doing that. I believe that this is what I did in my issue with my Association (as I could have resolved the issue simply by spending $200 on a storm door).

I also agree with you that comments of fighting the fight for others is typically just rationalization to continue the fight. If others benefit from the fight, great! However, individuals typically fight a fight because it benefits them.

I liked thinking that I fought the fight I did in my Association for others. In reality, I didn't. I fought the fight because what they were doing to me (even though they were doing it to others) affected me (and it was against VA law). To be honest, had it not affected me, I likely wouldn't have fought the fight I did and would not have served on the Board (as there was an understanding that if they left me alone, I would leave them alone). Now, I'm glad I fought the fight. I'm glad others benefited. I'm glad of the changes that occurred because I fought the fight. To be honest, I fought the fight for me.

GeoM (Missouri)
Posts: 28
Posted:
Jon, you rightly assess that I am [still] embroiled in the middle of the legal system. However, your bullying questions are of the type that serve no purpose and of the type that my "good-ol'-boys-club-BOD" has managed to maintain for decades.

The border at the top says "A forum for Community Association Boards & Other Volunteers to discuss topics concerning their association duties" so:

I have "volunteered" (twice) for a position on the Board and been voted (twice) to the position as director; the first time as secretary by vote of that Board--most probably because knowing the secretary does not get a vote they thought they could "tuck me away". But the information I was privy to (archived docs, etc.) was far more valuable than any vote in which I could have participated--and lost, due to being a minority anyway.

Do not insult me by stating I was "less than forthcoming" in my former posts or that I have a smokescreen agenda now. It was (and apparently still is to some people) a very complex issue. It is difficult (for some) to wrap their heads around why a document would specify a non-amendable ROA. In order to change the ROA the document and thus the Association would need to be terminated, requiring a vote of "the owners of 2/3 of the property". Notice the clause does NOT say 2/3 of the owners...quite a different requirement! Also difficult to comprehend is the $10/yr average dues structure, which, for all purposes, even if the assessments had not been recently and illegally demanded at 5-10 times higher, is nonetheless, duplicitous now that the city has overtaken all those former duties as written into the Declaration. That was my point about paying the secretary to send out notices merely so she could get paid to do it all over again the following year.

In that vein, I am not trying to dissolve the HOA; just saying that it doesn't make sense. But $10 a year is chump-change to most who will more than likely not take the time to consider the issue. It would take more space than this forum would allow if I were to list the ways in which BODs of the past 4 years have not complied with their CC&Rs, but methinks there are some who don't care, and those who do care are experienced in similar issues of their own.

Remember, all ANYONE can do is to present an issue IN THEIR OWN VERSION. Does it matter the period of time the back dues covered? Does it matter my legal expenses? (filing was $63); and I know your intent was not to mislead anyone by not clarifying the 1000 I'm "into on principle"; it's HOURS, not dollars!

You lead the reader to assume you would not be at the forefront if your association suddenly billed you multiple times what your CC&Rs allow. Should one suppose you would just roll over and say "I sure don't want to sue myself!" and pay. Or perhaps you are fortunate enough to have a BOD that actually FOLLOWS its CC&Rs and realizes what Fiduciary Duty means.

With the minions who come here looking for answers, do not assume that all Board members are working transparently or for the good of all without personal bias (1st Fiduciary Duty). Do not assume that either first-timers OR old-timers know (or care) what is in their documents. And do not assume that everything has to be about the money. Do you really think I need $400 badly enough for the privilege of being able to say "I'm right."? If you knew that yours and all future residents of your association were at risk for increasing and fluctuating assessment based on....nothing, WWYD?

Yes, I am suing as an individual member, but an award stating the Declaration ROA has been violated (2nd time for me, 4th for the organization) will definitely bring an outcry from enough of the 600 members that the BOD will no longer be able to pick and choose their annually-fluctuating "wish list." There are consistently 150 (1/4) who do not pay their assessment from year to year. This year, although the assessments were reduced $5 from the previous year, there are currently over 200 (1/3) who have not paid for the current fiscal year (April 1-March 31).

The purpose for my return was to search the forums to see if I could find answers to assist me with some legal procedures, but having forgotten how soon one's principles and objectives are attacked, perhaps I erred.

ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
Posts: 120
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Outcast/Geo - Don't take the bait and entertain stupidity from the likes of those who have nothing of value to say. Assumptions/IMOs/beliefs which are followed-up with comments about your failure to understand anything and your need to seek mental help/watch Dr. Phil are not worthy of your time. Only address topics worthy of your time and not "take the bait" of those who are so utterly jealous of the courage/tenacity those with integrity have (which they CLEARLY LACK) that they can only attack the person to make their pathetic "points" - if you can even call gutter-level jibes at you a "point." These "people" have no points. They live to insult. Nothing more. You won. That's the fact. Keep on!!! As will I. Proud of you.
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
Posts: 120
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Posted By FrankS10 on 02/15/2014 3:43 AM
Nice to see a principled person. Best wishes!

Anyone who has integrity can appreciate a person standing up for any right. Those who wish to stop a person from pursuing what they believe is right are nothing but cowards What does one person's fight have to do with them? Why would they seek to stop it? Either they have something to lose if the party is victorious OR they are so jealous of courage that they can't stand looking in the mirror -- lashing out because they can do nothing else to stop what they don't have the courage/fortitude to do.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
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Posted By GeoM on 02/15/2014 7:11 AM
do not assume that all Board members are working transparently or for the good of all without personal bias (1st Fiduciary Duty).

In reality, it would be almost impossible to make decisions without the personal bias that makes us us. Everyone, due to culture, upbringing, and personal experiences have some form of bias. The best we can do is regonize that the bias is there and try our hardest not to let it influence the decisions we make. However, we are all human and often our personal bias does affect our decisions. Sometimes we try so hard not to let personal bias enter decisions that we question facts that don't need to be questioned in an attempt to not be biased.

Excellent point Geo.

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Posted By GeoM on 02/15/2014 7:11 AM

Do not assume that either first-timers OR old-timers know (or care) what is in their documents.

Again, an excellent point.

Even if they read the documents, many will think that they are recalling what the documents say and, if not questioned, will act on what they think is correct instead of actually looking up the applicable document or statute before making a decision. In my opinion, it's not intentional, it's just laziness or the desire to wrap up the meeting and go home.

FrankS10 (Kansas)
Posts: 276
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Chris,

Just to be sure, my post was sincere! I appreciate what you and Geo are doing, both your actions within your HOA and your participation on this forum. At times I have certainly been late to the party with enough courage to stand up to what many of us have experienced, but not any more. I wish both of you the best!
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,061
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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/15/2014 10:30 AM

Anyone who has integrity can appreciate a person standing up for any right. Those who wish to stop a person from pursuing what they believe is right are nothing but cowards

I think cowards is an awfully harsh and incorrect word to be used here.

It takes courage to go against the tide and question what is being done. If people didn't step up and try to stop some individuals from doing what they think is right, the world would be a different place. For example, look at the wars, the Inquisition, etc. Heck, keep it closer to home, look at the whistle blowers who bring things to light. They stepped up to try and stop those who believed they were doing the right thing.

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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/15/2014 10:30 AM

What does one person's fight have to do with them? Why would they seek to stop it? Either they have something to lose if the party is victorious OR they are so jealous of courage that they can't stand looking in the mirror

OR they are pointing out issues that one who has a personal interest in the fight might not see because they are focused on other things.

Only the individuals involved in their fight can decide at what point enough time, energy and money has been spent that the fight is no longer worth fighting. Sometimes, those in the fight don't see what they have expended but others around them (or others that are brought into the discussion) might see what has been expended and simply point it out. Lets not kill the messenger because we don't like the message.

Additionally, those who speak against another posters actions can help the poster hone their arguments. They can prepare you for questions or reactions you may receive from others. Perhaps, by speaking up and giving the poster those benefits, they believe that they are doing the right thing. To use your own words, would you then be considered a coward because you are trying to stop them?

I don't always appreciate the methodology used by those who question me. As a human being, it's second nature to become defensive to such actions. However, if I can get over the defensiveness and listen to other opinions, I will certainly gain the benefits that might be provided. They might even show me a way to resolve the issue that my personal experiences and research didn't reveal.

JonD1
Posts: 2,350
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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/15/2014 10:21 AM
Outcast/Geo - Don't take the bait and entertain stupidity from the likes of those who have nothing of value to say. Assumptions/IMOs/beliefs which are followed-up with comments about your failure to understand anything and your need to seek mental help/watch Dr. Phil are not worthy of your time. Only address topics worthy of your time and not "take the bait" of those who are so utterly jealous of the courage/tenacity those with integrity have (which they CLEARLY LACK) that they can only attack the person to make their pathetic "points" - if you can even call gutter-level jibes at you a "point." These "people" have no points. They live to insult. Nothing more. You won. That's the fact. Keep on!!! As will I. Proud of you.

Chris would that also mean that after 6 years you too would be a winner?
Did you successfully stop the gas line project? Did you win in your suit against the judge? Has your blog and videos of snow removal accomplished anything and if so what? From your atitude you sound frustrated and powerless. Not much like a winner. From your baseless claims that anyone who differs with you then has made this discussion sexist in nature you appear far from positive or open. Left to whine abou how things should be in YOUR world which will never come to pass.

As you seem to have the power to declare who in fact prevailed I just have to wonder just what has OUT won? $463???

And just how has her fight benefitted the other owners. Those like you that you both claim to be protecting?

Lets be real your neighbors more than likely don't support your views.
And even if we assume your description of the goings on a your property are true how is YOUR behavior and actions working for you?

Suing a sitting judge. Just how far did you think that would go? And why bother? To be a PIA.

How'd that work out?

Yes keep telling yourself you are the winner...............
JonD1
Posts: 2,350
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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/15/2014 10:30 AM
Posted By FrankS10 on 02/15/2014 3:43 AM
Nice to see a principled person. Best wishes!


Anyone who has integrity can appreciate a person standing up for any right. Those who wish to stop a person from pursuing what they believe is right are nothing but cowards What does one person's fight have to do with them? Why would they seek to stop it? Either they have something to lose if the party is victorious OR they are so jealous of courage that they can't stand looking in the mirror -- lashing out because they can do nothing else to stop what they don't have the courage/fortitude to do.

Chris:

Just to set the record straight. I worked for 14 YEARS to remove the Board and MC on the propery where I now reside. Now I'm sure that doesn't fit into your version of who is a coward and who is worthy of support. So after you clean house down there in Jersey perhaps then you can compare your COURAGE to that of others. Or perhaps your ability in accomplishing the goal a hand. Before than not so much.

And to be clear I don't give a rat's behind if you continue on your crusade. Hell there has to be a few more judges you can file something against.

In my view you are blind. Unable to see the course of action you have decided on will NOT succeed. And you live in a world of extremes. Those who don't see things like you get called sexists. Even the women! All HOAs are CANCER! All CAI each and every member and chapter are CANCER because on your one property out of tens of thousands left a bad tase in your mouth.

You MIGHT be fighting the good fight bu the reality is you aren't real good at it. Because if you were you might consider the possibility someone who has accomplished what you have not MIGHT offer something worth listening to besides your own voice.

As Dr. Phil would say, "If your were my life manager I would fire you."

JonD1
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Posted By TimB4 on 02/15/2014 6:28 AM
Posted By JonD1 on 02/15/2014 4:34 AM

So Out I have to wonder the purpose if any for your return.


Jon,

Out/Geo did specify that her reason was to provide an update. She won her case but it is being appealed. Perhaps in an attempt to make her spend enough money that she will consider the fight is not worth the cost and drop the legal action. Attorneys are taught to deny, deflect and delay for the sole purpose of frustrating the other party (probably to also ring up billable hours) in the hopes the case will be dropped.

I do understand fighting the good fight on principal alone. Therefore I don't have a problem with anyone doing that. I believe that this is what I did in my issue with my Association (as I could have resolved the issue simply by spending $200 on a storm door).

I also agree with you that comments of fighting the fight for others is typically just rationalization to continue the fight. If others benefit from the fight, great! However, individuals typically fight a fight because it benefits them.

I liked thinking that I fought the fight I did in my Association for others. In reality, I didn't. I fought the fight because what they were doing to me (even though they were doing it to others) affected me (and it was against VA law). To be honest, had it not affected me, I likely wouldn't have fought the fight I did and would not have served on the Board (as there was an understanding that if they left me alone, I would leave them alone). Now, I'm glad I fought the fight. I'm glad others benefited. I'm glad of the changes that occurred because I fought the fight. To be honest, I fought the fight for me.


Tim:

Thanks for the repsonse.

At least lets be honest. I did not join my Board to protect the owners.
I joined to see how my property was being run. I have not served for 27 years solely to do God's work. Or protect "future" buyers. I'm just not buying that line of BS. What your're trying to do is drum up support, real or in these case imagined from those who could not care less or don't agree with what it is YOU stand for. WE ALL is acually YOU!

For me the pattern is clear. In many ways similar to some other who have visited this site.

Sam Judie the fool from out west who ran for the Board quit and then writes a blog downgrading his own property. Like a small child blaming all the wrong on everyone and everything.

Mike Reardon the crusader from Mass. He was fighing for truth, justice and the American way. Or at least his version of all three. All HOAs every last one of them was corrupt and evil. And if you don't agree you are a coward, Nazi, anti-American and any other label that makes you less than him. Four lawsuits later and thousands down the drain his big plans for nationwide reform flowed down the drain.

Then we have OUT who works to protect her fellow owners but fails to consider the Board members are also owners.She has eliminated them as part of that group. Suggests "her" plan would require the HOA now be dissolved but knows the reality is that will never happen. Who makes the claim the Board can blink any time but some force greater than any of us knows prevent HER from ending this nonsense over $463 on principle. And what has this cost the other owners in legal fees? The same owners OUT professes to now protect. It does not.
And one year later with no end in sight OUT wonders why things have not gone as she had hoped. Because when you sue people they have the right to respond in any manner logical or not and not based on whether it is understood by you or serves YOUR agenda.

And Chris who fights for repairs, fights easements for gas lines, fights for proper snow removal and fights to reform the judicial branch of government. Not once has she mentioned the legal costs to her property.
Not once has she mentioned the support other owners have provided her. But she too fights for them. Even IF they have never asked for her help or representation. She has to do this anyway.

In most cases are these folks serving on their Boards? NO Have they ever served? Well they can' seem to get themselves elected? So they come to this site set up to serve as a place where "community" leaders meaning elected, not self appointed, can come to share ideas and knowledge.
What part did they all miss?

And what really makes me laugh they now come to this site and preach about how and why to do things. Has Mike had success? NO Has Sam reformed his community? NO. Has OUT brought about some drastic change to the membership and actions of her Board? NO Has Chris put together a blueprint on how to succeed in bringing about change to your HOA? NO

Sort of like taking finacial advice from someone residing under a bridge in a cardboard box. Each claims to know it all just never has worked and never will.

My suggestion before you cry out for statewide and national reform as it exists in your mind's eye perhaps you should set an even more limited goal for yourself, clean up your own property first. Before you make claims about the dysfuction that exists, the dishonesty that YOU see everywhere, questioning the very need or purpose of any HOA that exists today, based on an article you read, better you check yourself and tap your brakes a few times. IMO the fact that in most cases you have failed to clean up your own backyard suggests to me in that endeavor you have bitten off more than you can chew.

So preach on. Continue to offer all that you know which has never worked.
Now that's valuable information and worth coming to sites like this to share.

Fighting the good fight is admirable but not when it becomes twisted with self-serving agendas that no longer in any way serve the community but rather your inflated ego and needs.

Sam meet Mike meet OUT meet Chris

GeoM (Missouri)
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Jon, you are a really mean-spirited person. You turned my question on contract law last year into an excessive 4-page sparring contest with another poster. That is why I have not been back. Likewise another person who asked how to remove her name from getting so many emails every time a response was posted. You did never respond to my questions in last year's thread, you just disappeared. So, rather than respond to your "black-hole of questioning" I am herewith (I learned that word all by myself by doing my research as my own attorney!) pasting them again for your response.

How many people are on your Board of directors?
How long is each term...rotating/overlapping?
What has been each current director's length of service?
Do you pay HOA dues, or are you excluded from such while "volunteering?
Was I pretty close when I determined your annual dues at $3100?
Do your Board members claim that as income if dues to them are exempted? (Seems you may owe both the IRS and your HOA in excess of $85,000 for your years of service.)
What is the range of costs of units in your HOA...assuming a condo, or if otherwise, please clarify?
Are you on a golf course, lake, or oceanside?
What, exactly, are the amenities that you pay so dearly for?
Are any HOA provided amenities also duplicated by your [or nearby] city?
How many times have you or your Assn been called into court by a resident's lawsuit?
How many times has your Association sued a resident?
How many times did your HOA retain an attorney?
How many times did your HOA win the case...as plaintiff....as defendant?
Have you or any of your Board members ever been sued individually?
What was the outcome?
How many (or percentage) of residents attend the Community meetings?
Has your association ever been taken to court by the State for non-payment of taxes?
Has your association ever had 'Administrative Dissolution' applied to it by the Secretary of State office?
What are the terms of your CC&Rs regarding dues, percentage increases, and fines for non-payment?
Do you follow to the letter what your CC&Rs say about charging assessments and late fees?
Do you follow to the letter of those charges when filing a lien?
Have you ever exempted part of a resident's assessment for any reason?
If so, why? If not, state what happened to that resident.
How many foreclosures has your HOA experienced in the last 25 years?
How do you determine what figure to provide the title company or federally backed loans when negotiating a bad debt?

Anyone else have questions they would like to ask Jon?
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
Posts: 120
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Posted By GeoM on 02/15/2014 7:11 AM

Do not insult me


Geo, you're getting upset for no reason. You came here to find out information and share ideas. You don't need to be insulted. Don't take the bait. Don't let them switch the topic. Don't entertain wild accusations and assertions. These are lawyer/BOD tactics 101. They live to switch the topic and make YOU defend yourself. See it for what it is and let them spew their ridiculous comments. The rest of us can go on and talk (and vent) about our experiences without including those who only know how to debate in assumptions and attacks.

If you feel the comments are insulting, why even address the party? If some crazy person starting calling you names in a store, you'd walk away. Do the same here. Turn your back on those that make wild claims blended with insults combined with advice on how you should handle what is important to YOU. Don't take the bait and crawl in the gutter with them. You know what you've done and why you have done it. You are an owner and the law is on your side that you have a right to do what you choose to do to protect what is YOURS. You are in the right. Never forget that.
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
Posts: 120
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Posted By GeoM on 02/15/2014 5:12 PM
Jon, you are a really mean-spirited person. . .

Anyone else have questions they would like to ask Jon?

Nope. No reason to speak with him at all, Geo. And I would suggest you stop wasting your time as well. There are good people out there who understand why you did what you did even if they don't know all of what you did and why. Deal with them. And only them -- you don't need to crawl in the gutter. Don't lower yourself. You have the high ground and you are speaking as to your rights in the law. You have the law, they have insults. End of story.
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
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I think cowards is an awfully harsh and incorrect word to be used here.

It takes courage to go against the tide and question what is being done. If people didn't step up and try to stop some individuals from doing what they think is right, the world would be a different place. For example, look at the wars, the Inquisition, etc. Heck, keep it closer to home, look at the whistle blowers who bring things to light. They stepped up to try and stop those who believed they were doing the right thing.


Are you making the argument for or against the word "coward"? I'm confused. People who don't speak up for their rights and fight fights of importance are cowards in my opinion -- and that opinion won't change. However, I agree with your entire paragraph below which explains what courage is. I agree 100%. So we find ourselves in a curious place.

But it's cool to disagree on terms. I will stick with "coward" because I think it's selfish and terrible and cowardly to only speak up when an issue related to one's own interest. I can't do that. I step up when people are being bullied, drunk women are being pulled into places against their will, when cars are being robbed... I've stopped many, many crimes in my life -- and I can live with what I've done. I'm glad I was put where I was to take action where I could to help another human being.

As per my COA, when a woman got flooded from water running into her home for the third time this past year and her OWN insurance company wouldn't pay for the damage again, I stepped up when she was WRONGLY told by my "trustees" that it wasn't their issue and they wouldn't put a claim in for her on the COA's policy for her damages -- caused by a common element drain issue. They actually told her to "clean your drain." It's NOT her drain and that wasn't the issue!

So I screamed bloody murder and stated the fact that the drainage issue OUTSIDE her home was EXACTLY their problem to fix and has never been properly fixed... especially since they (the glorious trustees who are so selfless in their actions) KNEW about it for years and it was on record that they knew.

In that meeting, in front of all, I told her they had to put a claim in for her and if they didn't, she sue. She didn't need to eat that loss, she didn't cause her loss. And if she didn't get compensated/they didn't fix it, she sue ---- sue the COA (all of us via the COA) because SHE shouldn't have to suffer one more loss due to the "trustees'" negligence.

I then wrote to the insurance company and the state. I made a state inspector come out and inspect the grounds... and then found numerous violations that had not been addressed and were serious issues on the common element in which PEOPLE besides myself could get hurt. I then wrote a letter of demand to the insurance company for the COA, the board and the lawyers (because they are supposed to care about the COA, although clearly do NOT)and DEMANDED to ALL that they address this issue now.

After having suffered for four years myself due to the "trustees'" negligence and idiotic excuses (including lies from the lawyers of the COA as to who was the responsible party for failures in the COMMON ELEMENT -- as in a roof didn't keep water out of my home), I didn't want this woman to go through the same situation and keep the lawyers employed via another lawsuit based on lies that would cost the COA even more money. There was a solution and the solution needed to be taken to mitigate further harm.

Long story short, they FINALLY fixed the flooding issue and the woman is now safe. Her home will no longer flood. Am I selfish? Maybe I didn't want to get hit with an assessment when she succeeded in her lawsuit...which she would definitely win. But maybe, just maybe, I saw a wrong and it needed to be righted. And I am sooooooo proud that I did what I did. No regrets whatsoever.

Now, if she chooses to do nothing to protect this COA moving forward, then she's a coward in my opinion. But that's life. I will still fight for what is right regardless of what others do...

And it seems... so will you! Bravo, Tim.
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
Posts: 120
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Posted By FrankS10 on 02/15/2014 11:27 AM
Chris,

Just to be sure, my post was sincere! I appreciate what you and Geo are doing, both your actions within your HOA and your participation on this forum. At times I have certainly been late to the party with enough courage to stand up to what many of us have experienced, but not any more. I wish both of you the best!

Frank, I would have never responded to you if I thought you weren't. And I thank you for what you said. And I'm glad to see another one of us have entered the "fray." Keep in mind, the key is DIVIDE and CONQUER. If you can keep the people apart and uninformed, they think they are the only ones rocking the boat and start doubting themselves. But when you see that there are really wrongs and you are not alone, it's hard to turn a blind eye. Impossible, in most cases.

In truth, all the dismissals and ill-treatments in the courts just shows me that I must be on to something. No court would be so quick to rid me from their court and deny me discovery snd refuse to grant me a electronic discovery per the rules of court if I wasn't on to something -- and something serious.

And considering it involves a law firm who are FDCPA debt collectors -- well, that was the first thing that went down. Dismissed. Even though I didn't have any discovery yet. Dismissed. You can't open that "can of worms." They've had it good for too long and challenging the status quo would take millions in debt collection billable hours away from the lawyers. Can't have a judge do that to a lawyer... judges retire and go to work as mediators (at $450/hour) for law firms which have LAWYERS. Ahhhhhhh.... see the curious web we weave?

Regardless, the fight will carry on! And I hope yours does as well.
RichardP13 (California)
Posts: 1,767
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Posted By GeoM on 02/15/2014 5:12 PM
Jon, you are a really mean-spirited person. You turned my question on contract law last year into an excessive 4-page sparring contest with another poster. That is why I have not been back. Likewise another person who asked how to remove her name from getting so many emails every time a response was posted. You did never respond to my questions in last year's thread, you just disappeared. So, rather than respond to your "black-hole of questioning" I am herewith (I learned that word all by myself by doing my research as my own attorney!) pasting them again for your response.

How many people are on your Board of directors?
How long is each term...rotating/overlapping?
What has been each current director's length of service?
Do you pay HOA dues, or are you excluded from such while "volunteering?
Was I pretty close when I determined your annual dues at $3100?
Do your Board members claim that as income if dues to them are exempted? (Seems you may owe both the IRS and your HOA in excess of $85,000 for your years of service.)
What is the range of costs of units in your HOA...assuming a condo, or if otherwise, please clarify?
Are you on a golf course, lake, or oceanside?
What, exactly, are the amenities that you pay so dearly for?
Are any HOA provided amenities also duplicated by your [or nearby] city?
How many times have you or your Assn been called into court by a resident's lawsuit?
How many times has your Association sued a resident?
How many times did your HOA retain an attorney?
How many times did your HOA win the case...as plaintiff....as defendant?
Have you or any of your Board members ever been sued individually?
What was the outcome?
How many (or percentage) of residents attend the Community meetings?
Has your association ever been taken to court by the State for non-payment of taxes?
Has your association ever had 'Administrative Dissolution' applied to it by the Secretary of State office?
What are the terms of your CC&Rs regarding dues, percentage increases, and fines for non-payment?
Do you follow to the letter what your CC&Rs say about charging assessments and late fees?
Do you follow to the letter of those charges when filing a lien?
Have you ever exempted part of a resident's assessment for any reason?
If so, why? If not, state what happened to that resident.
How many foreclosures has your HOA experienced in the last 25 years?
How do you determine what figure to provide the title company or federally backed loans when negotiating a bad debt?

Anyone else have questions they would like to ask Jon?

If it took Jon 14 years to get rid of his Board and management company, there has to be a lot of pent up rage and frustration on his part. Poor Jon, he should have taken John's advice and MOVED!!! I think his community would be better off.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,061
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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/15/2014 6:17 PM


I think cowards is an awfully harsh and incorrect word to be used here.

It takes courage to go against the tide and question what is being done. If people didn't step up and try to stop some individuals from doing what they think is right, the world would be a different place. For example, look at the wars, the Inquisition, etc. Heck, keep it closer to home, look at the whistle blowers who bring things to light. They stepped up to try and stop those who believed they were doing the right thing.



Are you making the argument for or against the word "coward"? I'm confused. People who don't speak up for their rights and fight fights of importance are cowards in my opinion -- and that opinion won't change.

Well, if someone who is trying to stop you from doing what you think is right is, in your opinion, a coward. Are you not also a coward from trying to stop that same individual from doing what they think is right (trying to stop you)?

Who is right or wrong is often a matter of perception. I've discovered that when there is a difference of understanding between two or more individuals, that what is right or wrong is actually somewhere in between the differing versions of the issue.

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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/15/2014 6:17 PM

But it's cool to disagree on terms. I will stick with "coward" because I think it's selfish and terrible and cowardly to only speak up when an issue related to one's own interest.

I've found that when one has to resort to name calling (regardless of what the name is) the discussion over the issue has ceased to exist and, typically, it is wasting time to continue the discussion.

Although zingers may get you laughs or even a few on your side for being willing to call someone else a name they wish they had called the individual, it typically does nothing to advance the merits of the issue and may very well turn others off from even continuing to listen to those merits.

JonD1
Posts: 2,350
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Posted By RichardP13 on 02/15/2014 11:58 PM
Posted By GeoM on 02/15/2014 5:12 PM
Jon, you are a really mean-spirited person. You turned my question on contract law last year into an excessive 4-page sparring contest with another poster. That is why I have not been back. Likewise another person who asked how to remove her name from getting so many emails every time a response was posted. You did never respond to my questions in last year's thread, you just disappeared. So, rather than respond to your "black-hole of questioning" I am herewith (I learned that word all by myself by doing my research as my own attorney!) pasting them again for your response.

How many people are on your Board of directors?
How long is each term...rotating/overlapping?
What has been each current director's length of service?
Do you pay HOA dues, or are you excluded from such while "volunteering?
Was I pretty close when I determined your annual dues at $3100?
Do your Board members claim that as income if dues to them are exempted? (Seems you may owe both the IRS and your HOA in excess of $85,000 for your years of service.)
What is the range of costs of units in your HOA...assuming a condo, or if otherwise, please clarify?
Are you on a golf course, lake, or oceanside?
What, exactly, are the amenities that you pay so dearly for?
Are any HOA provided amenities also duplicated by your [or nearby] city?
How many times have you or your Assn been called into court by a resident's lawsuit?
How many times has your Association sued a resident?
How many times did your HOA retain an attorney?
How many times did your HOA win the case...as plaintiff....as defendant?
Have you or any of your Board members ever been sued individually?
What was the outcome?
How many (or percentage) of residents attend the Community meetings?
Has your association ever been taken to court by the State for non-payment of taxes?
Has your association ever had 'Administrative Dissolution' applied to it by the Secretary of State office?
What are the terms of your CC&Rs regarding dues, percentage increases, and fines for non-payment?
Do you follow to the letter what your CC&Rs say about charging assessments and late fees?
Do you follow to the letter of those charges when filing a lien?
Have you ever exempted part of a resident's assessment for any reason?
If so, why? If not, state what happened to that resident.
How many foreclosures has your HOA experienced in the last 25 years?
How do you determine what figure to provide the title company or federally backed loans when negotiating a bad debt?

Anyone else have questions they would like to ask Jon?


If it took Jon 14 years to get rid of his Board and management company, there has to be a lot of pent up rage and frustration on his part. Poor Jon, he should have taken John's advice and MOVED!!! I think his community would be better off.

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Richard my suggestion was not to move. Rather limit your goals to those that might be possible and try not to bolster your beliefs by suggesting they exist in every HOA in existence. Fighting over principle rewards just you. Fighting to reform things in the end serves others. Chris has sued for everything under the sun. Should the gas line have been rue routed in a loop around the property because
Chris said so? Should Out's battle continue on for years to come over $463 costing hr property thousands?

And yes Richard it took me years to get enough people to get involved, to be willing to buck those on the Board and hold down a full time job.

But I never filed a suit or damaged the property.

Go ahead find some fault with that.
FrankS10 (Kansas)
Posts: 276
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Tim,

With all due respect, lately I don't know if you are trying to help as much as be the self-appointed HOATalk diplomat. (I hope that is not considered name calling?)

There is absolutely a right and a wrong, your attempt at moral relativism is exactly what the scoundrels use in their neighborhoods to get away with some of the behaviors that have been documented on sites like this. It is sad to see good people reduced to such caution just because they offended a few people through their attempts to get things on track.

Lately it seems you have also taken to defending Jon, one of the most notorious and vicious name callers on this site. This hurts your credibility IMO. Take the time to point out behaviors from people like that if you are going to take folks like Chris on. All too often the regulars on this site attack any new comer who offers a few of anything different than HOA life is great and all Board members are saints.

JMHO of course!
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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I have been working third shift so finally able to catch up on a few things on here... JonD has a way of saying things but he tells it the way he sees it. He cuts through the feel-good heroism fight the fight sue happy crap that some posters post on here. I have learned over the years now of posting with JonD to have the utmost respect for him. He's not always right just like I am not and other so-called "regular" posters are not. We get it wrong sometimes but we only have what you post to go on. We are your third eye on the situation and see things through the devil's advocate. JonD being one of our best Devil advocates on this site.

Tim has done a good job here towing the line of respect of new posters and sharing good information/education to all of us. I will always have his back and he will always have my most respect. As for JohnC... He's got a margarita in Mexico waiting on me...

If you don't like any posters opinion or advice, then don't take it. We also don't have to promote or support ideas or suggestions that we feel are not beneficial to HOA's. Advice of suing, fighting, doing damage, protesting, or not attending meetings, we tend to frown upon. Our purpose for our advice here is for those who are in challenging situations of being a board member or general member how to use their documents to serve them. We believe education is where you do your best "fighting". It's NOT at the courthouse or with a lawyer's letter. It's getting with and communicating with your community of which you live. Discuss your documents, views, changes, and what you think needs funded. If a majority of you feel the same way, then you vote for someone who best represents your ideas into office, or you get together to make the changes with your votes.

There's no need to insult anyone here. It just makes you look like the insult. It's an adult conversation here. We will point out the flaws in your process if there are some. Expect advice here to come from where the rubber meets the road and not what the next article/news story is put out about HOA's.


Former HOA President
FrankS10 (Kansas)
Posts: 276
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Melissa,

I am not insulting anyone intentionally, but hopefully you are insulted once you read some of what is posted here. I have read many of your posts for a long time and you are not someone I would ever take advice from. I personally don't think you have much of a clue!

Tim is usually someone I would listen to. Jon is simply a little man who feels big attacking everyone who doesn't see it his way.

The changes that have been made, especially some of the laws enacted like in states such as KS, did not happen because of the philosophy you and a few other regulars give out. They are on the books because people with courage stood up.
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
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Posted By TimB4 on 02/16/2014 4:35 AM

Well, if someone who is trying to stop you from doing what you think is right is, in your opinion, a coward. Are you not also a coward from trying to stop that same individual from doing what they think is right (trying to stop you)?

. . . .

I've found that when one has to resort to name calling (regardless of what the name is) the discussion over the issue has ceased to exist and, typically, it is wasting time to continue the discussion.

Although zingers may get you laughs or even a few on your side for being willing to call someone else a name they wish they had called the individual, it typically does nothing to advance the merits of the issue and may very well turn others off from even continuing to listen to those merits.


Tim, to be clear, I have never told anyone to do anything ever. Cowards want to remain silent, that is their option. I AM NOT TELLING THEM WHAT TO DO. I am calling them what I choose to call them, which is COWARD.

And calling a person a "coward" for failing to act to protect one's own property is not name-calling, it's a description. Believe me, I know how to call people names. But I, too, don't find a reason to go there in a debate either. And I haven't.

I have no idea why you think you need to reprimand me on how I chose to call apathetic people who rely on others to defend their properties for them, but I choose to call them "cowards" and it isn't a ZINGER for laughs, it's a statement of how I see them.

Again, you will not see a single posting in which I have ever sought to stop anyone from doing anything. However, I have made the suggestion to many to not "take the bait" and "crawl in the gutter" with those who have used ZINGERS to make whatever "points" they are making with jibes, insults, personal attacks and ZINGERS.

With this said, I will speak as I choose. You do as you choose. I think I've made it clear -- no one will tell me how to speak, where to speak or guide me into speaking in a manner they feel works for them. I will speak as I choose to speak and I choose to call those who are apathetic and do nothing "cowards."

You can call them what YOU want. That's your right.
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
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Posted By FrankS10 on 02/16/2014 6:07 AM
Tim,

With all due respect, lately I don't know if you are trying to help as much as be the self-appointed HOATalk diplomat. (I hope that is not considered name calling?)

Lately it seems you have also taken to defending Jon, one of the most notorious and vicious name callers on this site. This hurts your credibility IMO. Take the time to point out behaviors from people like that if you are going to take folks like Chris on. All too often the regulars on this site attack any new comer who offers a few of anything different than HOA life is great and all Board members are saints.

JMHO of course!

Believe me, I don't need to Tim to speak for or against me. He is not my advocate. I speak for myself. I always have, I always will. NO ONE TELLS ME WHAT TO DO. And I say that to you with total respect. -- But I appreciate your gesture in seeking to demand some equity as per Tim's post.

Tim can feel as he wants. Make whatever assessments he wishes. I wouldn't dare try to make him act any particular way. On my end, I have absolutely no intention of changing the way I behave for anyone -- ever. Why should I? I didn't come here for advice on how to blog. LOL!

With that said, you can clearly see the manner in which I handle those who have nothing of value to say....I need not mention names. You do notice, the more you ignore the "rantings and ravings" -- the more questions, postings, rantings and ravings come, right? Look at it for what it is and "don't take the bait!" Give no fuel to the fire. IMO, we can all exchange ideas without crawling in the mud with those that have nothing to say.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/16/2014 12:37 PM

Tim, to be clear, I have never told anyone to do anything ever.

We will simply have to agree to disagree.

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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/16/2014 12:37 PM

I have no idea why you think you need to reprimand me on how I chose to call apathetic people who rely on others to defend their properties for them

I'm not reprimanding and I'm sorry that you are perceiving it as such.

I'm simply trying to point out that your argument for calling individuals cowards can also apply to you. I don't think it's a valid argument and I certainly don't believe that you are a coward.

As I pointed out, I do think that when arguments on the merits of the issue enter into name calling the individuals participating in the name calling lose credibility (at least with me) and possibly others. From what you have been posting, I believe that you are above participating in name calling and was simply trying to express that.

TimB4 (Tennessee)
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Posted By FrankS10 on 02/16/2014 6:07 AM

With all due respect, lately I don't know if you are trying to help as much as be the self-appointed HOATalk diplomat. (I hope that is not considered name calling?)

Yes, I am trying to help. It used to be that everyone would try to help and simply discuss the issues instead of discussing the personalities or simply preaching on an issue without any advice given on how to fix the problem.

I hope the forum can grow through this and return to everyone trying to help. Otherwise, I think the forum will simply die.

As for name calling, it depends on what one thinks of when they hear the word diplomat.

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Posted By FrankS10 on 02/16/2014 6:07 AM

There is absolutely a right and a wrong,

I agree. However, that doesn't always mean that you or I are going to be correct in thinking that we are right. Correct or not, we might always believe that we are right and others are wrong.

I hope and pray that I can continue to keep an open mind, listen to those who may disagree with me and try to see things from the other persons perspective. It doesn't mean that I'll necessarily change my decision to act or not act the way I had planned. However, it may allow me to better explain that decision so the other person can see things from my perspective. At the very least, hopefully we can remain respectful of each others position and simply agree to disagree.

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Posted By FrankS10 on 02/16/2014 6:07 AM

Lately it seems you have also taken to defending Jon, one of the most notorious and vicious name callers on this site. This hurts your credibility IMO.

Frank,

I think Jon can take care of himself. I'm simply pointing out that there is benefit to be gained from listening to those who don't agree with you. That doesn't mean that you have to agree with them, the way it is presented or anything else about them. One can still gain some benefit if the take the time to listen. Jon, in my opinion, simply tries to point out how an individuals presentation, track record and approach may be seen by others.

Jon did the exact same thing to me that he is doing to others. Fortunately for me, I was able to get over my defensiveness and look at my presentation from his perspective. What I discovered was that he was right to point out that my approach at the time wasn't going to help me win my argument (no matter how valid the points of the argument were).

As for speaking up for others, if I recall correctly, I've spoken up for many individuals on this site (including you to Jon)when you were defending others (Mike comes to mind).

As for credibility, that is for others to determine. I'll simply let my actions and my posts speak for themselves and live with the outcome.

I would like to point out that regardless of how credible someone may or may not appear, I don't think anyone should trust what is posted on these forums or anywhere else on the internet based on perceived credibility of the individual until they verify the basis of what is being posted for themselves. Therefore, in that regard, I hope I do not appear credible and people will actually take the time that is necessary to verify the basis for what I am saying. I could be wrong. I have been in the past and likely will be again in the future (I hope my wife never reads this ). If someone takes the time to verify and points out the error, I'll try not to repeat it and everyone will learn. If someone doesn't take the time to verify and follows my advice, I hope I was correct.

When I first joined this forum, it was common for everyone to post links to what was the basis of their opinions. This allowed the reader to trust what was being posted but verify that basis. If the reader reads the same material and comes up with a different understanding then discussion occurred about the misunderstanding. Sadly, that doesn't happen as often as it used to.

ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
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Posted By FrankS10 on 02/16/2014 10:46 AM
Melissa,

I am not insulting anyone intentionally, but hopefully you are insulted once you read some of what is posted here. I have read many of your posts for a long time and you are not someone I would ever take advice from. I personally don't think you have much of a clue!

Tim is usually someone I would listen to. Jon is simply a little man who feels big attacking everyone who doesn't see it his way.

The changes that have been made, especially some of the laws enacted like in states such as KS, did not happen because of the philosophy you and a few other regulars give out. They are on the books because people with courage stood up.

Well said. You can't entertain arguments that are all over the place, contradicting and not based on anything but one's own personal opinion. Amazing how much anger is stirred by owners trying to protect their own property, isn't? And why insult someone for supporting another in their position/fight which doesn't impact them/their property in the least? Think about the mentality of that person. It's quite sad to be in that much need of control over everyone. Don't you think?
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
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Posted By TimB4 on 02/16/2014 2:24 PM
Posted By FrankS10 on 02/16/2014 6:07 AM

I hope the forum can grow through this and return to everyone trying to help. Otherwise, I think the forum will simply die.


Per Tim's comment, Frank and others seeking a civil conversation...let's not let this forum will die. It's clear there are a lot of pending litigation issues out there and sharing legal cases are a great way to assist one another in our legal battles. So if we ignore those who choose to go the very low ground, let the rest of us keep the high ground and keep the conversation flowing amongst ourselves. Remember, the point of a bully is to silence the rest. Divide and conquer. Tactics of intimidation. The angrier they get -- know, the more you are on to something!

And Tim, I will not tell your wife you admitted to being wrong. That would be bad. Ha!
ChrisA13 (New Jersey)
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Posted By ChrisA13 on 02/16/2014 3:08 PM
Posted By TimB4 on 02/16/2014 2:24 PM
Posted By FrankS10 on 02/16/2014 6:07 AM

Per Tim's comment, Frank and others seeking a civil conversation...let's not let this forum will die.

Mamma mia... another typo from NJ! Bad typing day today. I meant to say, Let us (the civil bloggers) not let this forum die.

FrankS10 (Kansas)
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Tim, Chris, Melissa;

My apologies. Just getting a little tired of dealing with unethical, no integrity type of people and took it out on you. You are correct, let's keep the forum hospitable.
GeoM (Missouri)
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Thank you all for your input and conciliatory comments. I feared this thread may be going the way of the one I started last year that incurred so much venom....(Is it I?) Be assured I return now as I did then, for the purpose of updating those who expressed interest (and some who placed bets I could not win my small claims case), but I learn so much more by reading others' experiences.

Chris' comments on 'judges and the corporations' is of great interest to me but this may not be the venue to air that further discussion, rather a forum for legal questions may be more appropriate. However, if anyone has served as their own legal representation (pro-se) or have experiences that relate to difficulties of overcoming pompous attorneys (well, that's an oxymoron, I see!) and multiple attempts of the things I first mentioned, continuances, motions to dismiss, etc., as they would apply to this site, please either attach below or start a new and recognizable thread.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
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GEO

The answers on people representing themselves might well lie in how successful they were. Seems to me that in those cases we are aware of on this chat, 9 out of 10 lose their case.

Maybe that is the best bottom line answer. Hire a professional versus ask how do I go it alone.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
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Posted By JohnC46 on 02/17/2014 5:56 AM

Maybe that is the best bottom line answer. Hire a professional versus ask how do I go it alone.

Or consult with one, which could be less expensive than hiring one to represent you.
GeoM (Missouri)
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Easy to say for some, especially those who live in COA/HOAs where dues run into the hundreds, or thousands, per year. I have already given the information that the ROAs that should be charged to these residents is between $5-18 per year, depending on their lot size. That should give you an idea of the "flavor" of these Midwestern, 1940s and 50s homes ranging in square foot from 800-1500 (not to be confused with the lot sizes on which our Declaration says we should be assessed). I say all that, to say that if I could afford an attorney, maybe I would and maybe I wouldn't.

If I were to tell this forum what my income and total amount of "savings" on which I have to rely (no 401Ks, etc.), you would be in disbelief. Suffice it to say that it is not enough to purchase a typical used car of the 2010 manufacture. I have been turned down for a HELOC loan because I did not have sufficient income to repay the loan...but I digress....

This is not a storm door issue, or where sewer lines are placed, or whether one should have paid a plumber for work done on Assn property. Mine is a founding documents issue that, to my knowledge, has not been followed for at least 20 years. I do not think it can be "grandfathered out" for having been ignored for so long. Three judges have already ruled in its favor. However, in their persistence, this current BOD has hired an attorney to fight an unwinnable case. I think that would be like someone hiring an attorney to prove an allegation that they are not the gender they have lived all their life. Why would anyone do that when the case is so obviously provable?

What I DO have is a brain that has, so far, been able to somewhat make the attorney know that I'm not rolling over for his shenanigans. As I said, perhaps this is not the forum; perhaps I need to seek advice on a legal forum. So, I shall stand MY ground and again, I state that any tips on cases having been won OR LOST (value in those too) in pre-court or in court on points of the law would be appreciated. Thank you.

BanksS
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Geo,

Have you reviewed Missouri's rules on appellate procedure? I'm guessing you have already done this. Iowa's is available on line. Now deciphering it is another matter.

As Tim said maybe you could just consult with an attorney. That is usually cheaper than hiring one. Do you have a relationship with an attorney now? Maybe he or she would be willing to take payments and/or reduce fees. Or if you know of a new attorney just starting out. They typically are looking for business and will tend not to charge as much. You don't know, if you don't ask.

Believe me I know how expensive attorneys are. You can't even sneeze at them without being charged for it.

MelissaP1 (Alabama)
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I've learned a few things when dealing with attorneys. It's why I see many making some mistakes when dealing with theirs. The first of which is hiring the wrong TYPE of lawyer for their needs. One does NOT hire a "Real Estate" attorney for a HOA lawyer. The HOA is a CORPORATION and does not typically own real estate. You want to hire a lawyer familiar with contractual laws, corporate, or even specializes in HOA law. You can use different types in a HOA depending on the individual needs of the case. Most of the time you can use a general attorney or legal service to file routine things such as liens, foreclosures, or updates to your CC&R's.

The other issue is not knowing what to define when going to your lawyer. You need to have a clear definition of what issue/damages are. The court can ONLY make you whole. So they want to see actual "damages" not proposed/perceived damages. As a HOA, you may need to spend out the money to fix a repair and then go to court to gather the money back. As an individual, you may need to show the court that you had to hire a lawyer or spend X amount of dollars to gather that money back. There are several approaches and your lawyer may NOT advise you on the best one to pursue. They will tell you straight out they will go with whatever you want them to do. They won't always tell you other options. You have to do your research first to see which path best to take. Lawyers get that slimy reputation for doing this kind of activity. Which I view it as BOTH the client and lawyer's fault.

I could honestly act as my own lawyer if I choose to. Matter of fact, whenever I hired any of my lawyers for my HOA, they all knew this. It was just understood that since it is a HOA, that I can't go into court representing the entire HOA unless my HOA gave me specific approval. Which who in their right minds would ever have an individual represent them in court who is NOT a lawyer??? Instead, my consultations with our lawyers were short and to the point. I knew my options and what I wanted them to do. It made it much easier and cheaper on the HOA as there wasn't all these emails, phone calls, and consulation charges.

I say use a lawyer like a tool to represent you. Even if you can do it yourself. Your lawyer is there to represent YOU. They may know the procedures, the other lawyers, and even the judge. It looks more favorably on you as these people worked hard and spent tons of money to do this job. They like a bit of professional courtesy in their court rooms. Which I understand. I think legal cases are best left up to the professionals. It's just you have to be able to know if that is the right professional and professional approach to take.

Former HOA President
RichardP13 (California)
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 02/17/2014 9:23 AM
I've learned a few things when dealing with attorneys. It's why I see many making some mistakes when dealing with theirs. The first of which is hiring the wrong TYPE of lawyer for their needs. One does NOT hire a "Real Estate" attorney for a HOA lawyer. The HOA is a CORPORATION and does not typically own real estate. You want to hire a lawyer familiar with contractual laws, corporate, or even specializes in HOA law. You can use different types in a HOA depending on the individual needs of the case. Most of the time you can use a general attorney or legal service to file routine things such as liens, foreclosures, or updates to your CC&R's.

The other issue is not knowing what to define when going to your lawyer. You need to have a clear definition of what issue/damages are. The court can ONLY make you whole. So they want to see actual "damages" not proposed/perceived damages. As a HOA, you may need to spend out the money to fix a repair and then go to court to gather the money back. As an individual, you may need to show the court that you had to hire a lawyer or spend X amount of dollars to gather that money back. There are several approaches and your lawyer may NOT advise you on the best one to pursue. They will tell you straight out they will go with whatever you want them to do. They won't always tell you other options. You have to do your research first to see which path best to take. Lawyers get that slimy reputation for doing this kind of activity. Which I view it as BOTH the client and lawyer's fault.

I could honestly act as my own lawyer if I choose to. Matter of fact, whenever I hired any of my lawyers for my HOA, they all knew this. It was just understood that since it is a HOA, that I can't go into court representing the entire HOA unless my HOA gave me specific approval. Which who in their right minds would ever have an individual represent them in court who is NOT a lawyer??? Instead, my consultations with our lawyers were short and to the point. I knew my options and what I wanted them to do. It made it much easier and cheaper on the HOA as there wasn't all these emails, phone calls, and consulation charges.

I say use a lawyer like a tool to represent you. Even if you can do it yourself. Your lawyer is there to represent YOU. They may know the procedures, the other lawyers, and even the judge. It looks more favorably on you as these people worked hard and spent tons of money to do this job. They like a bit of professional courtesy in their court rooms. Which I understand. I think legal cases are best left up to the professionals. It's just you have to be able to know if that is the right professional and professional approach to take.

I don't know if Melissa is giving advise for HOA's or individuals that may attempt to bring action against their HOA. HOA attorneys are not all they are cracked up to be.

In California, if you were going after you HOA and the damages are $5000 and less, you would use small claims court, in which attorneys are not allowed until the case ins brought for appeal, and only the defendant can appeal a decision. If I were to sue my association and I could keep the action under $5000 I would use small claims courts as the commissioners HATE HOAS and what they stay for. Get a Board officer representing the HOA and it's even worse.

We had a situation where our association needed to find evidence that the HOA owned or was conveyed a private street. We asked our HOA attorney to look into. No luck. They couldn't find the language in the CCRs which was clearly stated. The document(s) showed up early this year after 13 years in storage. HOA attorneys are not Real Estate attorneys unless they are willing to do the research.

"They will tell you straight out they will go with whatever you want them to do.". That is the biggest load of crap I have ever heard. They will do what is BEST for THEM. It's called MONEY. MONEY, MONEY, and then more MONEY.

GeoM (Missouri)
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Banks, have I read Missouri's appellate procedure? Yes. And also Mo Supreme Court Rules, and my district's division rules, and all information proffered by various internet sites. At any given time I have more than 25 tabs open. Some of it, of course, is not applicable to the state of Missouri, but helpful tips I can, nonetheless, tuck in the far recesses of my mind and hope, as Larry intimated in another thread, that I don't have to call SunnyAcres to take me away.

Currently all the issues I feel important to my case I have copied into a lengthy document. I hope to be able to sort it all out, which I shall be doing in a month or so in preparation for this bench hearing. That is when I'll cut off all outside stimulus and concentrate on getting my thoughts in order with appropriate documentation, and begin to commit to memory my opening and closing statements because the eyeball to eyeball approach worked for SCC and hopefully it will work for this court too. What happens inbetween is anybody's guess. Because of the atty's evasive answers in my interrogs, I will probably need to call the Board officers as witnesses. I know they don't want that because I burned on really good last time; resident for over 40 years and president for 10, he gave as a response to my question when did have knowledge of the Declaration as "2010". Reminding him he was under oath, I suggested there might have been a court date in 2004-5 that addressed the Declaration. He had to admit he'd "forgotten" about that one. Actually, I could have taken him back to the 1995 Bylaws which defer to the Declaration over 25 times and which, as president, he signed on the top line. Or I could go back even further to 1989 when the man who brought the 2004 case to trial first mentioned the Bylaws and when this former president was on the Board. It's anyone's guess how much further back, but the judge "got it".

I know that's a lot of "facts" for you all to follow, but I was just saying I don't think anyone on this Board wants to appear on the stand, and may prefer to tell the atty to just answer my interrogs, even if they don't meet the fine points of the law. The atty's reason for evading them was because the Assn is an entity, or Corporation, and therefore, unable to "hear" or respond. He used boilerplate answers which meet the requirements legally, but which may very well be an irritant to this judge. I have no idea. I would like to sit in on one of his courts in action, but have yet to be provided his bench trial schedule because his law clerk will not return my calls. >
GeoM (Missouri)
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Correction...middle of paragraph two....
"I know they don't want that because I burned ONE really good last time; resident for over 40 years and president for 10, he gave as a response to my question OF when did have knowledge of the Declaration, as "2010".

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