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After reading through this "blog"...which is certainly an older discussion, but one that is of timely interest to many that are searching for answers to the question of room rentals and or home shares, I provide the following.
Always check DEFINITIONS.
You may think that you know what something (an everyday word) means, but it is the LEGAL definition that counts.
FAMILY - look for definition in your CC&R's. Most CC&R's do not define "Family". They ASSUME that every one knows what a single family IS.
They may refer to "single family residence". "Single Family Residence" is a description of a type of building, home or shelter. It is not a definition of "Family"
Definitions for Family, and Single Family Residence will always be located in your City Planning and Zoning codes. Many, are available on line. Do a search.
Most of the City, County and State definitions for FAMILY are similar, but not all are exactly the same.
EXAMPLE of MY city definition -
City of Springboro Planning and Zoning Code
Draft Date: October 29, 2014
Definitions from Title 6 Chapter 1290
1290.02 DEFINITIONS.
(29) Family . "Family" means EITHER of the following:
A. A domestic family , that is, one or more persons living together and related by the bonds of consanguinity, marriage, or adoption, together with domestic staff of the principal occupants and not more than one additional unrelated person, with all such individuals being domiciled together as a single, domestic, housekeeping unit in a dwelling.
B. The functional equivalent of the domestic family, that is, persons living together in a dwelling unit whose relationship is of a permanent and distinct character and is the functional equivalent of a domestic family with a demonstrable and recognizable bond which constitutes the functional equivalent of the bonds which render the domestic family a cohesive unit. All persons of the functional equivalent of the domestic family must be cooking and otherwise operating as a single housekeeping unit. This definition shall not include any society, club, fraternity, sorority, association, lodge, coterie, organization or group where the common living arrangement and/or the basis for the establishment of the functional equivalency of the domestic family is likely or contemplated to exist for a limited or temporary duration.
Definition for Single Family dwelling
(23)
Dwelling, Single -Family. "Single- family dwelling" means a detached residential dwelling or housing unit, other than a mobile home, designed for and occupied by one family only,including public housing units and industrialized units. (Ord. 546B. Passed 2-25-76.)
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The above, from my city, is one of the more restrictive as compared to MANY others that I researched.
It limits, in (A) - "not more than one additional unrelated person" (it does not restrict to Rental or Shared accommodation.....but seams to require the use of the Entire residence....which of course is the usual case for a room rental.
It states specifically - "with all such individuals being domiciled together as a single, domestic, housekeeping unit in a dwelling."
Many (most) cities allow more than one "unrelated person"...such as 3, 4, ...and a few have no limiting numbers.
Now, go look up "single, domestic, housekeeping unit" A little fuzzy, but, proof is that you share the entire space, contribute to the care and maintenance, Share kitchen facilities, and basically interact as a family. (you can still note the obvious personal privacy issues of bedroom and toilet facilities)
I helps that a roomer has their driver license, car registration, receives mail at the residential address etc. etc.
I suggest, that you carefully write up a "Home Sharing" agreement. Costs to be shared. The costs, that you figure out each month just happen to be the same...or, what ever you can think of for your situation.
My city allows as a definition of "family" as above, - "together with domestic staff of the principal occupants". Do a search on "Domestic Staff" - live-in.
Interestingly, no limits for the number of Domestic Staff are given. No minimum wage requirements are required under the Fair Labor Standards ACT for certain domestic staff. RESEARCH!
This "Domestic Staff" inclusion to the definition of Family is present in every city definition that I researched.
In MY situation, I am a single retired guy. I rent a "share of the entire 5,126 sq ft.home to one "unrelated individual", AND I have one Roomer designated as "Domestic Staff"
My HOA can not argue that I have single family living in my single family residence.
One other way to incorporate another roommate as a family member, is to obtain a Domestic Partnership.
These can be found on-line at many CITY Commission offices and can be done by mail.
see here- AND, RESEARCH for yourself. This is a pretty innocuous document that actually means legally....nothing. In Fact, if you have the thing notarized, but don't actually file it....and present the document to your HOA, they will immediately shut up.....you should remind (warn) them of their fiduciary responsibility to safeguard your personal life choices by not divulging this information because of potential harassment and prejudicial treatment from the community. (You're holding them responsible!)
EXAMPLE - Domestic Partnerships
http://www.cityofdayton.org/cco/Pages/Registry.aspx
OK, done with Rant!
Thanks,
Chuck