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TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
All,

I've been seeing claims that state we give away rights when we purchase property controlled by an HOA. Some claims even state that Constitutional rights are given away when joining a COA/HOA.

We all know that there are differences between rights and privileges. We also understand that often what is actually a privilege is seen by many as a right.

Now it is certainly possible, in contractual agreements, for someone to agree to not utilize their rights (example: credit agreements requiring binding arbitration vs. a jury trial). However, do members of an HOA/COA actually agree to give away rights or is it simply a perception caused by being uninformed?

If your willing, lets take a look at this issue and try to separate the facts from the myth.

Since this can be a passionate subject for some I propose the following two rules -

1) keep it civil (agree to disagree)
2) provide the basis for your belief but keep on topic

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:

Property Rights -

Do we give away property rights?

Maybe. However you never really had the right to do anything you wanted with your property. There are Zoning restrictions, County Codes and various laws that must be complied with when you own property. Joining an Association you certainly agreed to live by additional rules and restrictions on your property.

Typically the issues arise when someone wants to do something the restrictions don't allow.

So, would this fall into the category of giving away "rights" or be more of being uninformed?

TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:

Property Maintenance -

I have a right to maintain my property how I see fit and can afford!

I suppose that we have all heard this or versions of it before. Is this really a right?

Grass to high - The County or City will see it as a health hazard
Buildings in Disrepair - The County or City can condemn the property or deem it unsafe to live in.
Junk all over the yard - The County or City can see this as a health hazard.

Don't Associations just have stricter standards then the County or City?

So is it a right or perceived right? To me this is a perceived right.
DaveD3 (Michigan)
Posts: 796
Posted:
Start at the top. Freedom of speech/expression is most certainly given up when HOAs have sign prohibitions.

There have been posts in this forum wanting to compromise the right to bear arms by prohibiting ownership in an HOA. Whether or not any actually have that restriction, I don't know, but suspect yes.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By DaveD3 on 05/14/2013 4:18 AM
Start at the top. Freedom of speech/expression is most certainly given up when HOAs have sign prohibitions.

Is it?

There are other avenues to utilize freedom of speech (newsletters, meetings, talking to your neighbors, write letters, Internet, etc.). Many governments are prohibiting display of signs in traffic medians, this isn't seen as a denial of freedom of speech.

The Bill of Rights provides that the government shall make no law abridging the freedom of speech. I suppose that an argument could be made that not being able to post a sign is diminishing your right of free speech but another argument can be made that with other venues available, your right was never diminished.

Freedom of expression? I've never heard of that one. I've heard of "freedom of expression" but not a right to expression. Can you tell me what you use as the basis for saying expression is a freedom? I ask because I see speech and expression as two different things.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 05/14/2013 4:50 AM
Posted By DaveD3 on 05/14/2013 4:18 AM
Start at the top. Freedom of speech/expression is most certainly given up when HOAs have sign prohibitions.


Is it?

Let me add that I do agree that, depending on what is in your Associations governing documents, that having restrictions on signs can limit a method of speech but it doesn't completely eliminate your right of free speech.

DavidW5 (North Carolina)
Posts: 565
Posted:
I understand Tim's reasons for starting this thread and it is a worthwhile discussion but my take on this is:

You have the right (and the obligation) to read the governing documents BEFORE you buy into an HOA and to decide if you wish to abide by the restrictions they impose. You have an absolute right to choose to live elsewhere. What you do not have is a right to claim after the fact, if you didn't bother to read the documents, that they unfairly restrict your constitutional rights.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:

Right to Keep and Bear Arms -

Quote:
Posted By DaveD3 on 05/14/2013 4:18 AM

There have been posts in this forum wanting to compromise the right to bear arms by prohibiting ownership in an HOA. Whether or not any actually have that restriction, I don't know, but suspect yes.

I would expect that if the CC&Rs (not any other document) stipulated you could not keep and bear arms, and that that stipulation was in place when you purchased your property, that this would indeed an instance where you would have signed away that right.

However, in my layman's opinion, I don't think that amending the CC&Rs or simply adopting a rule would survive a legal challenge. I base this on the Supreme Court Opinion in DC vs. Heller.

Of course, as Dave pointed out, it won't stop some people from trying.

JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
Grass to high - The County or City will see it as a health hazard


as per the international property maintenance code = 12"
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
Junk all over the yard - The County or City can see this as a health hazard.


does NOT includ a vehicle on 'jack stands' being serviced or (usually) parking on your lawn

does NOT include your typical 'pink flamingo' or windmill or lighthouse
JohnB26 (South Carolina)
Posts: 1,569
Posted:
Buildings in Disrepair - The County or City can condemn the property or deem it unsafe to live in.


? slightly worn paint ?

? one or two cracked siding boards ?

? aging roof ?

etc
DaveD3 (Michigan)
Posts: 796
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 05/14/2013 4:55 AM
Posted By TimB4 on 05/14/2013 4:50 AM
Posted By DaveD3 on 05/14/2013 4:18 AM
Start at the top. Freedom of speech/expression is most certainly given up when HOAs have sign prohibitions.


Is it?


Let me add that I do agree that, depending on what is in your Associations governing documents, that having restrictions on signs can limit a method of speech but it doesn't completely eliminate your right of free speech.


It sounds like you're suggesting that rights are not given up so long as a thread of them remains. So if verbal speech is forbidden within the HOA, rights are not given up so long as hand-written notes can be passed back & forth?
DaveD3 (Michigan)
Posts: 796
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By TimB4 on 05/14/2013 4:50 AM
Posted By DaveD3 on 05/14/2013 4:18 AM
Start at the top. Freedom of speech/expression is most certainly given up when HOAs have sign prohibitions.


Is it?

There are other avenues to utilize freedom of speech (newsletters, meetings, talking to your neighbors, write letters, Internet, etc.). Many governments are prohibiting display of signs in traffic medians, this isn't seen as a denial of freedom of speech.

The Bill of Rights provides that the government shall make no law abridging the freedom of speech. I suppose that an argument could be made that not being able to post a sign is diminishing your right of free speech but another argument can be made that with other venues available, your right was never diminished.

Freedom of expression? I've never heard of that one. I've heard of "freedom of expression" but not a right to expression. Can you tell me what you use as the basis for saying expression is a freedom? I ask because I see speech and expression as two different things.

If the government were to say that your freedom of speech only permitted you to voice your opinion while standing on a soap-box in the town square, or to publish via news-print, because that's what existed when the Bill of Rights was written, and thus prohibited/restricted speech in any other form would that not be a violation of your 1st amendment rights?
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
John,

As you know, I was using those issues to illustrate a point. The point being that there are already governmental restrictions on your property when you purchase it. Therefore, in my opinion, the "right" to maintain your property to your level of preference would be a perceived right and not an actual right (as there are limitations already in place be the property in a covenanted community or not).

MatthewW4 (Arizona)
Posts: 500
Posted:
Tim,

In many cities and counties, new developments are required to be HOA's. From what I have seen there is little supervision or control over what the developer adds to his covenants. I am unaware of any court decisions that address this issue, but it has always seemed to me that if a government agency dictates that covenants must be adopted then the HOA is operating under "color of authority." That is, the HOA is an extension of and an agent for the city or county that dictated its existence.

Under this reasoning, the HOA cannot adopt rules or procedures that would violate the owners' Constitutional rights. This would not only prevent the HOA from trying to prevent gunownership but would also require the HOA to follow due process in bringing complaints against owners. One could make an argument that the color one chooses to paint his home is a matter of freedom of expression that is beyond the control of the HOA.

I think with the growth of HOA's and the requirement for them imposed by government agencies that it is merely a matter of time before someone brings the above argument before an appellate court.

DaveD3 (Michigan)
Posts: 796
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By MatthewW4 on 05/14/2013 7:56 AM
Tim,

In many cities and counties, new developments are required to be HOA's. From what I have seen there is little supervision or control over what the developer adds to his covenants. I am unaware of any court decisions that address this issue, but it has always seemed to me that if a government agency dictates that covenants must be adopted then the HOA is operating under "color of authority." That is, the HOA is an extension of and an agent for the city or county that dictated its existence.

Under this reasoning, the HOA cannot adopt rules or procedures that would violate the owners' Constitutional rights. This would not only prevent the HOA from trying to prevent gunownership but would also require the HOA to follow due process in bringing complaints against owners. One could make an argument that the color one chooses to paint his home is a matter of freedom of expression that is beyond the control of the HOA.

I think with the growth of HOA's and the requirement for them imposed by government agencies that it is merely a matter of time before someone brings the above argument before an appellate court.


Ahhh... but they most certainly CAN adopt such rules, and those rules can remain in place until brought before a court and ruled unconstitutional as you mentioned.

With HOA boards not typically being Constitutional scholars, and with there being an abundance of "good ideas" that result in a violation of constitutional rights, such rules are bound to be adopted. One need only look at SCOTUS cases on gun rights to see that entities far larger than HOAs have run afoul of the Constitution with well-intended laws.
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
The Right of Free Speech is not absolute even outside of an HOA. You can't shout fire in a crowded theater, call a member of another race a name and it's labeled hate speech and not protected. Most businesses limit the right of Free Speech even outside of the workplace. How many people have had their careers come to an abrupt end for mouthing off about their boss or employer on social media sites?

Studies show that 5 out of 4 people have problems with fractions
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
I just don't see the correlation between giving up my constitutional rights and living in a HOA. What rights do I give up according to the constitution? Free speech is NOT free. People died and sacrificed so I could claim "Free speech". Is human life really free to give up like that?

A HOA main purpose is to keep the property ATTRACTIVE to potential buyers. It has always been a "sales tool" used by developers/builders to sell houses. What better sales pitch than saying to a buyer that you can "maintain" your home values by regulating what your neighbor does? Of course you are NEVER that neighbor that needs regulations against.

So what rights am I giving up when I agree to make sure my property and my neighbors look attractive to potential buyers? None. Instead I give up my rights whenever I do plant a flag pole in the front yard or put up political signs. Those do NOT enhance nor do they display the feelings of ALL the members. A neighbor may not be from the USA or is democrat. Do I want people coming to my neighborhood thinking that we are all a bunch of democrats when I am Republican?

This is where I feel I need to put in the whole "Outhouse" in the front yard scenario in regards to HOA's. If you put in an "outhouse" in a non-hoa, it could take months to years to have it removed. One would have to go to the city council to petition them. Make sure there are laws on the books, if not then make one. The city has to come out and fine the person, which can take weeks or months. Finally the city could then invoke immenent domain laws and remove the structure.

If a HOA has someone put in an "outhouse" then the members can have power to remove that much faster. There are rules and fines on the books. The HOA can come in, remove the structure and send the owner the bill. If the owner does not pay that bill the HOA can lien them for it.

The owner can claim "Free speech" all they want and it violates their constitutional rights for their outhouse. However, in the reality of things, it's just an eyesore that violates the agreement all the members agreed to live under. No rights taken, just violation of a contractual agreement.

Former HOA President
NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
Page 48 and 49...unfortunately, I am now allowed to tell you the name of the book. It's explained in great detail throughout the book but those pages pretty much "hit the nail on the head."

HOAs are "private governments"

In reading the postings on this site over the past few days, I realize there are a lot of well-meaning people posting on here. I also realize they do not have the 100% big picture of HOAs in America or a 100% understanding of what CC&Rs are. When I bought my house, I sure didn't. I do now.

I also realize most people on here are completely naïve to the magnitude of what is happening across America in HOAs.

Most people in general who live in an HOA do not realize they have signed to purchase a piece of real estate but also every neighbor they have just became their business partner. HOAs are a business. Any debts incurred by the HOA are equally the responsibility of each homeowner. If the HOA board decides to get in a big legal battle the cost of the litigation falls to the homeowners. In certain circumstances the legal will be paid for by the insurance.

Very few states have any governing over HOAs or property managers. As I understand it, Kansas is the only state with a Homeowner's Bill of Rights. I know it's on the books, I fought for it long and hard and I was there when the Governor signed the bill into law. After he signed he turned and handed me the pen. I also have an enrolled copy of it. I fought for that Bill of Rights not for me personally, but for all Kansans suffering in the HOAs in our state. It is not a "perfect" law but it was a start. I am forever grateful to the legislators that gave equal time and attention to the property managers, HOA attorneys, and the few board members that strongly opposed any governing over HOAs and to me and a few other homeowners who stood our ground and fought the battle all the way to the end...and won. I stood before the senators and told them I was not there to ask for their help, I was there begging for their help. My supporting documents were so strong and truthful they never had any doubt I was not telling them the truth.

Folks so much information is out there that would truly help each and every one of you. It would help you personally and as board or community members.

An attorney that is a professor and expert in the field of HOA's. And an investigative journalist for 40 years that spent 25 years researching and compiling has a recently released book and website with every detail imaginable about HOAs. I'm sure you can locate these highly-skilled people with some internet searching and I'm sorry I cannot quickly guide you in their direction.

You may not like what you read or want to believe everything, but its impossible not to believe these highly-documented resources. Simply impossible.

NDR
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
I'd sooner believe someone's experience and life related knowledge than a book/newsmedia. We give advice here because we have been in the trenches. We have seen the highs and lows of HOA living. We are NOT naïve about HOA's at all because we are the people that live and breath them. There is no "enlightenment" to be had here. We instead "EDUCATE" and not SPECULATE.

Most of us don't hide behind blame on HOA's. We blame ourselves or our fellow members for NOT taking action. It's not one big HOA conspiracy. You make your HOA what you all want it to be. Make your bed now lie in it. You want hospital corners on that bed then get up and put them in. You don't want to make that bed, then don't touch the blankets. Just don't complain about how messy it is.

Seriously it's just not cool to come in here and because you read a few books, you are now smarter than anyone else. Some of us probably wrote those books...

Former HOA President
NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
Oh Melissa,

You never cease to amaze me.

I should have stated the writer of the book....the investigative journalist (retired) started the process of research and writing about HOAs because of a HOA where he owns a home in Morrison, Colorado. There has been 5 lawsuits...and he's spent a total of $500,000.00 yes, 1/2 of a million dollars on attorneys for those lawsuits!!!!! He bought in there not realizing he has signed away his US Constitutional Rights. Unfortunately, his wife was diagnosed with MS just as he was building the house....he needed approval to change the design to include a wheelchair ramp in anticipation of her future condition..........and that my dear Melissa is where the battle began...because the HOA president told him "We don't want gimps in our neighborhood!" This happened before the ADA laws were enacted in our country. He did more research to learn that HOAs were started in America to keep blacks and Jews out of pristine white neighborhoods. I know all this to be factual because it all started in Kansas City with JC Nichols.

Because of his career....and he's had quite a successful award-winning career....he felt driven to educate others about his HOA experience....he felt compelled to educate volunteer board members about what slippery slope they are heading down when they use attorneys for their first defense against homeowners. He felt a moral obligation to his fellow Americans to expose the corruption and embezzlement that is rampant in HOAs today.

He retired 4 years ago and since his wife is completely bedridden and he is her caregiver he's spent all his time talking to people all over the country doing research so he could provide the most comprehensive book ever on HOAs.

I know attorneys that have read this book and called me and said OMG! This guy is incredible. This book is incredible. Not one person that I know has read this book and not had their jaws drop.

You say you have been in the trenches? Have you been in the trenches as deep as this guy? Another author has been published by the Yale University Press. Are you telling me you are an HOA scholar? Really? I will buy your books tonight and read them. Please....guide me to where I can find them.

You clearly have not paid close attention to my postings. I have not read a few books and come here. Your snippy little blankets statements are not becoming to you. And, you smart-arse analogies about sheets and blankets show me you are not a professional person with the skills to compete with highly-educated successful people.

The choice is yours...you can stop being a right-fighter and learn from others and become even more knowledgeable or you can choose not to. Either way, what you do does not change my life one way or the other, however it could change yours.

NDR
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Nila

You are fast becoming overbearing.

NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
"I just don't see the correlation between giving up my constitutional rights and living in a HOA."

You said it, I didn't.

That statement right there tells me you do not know all you THINK you know about owning property in an HOA. What it DOES tell me is: You don't know, what you don't know.

I rest my case.

NDR
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Oh thank God you have rested your case... Living in a HOA does not mean suffering and hiring lawyers. What I don't know? Is how to hire a lawyer for everything and then go around whining about it. I don't play "victim" nor do I pay "Victim with a lawyer".

What I do know about HOA's is that they are a group of homeowners who form a corporation in order to attract future buyers to purchase their property at a good price. Your only requirement to be a HOA member is you own a home/property/condo. I don't expert experts to run my HOA except those hired for their professional expertise. It's going to be a stay at home mom or someone's grandfather who's in that board office. All because I don't want to be. If I want to be, then I will be.

So put me as one that doesn't "drink the Kool aid" of some guy selling books to make up for the stupid thing he did by suing his HOA. He not only sued his neighbors but himself. He made his bed just like the rest of us. Why should I use him or other like him as my example of what it means to be in a HOA? I like many others on here have a brain.

Former HOA President
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Posted By NilaR on 05/14/2013 3:53 PM

Folks so much information is out there that would truly help each and every one of you. It would help you personally and as board or community members.

Nila,

Since I work in Broadcasting I tend to read what is published with a bit of skepticism. Even if I agree with what an individual is saying, I like to verify the basis of their opinions for my self. The old Trust but Verify method of learning.

I've looked at one of the articles you have read. Although I agree with a lot of what the individual is talking about, I became skeptical when four of the seven sources in his bibliography were his own works and appeared to be earlier publications of the same paper. That said, the paper discussed the need to for Associations to be financially prepared for future expenses and I don't think anyone on this forum would disagree with the that message. In fact, this forum has many threads on the need to properly fund reserves.

Of course, since you have a corporate background, you know that actually implementation is far different than the research done. This is what Melissa meant when she says she has been in the trenches. I can relate to what Melissa said because like her, I had to do both the research and the implementation on various issues. The hardest one was advocating against an assessment increase one year because the Board failed to do a Reserve Study followed by actually requesting a 20% increase in assessment the following year after the Reserve Study was done.

In your initial post you stated that you have been in your Association for 8 years. We know that you have done research and you say you had a hand in your States HOA laws. Your advice to others who ask for assistance is solid, which gives the appearance that you have served on your Associations board. However, you have never posted that you have served or are serving on your Board. Hence my question, Are you now or have you previously served on your Associations Board?

On a side note, you may or may not have realized that a comment "I did not realize when I purchased in an HOA I was signing away my US Constitutional Rights" in your initial post was the reason I started this thread. Unfortunately you haven't identified what constitutional rights you believed you signed away. I am actually interested in learning different points of view on this. It doesn't matter if we agree with each other on that point of view. The point is to learn and understand the other point of view.

Learning to see things from different perspectives is imperative when serving on an Associations Board or a Committee. When we see things from another point of view, you can find things in common that can be agreed upon and likely work out a solution to issues everyone can agree with. Real World example, I'm in the process of drafting a rewrite of our Association's Owners Manual. This manual contains all our governing documents but also describes how the Association works. If I can learn why some see living in an Association as giving up Constitutional rights perhaps I can develop a better draft that will minimize this impact.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Nila,

As you can see, it's OK to cite or provide a link to where the basis of your opinion is coming from. Based on my experience with this forum, the moderators do not have an issue with that. So if you know of a good resource, share it.

However, if you list that resource in every post or urge people to use a specific site or buy a specific product or book over and over again, this is seen as advertising or promoting a product, which isn't allowed.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Posted By DaveD3 on 05/14/2013 7:55 AM

If the government were to say that your freedom of speech only permitted you to voice your opinion while standing on a soap-box in the town square. . . and thus prohibited/restricted speech in any other form would that not be a violation of your 1st amendment rights?

I would have to say sometimes yes and sometimes no.

I had already provided a link to a Washington Post story about signs being prohibited in traffic medians. I personally don't think this violates the freedom of speech.

As Glen pointed out, the courts have stipulated that freedom of speech does not include the right to break other laws when exercising that freedom. As I posted in my earlier post, to me, limiting a method of delivery is not the same as violating your freedom of speech.

Personally, I don't care if you have signs in your yard. However, our rules prohibit them (except where the laws allow them). Since you can't have a sign in your yard, I'd point out that you can have a sign on your car. You can wear a sign, you can post on the forum section of our website, heck, as long as I'm on the board, I'll offer space in our newsletter to any member that desires it providing the tone is civil and doesn't violate other laws, I'll have the Association publish it.

Dave, you have made some excellent points. It's been good learning from you.

Tim
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Quote:
Posted By MatthewW4 on 05/14/2013 7:56 AM

I am unaware of any court decisions that address this issue, but it has always seemed to me that if a government agency dictates that covenants must be adopted then the HOA is operating under "color of authority." That is, the HOA is an extension of and an agent for the city or county that dictated its existence.

That's an interesting point of view.

NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
Tim,

I am glad to know you read Tyler Berding's report. Possibly I found it more interesting because I could see how it closely described exactly what has happened in my HOA? Either way, if you found something of interest or not, at least you made the effort to check it out. I think you will agree he is not some crack pot writing garbage.

I'm also glad you work in broadcasting. Possibly you know or have heard of the author of the best book I have read on HOAs? Again, his work nearly describes my HOA to the tee. I had never heard of him until I read his book. I contacted him after reading the book and at times he will email asking for me to do a guest blog on his website. I tell him we are HOA POW's and its nice to know somebody out there can relate.

I have read and studied massive amounts of information but since you are authorizing me to disclose the sources I feel have been most helpful to me...here they are:

www.neighborsatwar.com and the book, Neighbors At War by Ward Lucas

Reviews are available on Amazon as well.

This book is hard for readers to put down. There is history. Humor. And of course lots about HOA's. And HOA Syndrome. In there you will find the details about the US Constitutional Rights/HOAs as well. His personal HOA battle in Morrison, Colorado and some interesting tidbits about his 40 years as an investigative television journalist. He welcomes your comments on his website and if you wish to send him a personal [email protected] He is also on Facebook and Twitter under Neighbors At War

Privatopia and Beyond Privatopia by Evan McKenzie he also has a website...I'm doing this from memory (google if this is wrong) www.privatopia.com

Professor McKenzie is a scholar and lawyer so his books are more challenging. Excellent source of information but some people tell me its a struggle for them to follow all the details. He is also quoted in many newspaper articles all across the US. Often times he is called upon as an expert witness in HOA trials.

There is also a website with a radio show that I enjoy listening to. I can't recall the name but you can google and find it. Sorry, I'm not sure how to go out of this blog and come back without losing everything to go to my files. google Shu Barthalomew She has various different guests as well as Ward Lucas and Professor McKenzie on to talk about HOA issues. That is all her show is about is HOAs.

Again, these are the best of the resources I have located. Should I come across something else I think you will appreciate, I will share it. Ward Lucas' book also has a number of suggestions on page 346. To be honest I have not read all those. My time has been consumed...I am preparing to be called as a witness in a major lawsuit. Just when I think I've heard it all....this homeowner was beaten with a crowbar by an HOA board member. I think the legal bills are now something in the $200,000.00 range for the HOA.

Oh, you asked have I served on my HOA board. The answer is, no. I did offer to in 2008 with a team of professionals that I put together but the board had minions out telling lies to scare the community from having non owners on their board. I had also exposed the 10 million dollars unaccounted for and some were blaming me that their precious 26 year president had died from the stress I put him through. I should tell you, the average age in my community is probably 75-78 years old. Younger people (I'm no Spring chicken) on the board scare them. They don't come from business backgrounds (lots of retired school teachers and widows)and new ideas and professionalism are not on their radar. We did manage to get a really sharp young woman in her late 20's on the board but after a year she threw her hands up. Too much nonsense, fighting among board members, inability to make decisions and the high-priced property manager's antics. Since there is a personally liability in Kansas that comes with being a board member, my attorney advised I would be best served to keep my name free and clear of being a board member. It's all okay with me. And it's fine that the board looks at me like I'm the "rat" that plugged the plug on Bernie Madoff. Not a problem. When I go to my grave I will know I stood up for what was right, even when I was standing alone.

Thank you Tim for your professionalism, enjoy the reads!

NDR
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
I've listened to a couple of webcasts of On the Commons.

Personally I didn't like it because, to me, the show tends to sensationalize the negatives and barley touch on the positive. Even when guests stress to work within the Association the show goes back to take the issue outside of the Association.

NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
Interesting, Tim. Perhaps I have not listened to the show enough times to hear that or perhaps, I have suffered in my HOA so long I can relate to the negatives? Well, that's all I could relate to because there has not been one positive thing that has happened in my life since I moved into this HOA. Losing $200,000, the pigment in my skin, and spending over 100 hours per week dealing with one problem after another...yes, I can relate to the negative things. Well, wait...I found the legislative process extremely interesting. I learned the value of voting and electing the right people and I saw how my tax dollars were spent on the rehab of the capitol building. So, yes there have been positives but they were made possible by the negatives in my HOA. I guess they call that a "Catch 22?"

I do honor and respect the fact you and I are living very different experiences in our respective HOAs. I grew up in a wonderful neighborhood (non HOA)white collar, we vacationed together, ate meals together, had keys to each other houses, I babysat the little kids, our parents played cards, when we were ill the doctors came to the house, the sales executives brought all the promo items home to the neighbor kids. It was fabulous. I've owned several other houses (all non-HOA) and because of my career I didn't have time to do all the social stuff but my neighbors were awesome and I made sure I spent time with the elderly ones. I moved into this HOA with plans to be semi-retired and do lots of volunteer work and work seasonal jobs in resorts and national parks...just fun stuff, but I thought it would be perfect to not have to worry about the grass, exterior maintenance, etc. Impossible dream. Yet, I once lived like you do now and I am so envious. To live in a carefree happy cheerful place with neighbors smiling and hugging each other....probably baking each other cookies...nice and wonderful. I hope it stays that way....forever.

I cannot and do not expect you to relate to my situation anymore than I relate to the three young girls held captive and raped and beaten in Ohio for ten years. That story makes me feel sick, angry, in shock, you name it....I cannot relate on an emotional level but I do not doubt for one second they were living a hellish nightmare and my heart goes out to them. I worked in aviation during 9/11/01. I know the entire nation was in shock and mourning. But only those on flight crews can relate to that day in the same way, and the days, weeks, months and years that have followed.

NDR
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
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And yet she neatly sidestepped the question of just what Constitutional Rights you give up in a HOA. Most of the Constitution dictates how the Government is set up, then we come to the Amendments the first ten of which are the Bill of Rights.

Amendment 1 - Freedom of Religion, Press, Expression
The HOA has never stopped me from speaking my mind. Never told me who to pray to or how. Never stopped me from publishing anything either. (To be fair there have been some issues with religious expression. Usually by someone wanting to hang something in the common areas which HOA rules forbid, the courts in these cases have ruled in favor of allowing them. Lately there have been more and more complaints about people practicing religions that require animal sacrifices in HOAs, which will be interesting to see how they play out.)

Amendment 2 - Right to Bear Arms
Nope still have my guns.

Amendment 3 - Quartering of Soldiers
Never been forced to house a soldier, sailor or marine.

Amendment 4 - Search and Seizure
HOA has never entered my home to search or seize anything.

Amendment 5 - Trial and Punishment, Compensation for Takings
Never been tried in HOA court.

Amendment 6 - Right to Speedy Trial, Confrontation of Witnesses
See above.

Amendment 7 - Trial by Jury in Civil Cases
Will admit there is no jury in most HOA's except in Florida.

Amendment 8 - Cruel and Unusual Punishment
Does sitting though The Annual Meeting count?

Amendment 9 - Construction of Constitution
The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people. Same thing for the CC&R's

Amendment 10 - Powers of the States and People
The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people. Same thing for the CC&R's


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NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
Sorry, you got that impression Glen.

When Tim said provide my sources I did and assumed it was easier for him to read it straight from the source than for me to sit and type for hours.

I feel I've been very forthcoming with information. Goodness, I've shared enough at this point any one of you could locate my phone number and call me up right now. I have absolutely no clue who any of you are other than your name and state.

Truly sorry for disappointing you.

NDR
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
Nila you are the one who stated in another post: I did not realize when I purchased in an HOA I was signing away my US Constitutional Rights and subjecting myself to the liability of all debt my HOA board created.

We are simply trying to find out what rights you signed away. As to subjecting yourself to liability of all the debt your Board created, that fact is clearly spelled out in every CC&R I've ever read but I freely admit I haven't read every CC&R.

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NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
Glen,

Tim granted me permission to reveal my sources with a warning not to repeat them but the details of how I signed away my US Constitutional Rights are found in the book Neighbors At War by Ward Lucas book.

Here are a few tidbits that you might find of interest. Some of our homeowners have been told by their attorneys that the by-laws we have are not written in accordance with our state laws. Even my attorney said...these must have been written by somebody at their kitchen table who did not have a law degree.

We had another board member who had been through law school back in the 1950's but never practiced law....he re-wrote the covenants and put a cover that said they were passed and effective on XXXX 26, 2010, but they never got enough votes to pass them. Those are being given out to new owners. They are a hot mess.

In 2008 when I was trying to get help with all the money issues, etc. Every place I went...city...county..I was told....sorry there are no laws for HOA members. You should contact your legislators and see if they can help. So we did exactly that and spent two years getting a bill worked and passed into law.

So, from my experience...goodness knows what is legal and who has what rights and who doesn't. I know I didn't have anything to stand on until we got this Bill of Rights passed. I just read tonight On the Commons that an attorney is going to be a guest talking about for 25 years in Florida all kinds of legal things have been done incorrectly.

I've spent years now talking to people all across the United States. I'm not getting information from the group like you guys have created on this website. I'm hearing insane stuff. And, once I signed on to this website I've learned how beautifully some of these people are living in their HOAs. Now, I don't know if they are living in HOAs of 10 houses and 9 are empty.....or if they are living in HOAs with 2,500 houses. I mean really....you guys/gals are the poster children for Happy HOAs USA. There are a few like the flag pole guy today...who plans to sell and run for his life from his HOA, but everybody seems so in love with their HOAs. Melissa has me confused because one of her postings says she was voted off of her HOA board...then she says she lives 700 feet from her HOA (inside/outside??) but she is adamantly telling me she's basically written the book on Happy HOAs USA.

So, best I can say is...keep doing things the way you are because its working. I wish I knew where all these HOAs are because I'd sure be making a trip around the country to see what a perfect HOA looks like. I'm skittish now so I'd never buy in one but I'd just like to experience just one day of HOA happiness.

Take care now, Glen.

NDR
JonD1
Posts: 2,350
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"A positive place for association leaders" just where does Nila fit in?

Positive about anything? Hardly. Association leader? She can't be bothered.

Yes, like most converts who see themselves as defenseless victims and now found a book that relates to her ONE HOA expierence Nila has become the authority. Now that's amazing.

Has Nila EVER held a Board position? Hell no. Does she attend Board meetings. Hell no. BUT from afar she can place blame and find fault and now work to save the world while her own property, according to her, heads down the crapper.

Working in sales and volunteering time does not an expert or wise-man make. Living in one HOA does not give you the rational ability to speak about ALL HOAs as if you had a clue.

And now when those you think should begin to chat your name dare to see the world differently you insult them. They just haven't read your BIBLE. The end all be all book of how HOAs take away your Constitutional Rights. About how HOAs were designed to keep blacks and Jews out? All of us poor simple minded fools just can't run with the brain-trust that is Nila.

You see if life with zealots they begin in a nice manner with the hope simple-minded folks will just fall in line drink the kool-aid and accept their version of reality. In Nila's world in which the strss of HOA living has resulted in her losing the pigment in her skin(?) she can see nothing but evil. Nothing else is possible.

Now she comes across a book and there is her burning bush. The light to guide her path to fight the devil HOAs. Well for me just a load of fanatic crap. Yes, seems Nila is one of the only folks that lives with a true understanding of what is actually taking place across America in HOAs. Rampant illegal behavior that needs to be fought at every turn. Losing your Constutional Rights? IF you were half as smart as you claim to be with YEARS of working in sales why did you not research this devil's playground before you bought there? Are there no single family none HOA homes in the state of Kansas?

Yes, Nila's HOA has lost $10 MILLION the Board President is dead is there more we can do to him still and Nila works to pass laws in 2011, take no part in her own HOA because it is just to damn tough, and now lives to preach what Nila beleives to be reality.

Life lesson number 23576 When you can't go more than three sentences without quoting support from one source and one source only your thought process becomes questionable. Have you actually EVER done what it is you are talking about? Well no. Would the other owners ever put you in that position? Probably not. So as Dr. Phil likes to say. "If you are so damn smart just how is this working out for you?" Just maybe that book doesn't have all the answers..............

Nila I am sure you have plenty of HOA bashing sites to choose from. Speaking for myself your old tired story is beginning to bore me. And the simple-minded kool-aid you are selling does not interest me.

WHEN you finish the work righting all the wrongs in the property where you live maybe then that might be wroth hearing about. My guess your path will be to continue to do nothing, complain, and do battle with windmills.

I myself like to live in reality not some book version of La-La. And take you attitude with you.

JonD1
Posts: 2,350
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Posted By GlenL on 05/14/2013 10:47 PM
And yet she neatly sidestepped the question of just what Constitutional Rights you give up in a HOA. Most of the Constitution dictates how the Government is set up, then we come to the Amendments the first ten of which are the Bill of Rights.

Amendment 1 - Freedom of Religion, Press, Expression
The HOA has never stopped me from speaking my mind. Never told me who to pray to or how. Never stopped me from publishing anything either. (To be fair there have been some issues with religious expression. Usually by someone wanting to hang something in the common areas which HOA rules forbid, the courts in these cases have ruled in favor of allowing them. Lately there have been more and more complaints about people practicing religions that require animal sacrifices in HOAs, which will be interesting to see how they play out.)

Amendment 2 - Right to Bear Arms
Nope still have my guns.

Amendment 3 - Quartering of Soldiers
Never been forced to house a soldier, sailor or marine.

Amendment 4 - Search and Seizure
HOA has never entered my home to search or seize anything.

Amendment 5 - Trial and Punishment, Compensation for Takings
Never been tried in HOA court.

Amendment 6 - Right to Speedy Trial, Confrontation of Witnesses
See above.

Amendment 7 - Trial by Jury in Civil Cases
Will admit there is no jury in most HOA's except in Florida.

Amendment 8 - Cruel and Unusual Punishment
Does sitting though The Annual Meeting count?

Amendment 9 - Construction of Constitution
The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people. Same thing for the CC&R's

Amendment 10 - Powers of the States and People
The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people. Same thing for the CC&R's


You see Glen most folks who make such claims never read the Constitution. And of they ever took the time to do so they would not understand it.

What happens is they read a book that SAYS "HOAs force you to give up your Constitutional Rights." and no one bothers to ask what are those and which ones does living in an HOA cost me?

And of course the legions of small minded folks goes off to mmarch against lsoing rights they did not understand but somehow they lost them and are willing to do battle to get them BACK!

Well gosh darn it's ANTI-American I tell you. We can't let them take our HOA rights granted in the Constitution away! Anyone know what they are???? That's not important lets fight the fight before they come to take our guns.

Simple minds can be led simply..................
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
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You forgot JonD that Nila also stopped paying their dues in protest of the HOA not paying for their exterior repairs. They claim it was "Breach of Contract" and sued them. No surprise the HOA placed a lien on their property for the unpaid dues. There is no breach of contract because an HOA does not pay for your repairs. This is an insurance claim. Just because the rules say they are "responsible" for exterior items does not give them a time line in order to fix it. The HOA can deny doing these repairs or can decide what repairs they will do. Making everybody pay for your home repair takes ALOT of hard work and convincing that is what the HOA wants to do with it's money.

I also think they do not belong to a non-profit HOA or their PM operates multiple properties. The math provided just does not make any sense. Plus knowing how much all the employees of the PM makes is a bit much. If they were HOA members maybe. However, your paid PM that is another ball park.

It is also just sad that someone has to keep bringing up the dead and beat them down again. They are not here to defend themselves. Plus this guy was a VFW member. Have some kind of respect for those who served. Just shameful.

Former HOA President
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Posted By NilaR on 05/14/2013 11:43 PM

Tim granted me permission to reveal my sources with a warning not to repeat them but the details of how I signed away my US Constitutional Rights are found in the book Neighbors At War by Ward Lucas book.

First a clarification. I don't have authority to grant you anything on this site. That is up to the moderators.
I just pointed out that the moderators don't have an issue referencing materials, they have an issue in selling or promoting.

Second, I think Glen will agree with me, the question wasn't why the author felt constitutional rights were being signed away. The question was what Constitutional Rights do you believe you signed away. You didn't answer the question. Preferably this would be in your own words and not paraphrasing or repeating someone elses words.

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Posted By NilaR on 05/14/2013 11:43 PM

Now, I don't know if they are living in HOAs of 10 houses and 9 are empty.....or if they are living in HOAs with 2,500 houses. I mean really....you guys/gals are the poster children for Happy HOAs USA. There are a few like the flag pole guy today...who plans to sell and run for his life from his HOA, but everybody seems so in love with their HOAs.

Actually I live in a 130 lot development that is self managed (no MC or PM). Others are living in various sized Associations. One I know of is in a multi-million dollar condominium development.

Am I in love with my HOA - No. Will I purchase property in another HOA - I might not have that choice. Am I better prepared to know what to look for if I do purchase in another HOA - you better believe it. I'm better prepared because of this site.

We discovered that the membership can make changes if they are willing to become involved in the Association. Change won't happen overnight, it takes time. In my situation it took 3 years of educating the membership before changes happened and those changes have been slow but steady. This was done by working within the Association vs. forcing change from outside the Association.

Often, individuals bring issues to this forum that is too late in the process. When that happens, the available options are far less then had an individual found this site earlier. As an example you mentioned in another thread that you had located outside individuals to assist and ran as a slate for seats on your Board. Had you found us prior to that I would have advised that this would give the appearance that you were trying to take over vs. help deal with a bad situation and would likely have the effect of alienating members who you need to support the changes you want made. I would have further advised that a better course would be to attempt to run for the Board yourself. If elected great. If not elected, volunteer to serve on a committee. Then utilize those individuals you found as a sounding board and for advice. This would have allowed you to gather support for the changes that were needed.

JonD1
Posts: 2,350
Posted:
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Posted By MelissaP1 on 05/15/2013 4:20 AM
You forgot JonD that Nila also stopped paying their dues in protest of the HOA not paying for their exterior repairs. They claim it was "Breach of Contract" and sued them. No surprise the HOA placed a lien on their property for the unpaid dues. There is no breach of contract because an HOA does not pay for your repairs. This is an insurance claim. Just because the rules say they are "responsible" for exterior items does not give them a time line in order to fix it. The HOA can deny doing these repairs or can decide what repairs they will do. Making everybody pay for your home repair takes ALOT of hard work and convincing that is what the HOA wants to do with it's money.

I also think they do not belong to a non-profit HOA or their PM operates multiple properties. The math provided just does not make any sense. Plus knowing how much all the employees of the PM makes is a bit much. If they were HOA members maybe. However, your paid PM that is another ball park.

It is also just sad that someone has to keep bringing up the dead and beat them down again. They are not here to defend themselves. Plus this guy was a VFW member. Have some kind of respect for those who served. Just shameful.

Seems everything Nila offers as her truth is straight out of the anti-HOA handbook.
Yes, we all know by now the HOA Board President died. Should we consider digging him up and beating him around some more? Seems to me that part should be over.

And now Nila is going to testify as an expert witness. Expert in what?

And then we go off into some connection about those poor young women in OHIO and the events of 9/11 as if Nila's expierence equates to those in some way. Nila worked in aviation so is it she can understand better than the rest of us. I would like to know what in fact her role in aviation was? Which led her to some special understanding of the affects 9/11 had on some people. And she was able to pick this up from Kansas? Appears to me Nila is a victim always has been always will be. A victim who can't protect herself but claims she can tell you all the way to the promised land. PTSD from living in an HOA. I have PTSD from serving on our Board for 26 years!
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Posted By NilaR on 05/14/2013 10:47 PM
Interesting, Tim. Perhaps I have not listened to the show enough times to hear that or perhaps, I have suffered in my HOA so long I can relate to the negatives?

That does happen. Perhaps, if you're on this forum long enough, you will see that not all Associations or all Board members are the same.
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
Tim, Jon & Melissa, every HOA needs a martyr, I guess we know who it is in Nila's HOA.

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JulianneW (California)
Posts: 25
Posted:
I think it depends on what you consider a "right" versus a privilege. There's a great deal of confusion in this country as to the difference between the two, and a growing sense of entitlement that believes many privileges are actually rights.

In my experience, 90% of the HOA restrictions are just a restatement of local codes - the HOA just tries to enforces them all the time, where the city might only enforce them if there are complaints. I've tried to explain this to homeowners a million times, using trash bins as an example. The HOA restriction is the same as the City's, only you could leave your bins on the curb all week and the City won't do anything unless your neighbors call and complain, whereas the HOA won't wait for your neighbors to complain.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
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Well said Jon plus she is becoming overbearing.
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
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Posted By JulianneW on 05/15/2013 6:28 AM

In my experience, 90% of the HOA restrictions are just a restatement of local codes - the HOA just tries to enforces them all the time, where the city might only enforce them if there are complaints.

Staying on topic, Well said Julianne
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Back to the question of the OP.

In a collective living enviroment (HOA, COA, PUD, etc.) we agreed to live by the "rules" we signed for. To me the best parts are the controls granted to set and maintain an agreed upon standard of living. I am willing to forgo things for the greater good of my association as long as the standards are as good or higher then what I bought into.

I am comfortable that we owners have the ultimate control with our voting right for BOD's, amendment changes, recalls, etc. If I find myslef in the minority then I have the ultimate choices. Accept, work harder to make changes, legal action, or if all else fails, to move on.

I am in control......LOL

KellyM3 (North Carolina)
Posts: 2,239
Posted:
The US Constitution is a safeguard, primarily, against federal government intrusion or restriction of certain inalienable rights granted by God. HOA's are private organizations where homebuyers completely opt-in as a condition of residency and participation. There is nothing to debate as any HOA-protected property buyer is, in theory, temporarily restricting their OWN behavior and signing a contract stating as such. No property owner is ever coerced by the government or the "quasi-government" of the HOA. In fact, HOAs aren't at the real estate closing.
NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
You are correct Kelly. When I signed closing documents for my house I signed away my US Constitutional Rights. If the HOA has a CC&R that says, No Right to Bear Arms, I cannot come back later and say the US Constitution gives me the rights to bear arms. It did...until I signed that right away. If the CC&Rs say no prayer meetings can be held on HOA property, I cannot have them in my living room and claim, Freedom of Religion. I signed that right away. While I was not coerced, I indeed signed my rights away. If the HOA wants to foreclose on my property, I cannot expect a trial to state my position in a court of law to try and save my property, because I signed that right away.

Thank you for stepping in with an educated explanation.
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
The term "Grasping at straws." come to mind. I'm not going to say those restrictions don't occur in any set of CC&R's but if they do, I'll bet they refer to what can happen in common elements, not individual homes.

Could you come up with any examples that aren't prohibited or regulated by law in the real world? For example even in states with concealed carry, there are certain places like schools and bars where you are not permitted to carry a gun. Ever try to hold a prayer meeting in a school?

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NilaR (Kansas)
Posts: 49
Posted:
Glen,

Let me be clear here. I came onto this site simply to share my experiences of what I have witnessed happening to an HOA. And how it has destroyed over 500 homeowners investments and in some cases more than investments.

I have been more than willing to share my resources of which I have spent tens of thousands of hours searching for, reading, and discussing with educated, knowledgeable, and experienced people. In doing so, I was HOPING to help others; board members and non-board members alike across America from ever suffering the same demise.

The resources are available for you to read and interpret for yourself. I am not an attorney, but if I was, I would still direct you to the resources to read for yourself. If you chose not to seek out the information on your own, that is your loss, in my opinion. I can't be any easier...www.neighborsatwar.com select The Book select FREE Chapter and start reading. The chapter is about Constitutional Rights and HOAs.

The examples I gave were simple for a reason. They PROVED what I said, "I signed away my Constitutional Rights when I signed for my house in an HOA." Whether my examples suited you or not, I could careless. I could type examples and documented cases until the cows come home but that is not what you are looking for. You are on a mission to "slay the messenger" and try your best to make a liar out of me. It won't happen. I have not lied. I am not here to argue and defend myself. If you wish to argue with my resources, possibly they will be willing to take you on?

NDR

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