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Posted By FrankS10 on 07/05/2013 7:59 AM
Jon,
Relax! Go grab a cold one!
I think you are doing the same thing you accuse Mike of. You are lumping anyone who may disagree with your positions into the same category. Re-read your words please. Stay above the fray by watching the tone, please.
FTR, I am Catholic educated from elementary through grad school, so I do see the awesome good the Catholic Church does. Nothing compares to Catholic Charities IMO. But, I don't ignore the fact that someone close to me was inappropriately treated by a priest. There is usually some truth to most stories, including Mike's most likely.
Also FTR, I have been in managerial positions where my responsibilities were much bigger than any HOA I am familiar with. Also owned a small start-up company. Maybe getting to know someone before making assumptions about them would be a good approach? Honestly, the skills required are similar to running a household. Been married 32 years and doing OK, so thanks!
I have served on many committees in my neighborhood. I do not know anyone in this community who volunteers more time/resources than I and my wife do, and most community members would say as much. I have not served on the Board as the Developers have made the statement that they would always use their votes to keep me off. No one has made more changes in how our HOA conducts its' business than I have. Not bragging, just stating fact. I have addressed many perceived conflicts of interest and just by bringing them to light, have made changes. And enemies. That's par for the course, as my corporate experience verifies. I run every election knowing I will be defeated, just to make a statement. Courage is contagious if one is willing to experience personal hardship and stay the course. I would have been elected ahead of one of the Developers in the last election if they had not used 1 vote per unsold lot to defeat me. The election results are "known" before it even occurs. I am not bitter at all. They do not see how this hurts them more than me.
The reason you see so many news stories is because Mike's assertions are at least partially correct. All organizations are going to have conflict because that is what humans do! I believe you would see more of it, but many people have learned that challenging their HOA Board might come back to haunt them.
Jon, I am sure you are an ethical individual who is taking Mike's words personally. It also looks as though you are a lawyer or have a legal back ground? I am not sure a 0-4 record for Mike means he was always wrong on the issues. Many cases get decided on technicalities. The law and ethics or what is right can be worlds apart on occasion.
We have an attorney, head legal counsel for a national organization, in our neighborhood. He is one of my biggest supporters, agrees with me 98% plus of the time. Yet, he will often say though certain positions have obvious merit, winning is a 50/50 proposition at best. You are a good guy Jon, but not all people are obviously. Mike is being flavored by his experiences, as you are, as I am. When I read what you both say I find myself agreeing and disagreeing at different times with each of your positions. Keep the name calling out of it and the rest of us will continue to learn from both of you.
Thanks.
Frank I would suggest you take Tim's advice and do a search for the posts made by Mike. Then do a search for mike reardon in regards to HOAs I will let Mike words speak for him. If you read what he has posted and still believe he provides some degree of "political activism" that somehow benefits his community then we simply disagree.
Evidently you missed my point about the church. Did you, as Mike would, go on to attack every faction of the church in response to the behavior a one group of mental defectives? Did you, as Mike has, now claim every priest and member of the church was a child molester? Would you call for the destruction of the CC?
How about taking people's homes?
How about beating them with a bat?
How about comparing them to Nazis?
Did you do any of that Frank? Well Mike did.
So before you compare my words and actions with that of Mike be careful and take the time to understand the entire picture since Mike arrived here.
And as far as tone, some people need to be told straight out, and I am more than willing to do that. Whether Mike or anyone else likes that or not really does not concern me.
You see I don't like frauds, liars, or people who twist the truth to serve their agenda. Mike makes claims about what he has done in his community and in his legal actions and the truth in 10 years NOTHING!
The he makes claims about laws in other states and we have Tim come here and offer to clarify what actually happened not Mike's version.
Now as to your next point. Or suggestion I get to know folks. I could pull mine out and we can see whose is in fact bigger. But what does that prove?
I too owned my own business. I too held positions that required alot. And I have served on a Board for 26 years. So let me offer my opinion IF you have NEVER held a Board position it is foolishness to suggest or believe one can step in and handle the job because at one point you worked as a business manager. Over the years I have had, lawyers, teachers, insurance executives, business owners, managers at major corporations, people with BAs, people with Masters degrees, not one walked in sat down and was able to hit the ground running as if they were there all along. Like any other job there is in fact a learning curve. After 26 years I still learn almost every day. Simply not possible to understand or judge what is required without actually holding that job. Now if you intend to merely occupy a seat YES then working for Mickey Ds qualifies you. But if you actually plan to do the job in some sort of manner worthy of your reputation than IMO it takes sitting in the seat before you can judge what that position requires. Your statement about comapring it to "running a household" to be honest Frank I don't even know how to respond other than you have no idea. And to be honest its insulting.
Frank, Mike's assertions are that EVERY HOA is bad. His assertions are that EVERY HOA Board member has a credit card from the property and steals money. His assertions are the government and courts will change things in his favor. His assertions are that a majority of the HOA property owners feel negative against their HOAs. Where is the truth in any of that?
Frank, seems to me you are hell bent on giving Mike the benefit of the doubt.
As if he has something, anything positive to offer. I could not disagree more.
Again, I would suggest you take the time to read his posts over time. Tim was nice enough to explain how this might be done. Now as I have said I have been through 4 lawsuits. I know the cost and damage done to the property by people just like Mike. The windbags who are still working on their GEDs, who paid for an on-line legal course, who show total disregard for the cost this brings to their own communities, who sight the Constitution as their support, who have been unable to secure support in their own communities, whose lawyers have dropped their cause, who have claimed to be the victim of the big bad HOA. I've seen this all. Mike is the same as these folks here just with a different name.And oh by the way the property won all 4. Despite the fact we violated Constitutional Rights up the ying yang, abused the elderly on a regular basis,
breached contracts, fined the hell out of whoever we felt like, stole more money than we needed, and abused little puppy dogs.
Perhaps, until you have sat on a Board and heard and lived through the negative affects lawsuits like Mike has brought against his property you can't understand the damage he has caused. I have sen it first hand.
So if you wish to sell Mike and his behavior as GOOD well I'm not buying that story. Try selling that to someone else.
IMO Mike is a clown. He has proven that to me. How you see him or deal with him does not matter to me.
Go read Mike's posts. If you still see Mike in a positive light that's your opinion.