Quote:
Posted By JillH7 on 12/17/2013 8:41 AM
Hi Steve,
Yes, unfortunately it seems we are dealing with more power hungry people and less reasonableness... the focus should be on the community and keeping it nice and moving forward instead they are doing things that could cost us a lot of money and make an example out of me for wanting to be informed.. I guess I can now see why so many HOAs have so little participation, usually a small group of bullies that does what they want... in this case they are being questioned, by me and some others, and thus need to find the needle in the haystack to take the attention off the real issues.. their lack of knowledge and/or lack of wanting to learn and follow the necessary rules... Time will bring out all the truths

You know something Jill, I am a current Board member and I have been accused of jsut what you are accusing your board of, being power hungry people, bullies, show favoritism etc...These are the names we are called when someone doesn't "get" their way. Those people know absolutely NOTHING about me personally...they couldn't tell you if am I married, have children do whether or not I live with 60 cats, let alone what it is I do for a living.
BUT they seem to know enough to call me a power hungry person, and call the board a group of bullies who do what they want. And it's those exact accusations that are thrown about when someone doesn't get their way. You wonder why they question every single thing that is presented to them? Because they will be held liable for when someone like you decides to take them and the HOA to court.
Power hungry? the reality is that everyone gets on the board to "do their part" and then they learn that it is the most THANKLESS job in history. Why? because when the homeowner doesn't get their way, they are called names and assumptions are made and they go around to try to find other homeowners that they can suck into their vortex of hate for anything or anyone who says no to them. But instead of calling it quits and resigning, they took their position seriously and won't quit when they are called names by homeowners who don't even own the home they are living in.
Accusing them of lacking knowledge etc is also another ridiculous statement, if they didn't know the doucment's they would of never questioned your being at a homeowners meeting. Surely if you were at a meeting making helpful suggestions instead of accusations, they wouldn't of cared. At my second meeting as a Board member, a woman who moved in with her boyfriend, having never been to an HOA meeting before came in and started making statements and accusations as if she had been living in our neighborhood for as long as the rest of us. I will be honest that I wouldn't give her the time of day because she didn't know anything about our documents, our neighborhood or anyone serving on the board.
Just remember that when you point your finger at the board, there are four pointing back at you. What have you done to or what have you said that makes the board so careful? Are you trying to be helpful or hurtful? It's not what you say or what you ask, but how you say it and how you ask. If your being so accusatory to call them bullies and power hungry, I wouldn't want you at the meetings either!
It's people like you that make our job so hard and why it's called thankless. I sure didn't get on the Board to cause a divide, I got on to do my part for our neighborhood...but hey, thanks so much for reminding me that it's not always the BOD that is the problem, it's the few people who like to stir up trouble when they don't get their way.
As someone suggested, why don't you just do the hard work necessary to get on the deed and then your problems will be solved, and the board can get on with it's business, instead of wasting time fighting someone who doesn't have any authority. Hmmmm...it feels like you are seeking some power yourself.
A current Board President