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Posted By SusanM22 on 11/03/2013 2:49 PM
The only time I have felt hesitant about "debating" issues thus far is when you, Tim and others have egged me to elaborate about FL laws simply because the issue of UPL is a nasty "beast" for Florida CAMs.
Susan,
Please understand that when I, and I believe others, ask for the basis of your opinions or statements is because we have read the same material and had a different understanding. I'm not setting a trap, I'm trying to understand.
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Posted By SusanM22 on 11/03/2013 2:49 PM
I am not used to argue or debate with people who are not involved with national or state organizations. In that respect, I am used to speak the same "language" with other professionals without being constantly challenged to provide proof, evidence, links, etc.
Please understand that the majority of the individuals on this site are not members of CAI or other Association related professions. They are simply homeowners with varied backgrounds who were willing to step forward and serve on their Associations Boards or Committees. We spent our own time doing research and have gotten fairly good at it.
Many have overcome barriers within their own Associations to make the changes they saw were needed. Some of those barriers included dealing with individuals on their own Board who didn't understand the governing documents or the applicable State laws. Some of those barriers included dealing with individuals who refused to specify why they had the authority they claimed to have (sometimes because they didn't know and sometimes because they didn't actually have the authority). Some of those barriers included just plain arrogant Board members who simply said "it's that way because I say it is" and were unwilling to discuss or explain anything.
Therefore, many of us have adopted a trust but verify attitude.
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Posted By SusanM22 on 11/03/2013 2:49 PM
I have no problem posting and even correcting someone based on my many years of work experience,
Same here.
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Posted By SusanM22 on 11/03/2013 3:26 PM
On 10/25, on a different discussion posted by a OH Condo owner . . . One of the things I said referring to the Ohio Condo Act, is "A perfect example is the fact that more than one state has relied in FLORIDA Statutes and Florida case law when revamping their own ancient, outdated Condo & HOA laws." to which Tim replied "Personally, I feel sorry for any State that does."
This single disparaging comment raise alarm bells in me, and made me avoid all the little traps that Tim has set before me to engage me in futile arguments.
Well we are all human and the typical instinct when challenged is to be defensive. It's only when those who can quickly get over being defensive and return to actual discussion of the issues that issues can get resolved.
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Posted By SusanM22 on 11/03/2013 3:26 PM
Furthermore, it is inexplicable that if Tim thinks so poorly of Florida Statutes, he would have the boldness to expect that I would volunteer "free" guidance to him on this and other discussions about the legal intricacies of our Statutes.
Actually, in that
thread (near the top of page 4) I specified that that "there are some good points in FL law" and mentioned one of them.
My main point in that post was that most statutes, irregardless of what State, are created because of special interest groups. The lobbyists representing those groups are paid to do a job - influence the lawmakers so any law that affects their client is written in favor of the client. I believe that those lobbyists have gone overboard for laws pertaining to HOAs/COAs in FL and CA. If I recall correctly, Susan even referred to FL as an anomaly.
I believe that most, not all but most, issues can be resolved if the parties involved are willing to discuss the merits of the issue and use some common sense. I do not believe that government needs to be in every aspect of our lives. In Associations, great changes could occur if the membership would just become involved. Unfortunately, membership apathy does exist. In my opinion, government intervention encourages membership apathy. Why become involved if big brother will get involved for you?
I'm also a realist. If this is what the law says then that is what must be complied with until the law is changed. Susan, if I disagree with a statement I will counter with my own understanding and provide the basis for my understanding. I will also ask, if not already provided, the basis for the other posters understanding. This way, the facts and the merits of the issue can be discussed. Perhaps one side will change their opinion. Perhaps an incorrect opinion will be corrected. Perhaps the individuals will simply agree to disagree. HOWEVER, at least they actually engaged in conversation about the actual issue.
If this is actually done, which I believe is what everyone tries to do on this site, each person will likely leave the conversation with more knowledge than they had when the conversation started.