OK. Firstly, I thank everyone for their input on this subject. I especially appreciate being led to the correct statute, 450.2521, which addresses Board of Director participation via teleconference vs. member participation (450.2405). Apologies for causing the confusion.
The first question that was posed was by GlenL asking what recourse I sought. The answer is I really did not know when I posted. I just felt it was wrong and that I should not just put my tail between my legs and go away.
Then legal action through the courts was brought up. I agree with everyone that it would not be appropriate, on many levels, to bring lawyers or courts into the mix. For the record, I never considered it.
The debate then turned to the definition of the word "may" used in the statute. I chose to go with Webster's definition (fully aware that it would still be susceptible to debate), to wit: "have permission to - used nearly interchangeably with can" or "shall, must - used in law where to sense, purpose, or policy requires this interpretation". DaveD3 pointed out that the statute pertaining to Board members say they MAY participate and not that the Board itself may allow such participation.
MelissaP was suspect that something more was involved. But, not really. Other than the more often than not Hatfield/McCoy relationships that seem to be inherent in HOA's d their Boards. The request to attend telephonically was made verbally a month before the meeting, again by email when the agenda was mailed out and again by email and voice messaging on the day of the meeting. The President never responded to me, unilaterally stated at the onset of the meeting that I had requested to conference in, that we were not doing it and that I should just be there (in person). He did not call for a vote from the Board members present. One Board member objected, the other 2 (the McCoys

remained silent. No one called me at any point to tell me my request had been denied. The word chaotic was used by one commentator, to say the least....
The good part was that one of the members attending the meeting put me on her speaker phone so I was able to hear what went on at the meeting. Which brings us to the next relevant discussion, which asked if there was anything voted on that my vote or input would have altered the outcome of...the answer is yes. I am Secretary/Treasurer and had 3-4 things to add to the agenda. I can add the on at the next meeting. The big debate was on whether or not to allow a co-owner to maintain a second dog when our Bylaws allow only one (a huge divider in our community and on our Board.) On that my vote would have enabled the issue to be tabled to be presented at the Annual Meeting of Co-owners in June...nothing earth-shattering.
As stated in my original post our Bylaws and State Condo Act are silent on the subject of Board members teleconferencing which make the Michigan Non-Profit Corp Act the ruling document on the matter. So, hurt feelings aside, it is my opinion that our Prez was totally out of order. He unilaterally kept a Board member from participating in a Board Meeting. He just spouted off inane reasons. He made no reference to any document that directs the Association. He knows he himself conferenced in at a previous meeting. It is my opinion he did not want me at the meeting because he knew I had differing views on several of the sensitive issues that needed to be discussed. I will take the advice of many who posted and deal with the issue at the next meeting, which I will physically be present at. CarolR11 presenting a simple outline of follow-up which I appreciate.
Again, thanks everyone for dissecting the issue.