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JudithE1 (Arizona)
Posts: 21
Posted:
Is it proper, as a member of the Board, to read a personal letter at our next Open meeting regarding election handouts containing harmful allegations to several members of the board who were on the ballot for election. The president and friends were handing these outside our community center on day of election.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
Tell us more, Judith. Does this director want to make a statement for the record condemning the content of the handouts? Or that they were distributed too close to the ballot area? Or that the "harmful allegations" were false? Was the prez on the ballot? Did she use her own funds to make copies of this handout? Or Association funds?

Were the candidates whom she attacked slated for election or reelection?

Are you on the board?
JudithE1 (Arizona)
Posts: 21
Posted:

I would like to read the letter to the homeowners, as a re-instated board member, regarding one past president, one candidate and yours truly. I feel they have been unjustly maligned. I did not plan on mentioning the location of the handouts. The allegations were definitely in error and yes the president was on the ballot along with the majority of directors prior to election of 3/5/13. The cards were professionally done and I do not know who paid the cost. The candidate who lost and was vilified has been a long time homeowner in good standing.

What I would appreciate is guidance on my ability to read this letter even if the majority of board disagrees. Should I request in writing to speak? As a board member I do not know how to handle this situation. Two directors on my side and four directors with the majority.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
Here's the deal I have with letters written to board members or the "HOA". They are open game in a meeting. I tell my members that if you write a letter then it is subsituting you being at the meeting and speaking there. So if you write a letter then it will be read openly as we have open meetings.

Remember your HOA should run as if you left your family's checkbook on the dining room table wide open. That means you, your spouse, and kids have the right to see it and comment on the expenses/direction the money is going.

I think people write letters in thinking they are "private" but in reality they can't really be if they insist on transparency and open meetings. Now there are times where private matters as like personal health issues or those truly personal and private situations do happen. However, when it comes to matters that involve HOA business, those are open. You can help by paraphrasing or leaving a name out of the letter. It doesn't mean one has to expose the person's identity who wrote in. It's really boils down to the point they are trying to make.

I once had a letter submitted to me from one of our chief complaining officers. It regarded the fact that one of our lawncare guys was caught in her back yard going to the bathroom. She wanted us to "fire" the lawncare over it. It was kind of my fault because I woke up late and did not remove the lock from the gate to access our public bathrooms. I did not reveal the person's name but I read the letter. It was agreed we did not need to fire the lawncare people of course for this. However, it addressed the issue/complaint so that this person knew that what they wrote was not going to be exactly "private" once it hit the board's table. It stopped a few complaints from reaching the table as much after that.

Former HOA President
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By JudithE1 on 03/19/2013 9:28 PM

I would like to read the letter to the homeowners, as a re-instated board member, regarding one past president, one candidate and yours truly. I feel they have been unjustly maligned. I did not plan on mentioning the location of the handouts. The allegations were definitely in error and yes the president was on the ballot along with the majority of directors prior to election of 3/5/13. The cards were professionally done and I do not know who paid the cost. The candidate who lost and was vilified has been a long time homeowner in good standing.

What I would appreciate is guidance on my ability to read this letter even if the majority of board disagrees. Should I request in writing to speak? As a board member I do not know how to handle this situation. Two directors on my side and four directors with the majority.

Judith

Who wrote this letter? If you did, then your are just being vindictive and "publically indicting" fellow BOD Members. Really not a class act.

If an other owner wrote it, sent it to you, and asked that you read it to the BOD, then you are simply doing as an owner asked.

More then one way to skin a cat.

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