Posted:
SharonP:
This is a common problem with over 55 communities in that the retirees have opted for this lifestyle so they won't 'HAVE TO DO anything (outside maintenance, etc.). They feel they have 'put their time in' and now its their time to relax. I am one of those, so I know.
It is unfortunate for those in a leadership role to find ways to rally others to 'get off their duff' and become involved. I often liken this time in our lives to our teen years when we wanted to make friends and be important to others, but we were unsure how to do it.
There will always be some who choose to stay behind their front door and they will pay their dues/fees, not attend meetings, just live out the rest of their life as loners. You will most likely never get them involved.
But, for the others who do want to 'enjoy new friends' in community living, these are the ones you want to target. Suggestions:
- send out a questionnaire: what are your talents, occupation/s,
hobbies, etc.; alert all that the info will be shared
- ask if anyone would like to share (try not to use the word volunteer)--their talents/skills in an effort to know each other and benefit the community as a whole--gardeners, photographers, artists, interior decorators, painters, woodworkers, sports enthusiasts: bowlers, golfers; seamstresses, cards:pinochle, bridge, travel agent, secretary, etc.
- upon return of questionnaires, compile a list
- propose a 'get to know your neighbor' gathering
There is no telling what could come of this effort. If residents feel they can join with neighbors to have fun, then when the 'work' becomes necessary there won't be a problem. Good Luck!