SheliaH (Indiana)
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Posted:
Our board will discuss this situation at tonight's meeting, but I thought it would be nice to see if others have had a similar situation and how they handled it:
We have a homeowner whose unit (we're a townhouse community) is on a fairly narrow street owned by the Association. If you park on her side of the street, it could be difficult to get through if someone's parked on the other side. The townhouse also has an attached one car garage, which is cluttered with all sorts of stuff, including a junk car owned by the homeowner's adult son. It doesn't run and I don't know how long it's been there.
Last fall, the homeowner asked if the Association could put up a handicapped sign, mostly because her husband is disabled and uses a wheelchair. The previous homeowner had installed a wheelchair ramp at the front door so it's easier for him to use that instead of going through the garage (which he couldn't do anyway because of all the crap in it!) She already has a handicapped parking sticker issued by the state, so we said send us a copy of what you gave the state to get that sticker and we'll put up the sign. She did and we put it up.
The man who lives across the street then talked to our security officer about the tight squeeze when this lady is parked in front of her house. Usually, he'd just park behind her and walk over to his house, but for some reason, the lady seems to think the entire side of the street is for her use only and will rush to park there as soon as he leaves. The real reason she does it is so her son can park behind them (although he could easily park behind the garage).
Our security officer (also a cop) noted the tight squeeze and said it might not have been a good idea to allow the parking sign - if the neighbor parked on his side and she was out there, it could make it difficult for law enforcement or an emergency vehicle to get through. He's suggested that we might want to ban parking on the lady's side altogether and allow parking across the street. The husband won't be that inconvenienced because he can still wheel himself around to the garage and get in the car that way. In fact, he might be able to get in from the garage if they would only clean it out - and fix the garage door (the woman says she can't afford to - don't know what's wrong with it or how long it's been on the fritz).
Our property manager spoke to the woman about taking down the sign and now she's upset and threatening to sue. I'm inclined to say "bring it on" because we've tried to accommodate her (when this started, I noted I didn't have a problem with the sign being there, but the Association never paid for handicapped sign installation in the past so if she wanted one, she should pay for it, but the Board said otherwise).
Am I being bitchy about all this or is there another solution we haven't considered? Having driven over there to deliver newsletters, I can see the neighbor's point and don't want the association to favor one homeowner over another, especially in light of the officer's comments about emergency vehicle access. How would this woman feel if an ambulance couldn't get through because her car and her son's car were all parked on that side of the street?
We have a homeowner whose unit (we're a townhouse community) is on a fairly narrow street owned by the Association. If you park on her side of the street, it could be difficult to get through if someone's parked on the other side. The townhouse also has an attached one car garage, which is cluttered with all sorts of stuff, including a junk car owned by the homeowner's adult son. It doesn't run and I don't know how long it's been there.
Last fall, the homeowner asked if the Association could put up a handicapped sign, mostly because her husband is disabled and uses a wheelchair. The previous homeowner had installed a wheelchair ramp at the front door so it's easier for him to use that instead of going through the garage (which he couldn't do anyway because of all the crap in it!) She already has a handicapped parking sticker issued by the state, so we said send us a copy of what you gave the state to get that sticker and we'll put up the sign. She did and we put it up.
The man who lives across the street then talked to our security officer about the tight squeeze when this lady is parked in front of her house. Usually, he'd just park behind her and walk over to his house, but for some reason, the lady seems to think the entire side of the street is for her use only and will rush to park there as soon as he leaves. The real reason she does it is so her son can park behind them (although he could easily park behind the garage).
Our security officer (also a cop) noted the tight squeeze and said it might not have been a good idea to allow the parking sign - if the neighbor parked on his side and she was out there, it could make it difficult for law enforcement or an emergency vehicle to get through. He's suggested that we might want to ban parking on the lady's side altogether and allow parking across the street. The husband won't be that inconvenienced because he can still wheel himself around to the garage and get in the car that way. In fact, he might be able to get in from the garage if they would only clean it out - and fix the garage door (the woman says she can't afford to - don't know what's wrong with it or how long it's been on the fritz).
Our property manager spoke to the woman about taking down the sign and now she's upset and threatening to sue. I'm inclined to say "bring it on" because we've tried to accommodate her (when this started, I noted I didn't have a problem with the sign being there, but the Association never paid for handicapped sign installation in the past so if she wanted one, she should pay for it, but the Board said otherwise).
Am I being bitchy about all this or is there another solution we haven't considered? Having driven over there to deliver newsletters, I can see the neighbor's point and don't want the association to favor one homeowner over another, especially in light of the officer's comments about emergency vehicle access. How would this woman feel if an ambulance couldn't get through because her car and her son's car were all parked on that side of the street?
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