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JoyceN1 (California)
Posts: 90
Posted:
Our HOA has failed to enforce our rules about underage guests in some cases. They pick and choose who they want to harass on this issue. There is a family who inherited a home and the caregiver married the child of the deceased owner. They now have a four year-old child and the HOA has failed to remedy this situation. We are afraid of losing our senior status and my question is this: can this family use estoppel to keep the board from acting after allowing this for all these years? Thanks
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
ask your attorney for legal advice

how would you suggest the HOA "remedy the situation" ?

? sterilization ?
? euthanasia ?
? eviction ?

imo: an underage actual child of an owner is NOT a guest but a legal resident since the owner/member has legal 'guardianship'

? what is your problem with living children ?

? do you prefer the exclusive company of your fellow 'walking dead' ?

ps. I, myself, am one of the 'walking dead' in a 55+ community
LarryB13 (Arizona)
Posts: 4,099
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JohnB26 on 01/14/2014 12:18 PM

I, myself, am one of the 'walking dead' in a 55+ community

I am 120% qualified to live in a 55+ community but have zero desire to do so.
JoyceN1 (California)
Posts: 90
Posted:
John I didn't come on here to be verbally abused by a dolt. Our senior status is at risk and the board is failing in their fiduciary duty to the association. If we lose our senior status our property values fall and communities which have lost their senior status in this area have fallen to disrepair and have become very delapidated. I was on the board and therefore people often ask me for advice when they have complaints. I am a mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. Your response sounds as if you are a very angry man who likes to take your frustrations out on an anonymous woman. If you have no intelligent input, you shouldn't be on this site.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Joyce,

Per the Housing for Older Persons Act (HOPA), you are only required to have 80% of the community have a home with at least one person over the age of 55 residing in the property. Therefore, unless your approaching this percentage, your development is likely not in danger of losing the senior status of the community.

As for the specific situation you mention, you will need to look toward your governing documents on the issue. Residents, of course, are not guests.

Please remember that typically the Association is not required to enforce violations of the CC&Rs. They, like any member, have the authority to enforce but, just like the members, are not required to enforce. The only thing is that if they do enforce, the must enforce equally.

Therefore, if you have a Board that chooses not to exercise their authority, the following options are always available:

1) enforce the CC&Rs yourself by taking your neighbor to court (this option is always available but most member prefer not to exercise their own authority to enforce the CC&Rs to correct violations).

2) Gather support from other members and as a group (which would share the expenses) exercise your enforcement authority and bring legal action against the neighbor to bring the violation into compliance.

3) Gather support from other members and recall the Board and then elect a new Board that will enforce the CC&Rs

4) Run for the Board yourself and be part of the decision process on when to enforce.

5) Volunteer to be the enforcement arm of the Association and see if the Board will take you up on the offer.

6) Live with the situation and do nothing.

7) Gossip about the issue with your neighbors and hopefully make the situation uncomfortable for the individual in the hope that they will finally move (I don't like this option but it's still an option).

8) Actually talk to the individual one on one and see if some sort of compromise can be reached (if it can't, you still have the other options available).

9) Move so you don't have to deal with the issue. (typically not the best option but, as with #7, it's still an option)

Hope this helps,

Tim
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
to repeat:

"an underage actual child of an owner is NOT a guest but a legal resident since the owner/member has legal 'guardianship' "

supposing I am 63 and my wife is 55 and we decide to adopt ?

check the HOPA act itself - legal guardianship RULES THE ROOST

it is only when 'grandma' takes the grandchild w/o legalities in place that it 'hits the fan'

us old farts DO NOT repeat NOT rule the world
JoyceN1 (California)
Posts: 90
Posted:
Thanks Tim,
I will pass this on to the complaining party. When I was on the board, they would rake people over the coals for having an older child, who was in dire straits, living with them temporarily. My complaint is that the same people who were on the board I was on are the same people ignoring these complaints. I have no problem with a family helping their family members, as a matter of fact they got angry with me for trying to find a better solution than kicking these people on to the streets. I am only helping one of our shareholders. You have been very helpful and I am sure this will help to set this other person's mind at ease about this issue. Selective enforcement is what bothers me, as we may be sued, when the people who were forced to vacate their parent's home after only a few months, get wind of the fact that this board is ignoring these complaints.
EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
JoyceN1,

Are you a “55 and older” community and do you use the 80/20 rule? Or by chance does the Association impose an age limitation that is more restrictive than that required by HOPA?

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JohnB26 on 01/14/2014 4:38 PM

us old farts DO NOT repeat NOT rule the world

I reject your reality and replace it with my own
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Many over 55 age restricted communities define underage as under 18. The reason for this was quite simple. The community would not have school age children living there requiring the expense that goes along with such. Many communities welcomed the no one under 18 restrictions for this reason. There have been many court/legal decisions on this.

In some states one can marry at age 16. So let us assume I am 56 and my wife is 16. I say as long as the town does not have to provide school services for her, we are good....and we are legal in some states....LOL

JoyceN1 (California)
Posts: 90
Posted:
We are in California and when I was on the board I was told we can't have anyone under 55 living here or we lose our senior status. I still have people contact me for information because this board is not shareholder friendly. I don't know if you remember this is the same board in California that dismantled a 16 year-old community garden so they could put in a dangerous horseshoe pit. A newspaper columnist wrote three large articles about that issue and the board is incapable of being shamed into doing the right thing. They are now starting to harass the people who tried to stop them. We have residents who park on thier front lawns, don't repair or take care of their properties and yet they are harassing those who opposed them and calling building and safety with bogus reports of illegal fencing etc. Wasting the time of the city resources.
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JoyceN1 on 01/14/2014 7:37 PM
We are in California and when I was on the board I was told we can't have anyone under 55 living here or we lose our senior status.

Whenever you are "told something", especially something that affects how you do your job, it's best to claim you are from Missouri and ask to be shown proof.


Studies show that 5 out of 4 people have problems with fractions
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
They're coming to take me away, ha ha, he he, ho ho, away, away ............

to the make-believe land of 'live and let live', the land of the "GOLDEN RULE", the land of Nirvana, the land of the 55+ LIVING DEAD ~ OH! NO! I'm already there BY CHOICE

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH......
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
ImB4;

You, sir, are but a figment of my imagination.

;)

ps. .....yes, I do.....
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
oops

TimB4
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JohnB26 on 01/15/2014 7:19 AM
They're coming to take me away, ha ha, he he, ho ho, away, away ............

Got in trouble with that song, seems the local Psychiatric Hospital took offense over me playing it through the ambulance's PA system as we were driving in.

Studies show that 5 out of 4 people have problems with fractions
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:


As it ACTUALLY says in 'the Good Book' :

'Peace on earth to all men of good will.'

alternate translation

'Peace be upon all men of good will.'

DOH

as I age in place (ignoring my senile neighbors when possible) I become more and more distressed with the actual facts as content with the toric kaka I was fed all my life

EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
JoyceN1,

Following up on your words “and when I was on the board I was told we can't have anyone under 55 living here or we lose our senior status”.

I do not think that is entirely correct as HOPA modified the statutory definition of housing for older persons, as housing intended and operated for occupancy by at least one person 55 years of age or older per unit.

So you only need one (1) person in any particular unit or residence, that is 55 years or older. All the other residents living in that unit, with a 55 and older person, may be younger but not under 18. And then as I understand, that requirement only refers to the 80% portion, in order to maintain 55 and older status.

This link provides information in Question and Answer format:
http://www.hud.gov/offices/fheo/library/hopa95.pdf

Here are a few excerpts:

Question 11
How frequently should a housing/community provider update its lists of occupants to be in compliance with the age verification requirements of HOPA? Are there any consequences if a housing provider fails to update its list of residents?

Answer
HOPA requires that a housing facility/community re-survey its lists of residents every two years to ensure that the 80% requirement is met.

A housing community's or facility's failure to survey or re-survey its list of occupants in accordance with its age verification procedures does not demonstrate intent to housing for older persons, and could jeopardize the housing community's status as 55 or older housing.

Question 15
Is it lawful to advertise or market the 20 percent portion of the units not required to be occupied by at least one person 55 years of age or older to prospective tenants/purchasers under age 55 and to families with children?

Answer
Yes. However, the marketing must be done in a way that identifies the facility/community as housing intended for older persons. Advertising and marketing must not be inconsistent with the intent.

Further, the facility/community needs to plan with care any attempt to sell or rent the entire 20 percent portion of the remaining units to incoming households under age 55, because it could risk losing the exemption if some occupants over 55 die, with surviving spouses or heirs who are under 55 years of age.

Such planning should address notice to incoming households under the age of 55 regarding how the housing provider will proceed in the event that the 80% requirement is endangered.

Question 17
If a housing facility or community meets the requirements of HOPA but permits up to 20 percent of the units to be occupied by families with children, may the facility/community impose different terms and conditions of residency on those families with children who reside there?

Answer
Yes. If a housing community/facility qualifies under HOPA as housing for older persons, the community/facility is exempt from the Act's prohibition against discrimination on the basis of familial status.

The housing community/facility may restrict families with children from benefits of the community, or otherwise treat family households differently than senior households, as long as those actions do not violate any other state or local law.

However, the community/facility is not exempt from the provisions of the Act that prohibit discrimination against any resident or potential resident on the basis of race, color, religion, national origin, sex, or disability.

Question 18
If a 55 or older occupant dies and leaves his/her property to a surviving spouse or heir(s) under the age of 55, what rights, if any, do the survivors have to possession?

Answer
The right to possession by a surviving spouse or heir is not governed by the HOPA or the Fair Housing Act.

Whether an underage heir or surviving spouse can occupy the unit upon the death of the 55 or older occupant is a matter of state/local law or custom, and generally is governed by private contractual agreements between senior housing developers and the individuals who purchased or rented the dwelling.

The provision in the Act permitting 20 percent of the units to be occupied by persons under 55 is intended, in part, to prevent a housing facility/community from losing the exemption due to situations where there are surviving spouses and underage heirs when the 55 or older occupant dies.
JoyceN1 (California)
Posts: 90
Posted:
Thanks EllieD,
I have read that and the person complaining to me doesn't know how to do research or doesn't want to. This is helpful and the child in question is a 4 year-old. I have no problem with children of any age and if they are in dire straits and have to move in with mom and dad or one parent until they can get back on their feet, I have no problem. Unfortunately their are those who do and our current board unfortunately has practiced selective enforcement on this issue. They actually brought a woman to tears when I was on the board and I had to admonish them and tell them there had to be a more compassionate resolution and as it turned out there was. They didn't care much for me as they liked to call me 'a bleeding heart liberal!' Didn't bother me at all. If you can't treat people with compassion and caring you shouldn't be on a board. You have been very helpful. I will pass this on.
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
regardless of HOPA

you may NOT discriminate based on familial status - PERIOD

if one member of the residing family is 55+ (even if they are part time)the home qualifies as per HOPA

if an owner or legal resident / tenant (in the legal sense, eg. non owner) has a child or is the legal guardian of a child -> the child is legal and STAYS even in a HOPA approved community

sorry if you don't like legal FACTS but they are facts none-the-less
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JohnB26 on 01/15/2014 7:40 PM
regardless of HOPA

you may NOT discriminate based on familial status - PERIOD

if one member of the residing family is 55+ (even if they are part time)the home qualifies as per HOPA

if an owner or legal resident / tenant (in the legal sense, eg. non owner) has a child or is the legal guardian of a child -> the child is legal and STAYS even in a HOPA approved community

sorry if you don't like legal FACTS but they are facts none-the-less

John

There was a court case in SC concerning a 9 year old living with her grand parents in Sun City Hilton Head. The courts ruled their no on under 18 could live there rule was legal. The girl could not live there. She was ordered to move.

JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
nope

apples to oranges

while the HOA's rule was legal regarding 'residents', the court did not address its application to a family as per the fair housing act (which would have been a federal issue)

the grandparent's mistake was that they did not get 'legal guardianship' and that therefor the 'kid' was not part of the legal 'family'

you may not, ever, for any reason, discriminate based on 'familial relationship'

the courts have ruled over and over that a child, foster child, 'ward' by court order (guardianship), etc. constitutes 'familial status'

unfortunately for the 'kids' (fortunately for us old farts) most elderly grandparents are totally ignorant of what the law actually says

? wanna bet ? coffee at starbucks ?
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
Fair Housing Act
Title VIII of the Civil Rights Act of 1968 (Fair Housing Act), as amended, prohibits discrimination in the sale, rental, and financing of dwellings, and in other housing-related transactions, based on race, color, national origin, religion, sex, familial status (including children under the age of 18 living with parents or legal custodians, pregnant women, and people securing custody of children under the age of 18), and disability.
EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
JohnB26

Re what you just posted from the Fair Housing Act. Yes, but HOPA provides for an exception for communities that meet the requirements of “55 and over”, unless a State or Local Ordinance comes into play.

See:

http://portal.hud.gov/hudportal/HUD?src=/program_offices/fair_housing_equal_opp/FHLaws/yourrights

excerpts below)

Housing Opportunities for Families

Unless a building or community qualifies as housing for older persons, it may not discriminate based on familial status. That is, it may not discriminate against families in which one or more children under 18 live with:
•A parent
•A person who has legal custody of the child or children or
•The designee of the parent or legal custodian, with the parent or custodian's written permission.

Familial status protection also applies to pregnant women and anyone securing legal custody of a child under 18.

Exemption: Housing for older persons is exempt from the prohibition against familial status discrimination if:

•The HUD Secretary has determined that it is specifically designed for and occupied by elderly persons under a Federal, State or local government program or

•It is occupied solely by persons who are 62 or older or

•It houses at least one person who is 55 or older in at least 80 percent of the occupied units, and adheres to a policy that demonstrates an intent to house persons who are 55 or older.
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
you are correct

i stand corrected

this is too much to tolerate

I, with great sorrow, will be emigrating and, most likely, renouncing my citizenship (albeit with the deepest regrets) since a nation which allows discrimination against its own children can not continue.

this is prohibition all over again

a law was passed banning a substance

said law, while popular, was difficult to enforce

the response ?

repeal the law

GOODBYE, Y'ALL
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
I will NOT quit.

The fact that something is legal does NOT make it RIGHT.

? Where are the windmills ?

..... the windmills of my mind .....
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
...wait...now I see...I'm ALREADY safe behind the walls of my gated asylum

...not even a child's giggle to mar my peace and quiet, only the incessant buzz and hum of the service vehicles and unmaintained heat pumps to spoil my day...

...aaaah...the joys of senior living behind a wall and a gate...

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