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MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
Our 55 and over condominium bylaws state that no QUEST can stay for more than 2 weeks, (regardless of age). The BOD wants to change that to 4 months. The problem is that we have adult children staying with parents until they (the children) can find jobs. I guess if they cannot find jobs they must live elsewere.
I want to be reasonable about this problem but telling the parents their children has to go sounds harsh to me. I need your thoughts on this both legally and morally.
Thanks
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Michael,

Are you currently making the children move out after 2 weeks (as the current bylaw requires)?

If not, then how is changing the time frame to 4 months going to change anything?

Is the term "guest" defined? If so, does it include immediate family?

There could be many ways to work with this.

If you don't mind the children returning to the nest (so to speak) then simply define guest as those individuals who are not the immediate family or are not the unmarried immediate family.

JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
I am quite sure some couple in the building (prove you are married) has been living together longer then the two weeks so it appears to me your people are saying they do not want any young people living in the building.

What about me at 55 and my 18 year old live in girl friend?...I wish...LOL

I say this is morally wrong as in how could one help a family member if needed like an adult that needs a place to stay for a few months while getting their act together. Child, divorced sibling, niece, nephew, etc. Need I go on.

Many over 55 associations were welcomed by local government as it meant taxes but little outgo such as minor children to be educated. That is where the main issues have arisen. Minor children.

I say if an adult, then there should be no time limit on visiting.

MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
The BOD did not push the 2 week limit. They are changing the bylaws to state 4 months. How they intend to enforce it, I do not know. Will know in 2 weeks when we have a meeting.
The by laws only say guests, no definition.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
I also think there should be no time limit for family members. Times still are hard and I read yesterday that 41% of adults between 25 & 29 lived with parents during some period of time this past year.

So, morally, I think it's wrong to throw them out--perhaps literally on the streets.

The other side of the coin is that let's say the Owners are a married couple in their late 50s-60s, who've experienced their own job loss. Partly because of ageism (which is real!), one or both only can find low wage part time or temp work. The young adult relative may at least be getting food stamps or some other minor source of assistance to help out the parents a bit.
MelissaP1 (Alabama)
Posts: 13,836
Posted:
My real question is the enforcement of this rule. Considering most states don't allow fines to be the basis of liens or foreclosures, what other remedy do you have to take care of the situation? You can have a rule on the books all day long, but have no punishment set up for it. I would find it hard to believe such a rule against family living with family in a set time limit would be an issue one needs to even enforce. (Except at the holidays LOL).

I think this is just a bad rule all around and should be presented to the entire membership for a vote. It's not like your HOA is going to lose it's status of being a 55 Plus HOA. Ownership is still only for those who meet that criteria.

Former HOA President
MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
If i read the state law for condominium correctly a lien can be used can used for unpaid fines.
EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
MichaelJ,

You post “55 and over Condominium” – is that designation per the Federal “Housing for Older Persons Act of 1995?
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By MichaelJ8 on 12/02/2012 10:21 AM
If i read the state law for condominium correctly a lien can be used can used for unpaid fines.

Michael

It varies from state to state. Some say for dues and assessments only. Other states say a fine is an assessment so it can be liened on.

LarryB13 (Arizona)
Posts: 4,099
Posted:
Michael,

You mentioned that the age restrictions were in the “bylaws.” Age restrictions, as well as any other restrictions on the use of the property, must be set out in the recorded covenants. Bylaws are the internal rules for the incorporated association and cannot be used to create property restrictions. See Wilson v. Playa Serrano, ___ P.3d __, ___ Ariz. ___, (App.2005).

Also see Section 6.7(3), Restatement (Third) of Property:Servitudes (2000), which provides, “Absent specific authorization in the declaration, the common-interest community does not have the power to adopt rules, other than those [designed to protect the common property], that restrict the use or occupancy of, or behavior within, individually owned lots or units.”

You wrote that yours is a 55+ community. Has your association adopted the FHA rules for being a 55+ community or have you just gone off and created a bunch of rules that may or may not conform to the federal rules?

The problem is that if you did not adopt all the rules you may be liable for discrimination lawsuits. “Additionally, we note that Congress declared that covenants restricting occupancy to adults are discriminatory and illegal in 1988 when it passed the FHAA. 42 U.S.C. §§ 3601 through 3631.”
Wilson, paragraph 14.

My understanding is that in a 55+ community, you may prohibit residency by those under 18, but may not prohibit anyone else provided that at least one occupant of the unit is 55 or older.

My recommendation is that you seek advice from an attorney knowledgeable about FHA 55+ communities.
MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
I do not know what rules the association was set up byother than 55 & older. All I know is that the BOD wants to limit how long anybody under 55 (other than the owners) can stay. I think it is wrong to tell someone, who cannot find work, that they must leave because they are staying too long. That is just my opinion.
EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
MichaelJ,

Re your opinion: “I think it is wrong to tell someone, who cannot find work, that they must leave because they are staying too long".

I may agree with you, but until I know whether or not your Association is a “55 and older community” as defined by the Federal Government – and in good standing – meaning that you currently meet all the Federal Fair Housing requirements to be a “55 and older community”, there is not enough information to comment.

Because you apparently want to allow out-of-work adult children live with their parents until they find work – then your first step IMO is to determine the “55 and older” status of your Condominium Association.

As others have pointed out, if you are a “55 and older” community there are guidelines to follow re “residency” requirements – which is what you are asking about.

Here is a website that gives an overview in “layman’s terms” of the requirements to be a “55 and older” community:

http://activerain.com/blogsview/3121286/yes-age-restricted-communities-are-legal

The "55 and older residency requirements", if applicable to your Association, will determine whether any "Guest Requirements" re length of stay written in your Documents, are, or can be enforced.

Also - while not addressing your question - but not too far off topic – HUD just issued a letter to provide an exception to the “55 and older” requirements for Associations in those areas impacted by Hurricane Sandy.

Here are a few excerpts from that letter:

"HUD has recently issued guidance which affords communities who have designated themselves housing for older persons the flexibility to open up vacant units to evacuees of Hurricane Sandy under the age of 55, without jeopardizing a community's qualification for certain legal exemptions under the Fair Housing Act.”

“Under HUD's new guidance, a private provider of housing for older persons anywhere in the country may make units available to evacuees under the age of 55 and continue to qualify for the Fair Housing Act's familial status exemption, as long as the vacant units are made available to evacuees without restriction on the basis of familial status.”

To find that letter and attachment go here:
http://portal.hud.gov/hudportal/documents/huddoc?id=sandyguidance.pdf

Also you might be interested in this website, citing various “court cases” and decisions rendered which I hope is on topic as I have had time to only skim this report).

http://themossreport.org/?tag=hopa
TimB4 (Tennessee)
Posts: 21,059
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By MichaelJ8 on 12/02/2012 6:53 AM
The BOD did not push the 2 week limit.

Michael,

Since the Board isn't enforcing the 2 week limit, why are they even bothering to go through the process of amending that time frame to 4 months?
MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
Tim,
The BOD is afraid that if they do not start some sort of enforcement, sometime down the road, someone will bring in a family member or quest that will stay forever. They want this community to be a 55 and over, period, like they was led to believe when they purchased their unit. (2 people, max, the per unit, not sure how to state that fact but that is what it is).
As far as our association being 100% legal, I wouldn't bet a dollar on it. Our declaration states 55+ but the developer has sold one to someone under 55. So in closing I believe if we ever had legal action taken against the association we would be in a world of hurt. In fairness, I was on the board but nobody would listen to me, so i gave it up.
MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
EllieD
Thanks for the links, they were very interesting.
EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
Michael,

As I understand, and simplifying somewhat, “55 and older status” is based upon RESIDENCY requirements. It does not matter what age the Owner of a Unit is, assuming that the Owner does not live (reside) in that Unit.

Also the 80/20 Rule might apply, which allows 20% of the Units, Maximum, to be occupied by persons younger than 55, unless modified by your Declaration to be more restrictive.

A possible example for one of the 80% Units: One of those Condos could be owned by a 25 year old son who does not live (reside) there – but his parents do - at least one of whom is 55 or older - and so the “RESIDENCY Requirement” is met.

Would you be willing to post the exact words from your Documents re the existing requirements of two (2) people max per Unit, and also the “rule” about Guests not being allowed to stay for more than two weeks?

It would be helpful to know the exact wording. Thank you.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
I'd like to see the wording too, Michael. Also, please provide the exact name of the document(s) where the wording and the name of the subtitle that has the wording within it.
BradP (Kansas)
Posts: 2,640
Posted:
as far as I am concerned my children regardless of age are not my guests...
MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
EllieD
The wording about 2 people max etc. is not in the declaration. That was my thoughts only.
The exact wording for Guests is: "Unit owners are permitted to have Guests (regardless of age) for no more than 2 consecutive weeks." The BOD is asking to change it to 4 months and then have the condo owner ask if their guests could stay longer.
The sole purpose of my opening this thread was to find out what associations did about guest staying a long time and can associations stipulat a time period. One of the owners is checking with is attorney about this problem.
MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
the ruling is in the declaration that was filed with the county court house in year 2008. It does not have a subtitle just rule 22 Guests.
EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
MichaelJ,

Thank you for posting the exact words of your “guest rule”.

How are you, and or the Board, interpreting that rule? Who do you consider to be guests, and of what age?

Also are you adhering to the 80%/20% occupancy requirement, or do your documents define a different split?

And, is there, perhaps a clause specifying (assuming 80/20) that the 80% of the Units be occupied EXCLUSIVELY by persons aged 55 or over?

Might your “guest rule” be addressing visits by minors (children under the age of 18) and (minor children of any age)?

--------------------------------
Doing a bit of googling, I found clauses in documents for 55 and over communities such as:

Each dwelling unit, if occupied, shall be occupied by at least one (1) person not less than fifty-five (55) years of age and no person eighteen (18) years of age or under shall reside in any dwelling unit.

Persons under the age of 18 may reside as guests for a maximum period of 90 days in any 12 month period as long as there is an age qualified person also occupying the dwelling unit.
--------------------------------

I am wondering, if your “guest rule” should be interpreted along the lines of, for example, it is the young, 6, 7, 8 year old Grandchildren, GUESTS, that you do not want staying in a Condo Unit for more than 2 consecutive weeks at a time.
MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
EllieD
Next week we will have a meeting addressing the guest solution. We will see how that turns out. I do know one owner and his spouse has contacted their lawyer to study the declaration. The owners has an adult son staying with them because of lack of finding work. One other owner has her daughter living with her until the daughter can get back on her feet financialy. These arrangements seems to be bothering some people. What a world we live in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As far as the 80/20 rule, the board knows nothing about it nor do they want to. There is nothing in our declaration about it and thats as far as they want to go.
I think BOD is going to go this way. Stay 4 months and and then ask for permission to stay longer due to hardship. I will not know until meeting.

EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
MichaelJ8,

The fact that one owner has an adult son staying with them and another owner has her daughter living with her – how is that the Board’s concern?

As far as your posting that the Board knows nothing about the 80/20 rule, that does not may any sense to me, IF you are supposed to be a “55 and older” community.

Of course if you are NOT a “55 and older” community then the 80/20 rule means nothing.

But IF you are a “55 and older” community then the 80/20 rules has to apply (unless your Declaration states a larger percentage such as 90/10) because if the percentages are not maintained then you lose your status as a “55 and older” community and you can no longer prohibit anyone of any age, including minor children under the age of 18, from living there.

Michael, would you be willing to “cut and paste” the exact wording in your Declaration, or other Document, that states, or establishes, that you are a “55 and older” community?

Hopefully someone else will “chime in”, but I do not understand how you can prevent any adult children from living with their parents for as long as they want to.
EllieD (Vermont)
Posts: 446
Posted:
MichaelJ8,

Roughly how many Condo Units are there? You have never mentioned a Management Company. Are you self managed?
MichaelJ8 (Illinois)
Posts: 113
Posted:
EllieD
"6. Restrictions On Ownership. The ------ -------- ------is a condominium community. Ownership of a unit is restricted as to age. Each Unit Owner and/or permanent resident must be 55 years old or older. The purpose behind such an age restriction is to provide housing to older Persons: The Developer, and thereafter the Association shall institute a policy to verify that each Unit Owner and/ or permanent resident is 55 years of age or older, Said Age restriction shall be inapplicable to spouses of Unit Owners, and so long as one spouse meets the age restriction of 55 years, both shall be considered eligible for joint ownership of a Unit."

There are 20 owners at the present with 14 more when they can sell them. We are a self managed association.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By MichaelJ8 on 12/06/2012 3:03 PM
EllieD
"6. Restrictions On Ownership. The ------ -------- ------is a condominium community. Ownership of a unit is restricted as to age. Each Unit Owner and/or permanent resident must be 55 years old or older. The purpose behind such an age restriction is to provide housing to older Persons: The Developer, and thereafter the Association shall institute a policy to verify that each Unit Owner and/ or permanent resident is 55 years of age or older, Said Age restriction shall be inapplicable to spouses of Unit Owners, and so long as one spouse meets the age restriction of 55 years, both shall be considered eligible for joint ownership of a Unit."

There are 20 owners at the present with 14 more when they can sell them. We are a self managed association.

Michael

I am not nor do I play a lawyer, but as to the above:

Each Unit Owner and/or permanent resident must be 55 years old or older.

I see no definition as to "permanent resident". Unit owner is clear but "permanent resident" is not defined.

My first wife might have said she was the permanent resident in my home....and I would not have disagreed with her until we got divorced...then she became...well...another story....LOL

Again, I an not nor do I play a lawyer.

EdmundS1 (North Carolina)
Posts: 45
Posted:
We recently considered changing to a 55+ community and decided the "the bang was not worth the buck" so to speak....of course, trying to add it to a community that was not set up that way from Day 1 is impossible with the housing market the way it is...who is going to restrict their potential sales market?

You could be in trouble with the 80%/20% rule...the rule was, and is intended, to allow a spouse who is under 55 to continue to live there if the spouse who was over 55 dies.

Family is Family, not a guest...as long as one resident is over 55 the 55+ rule has been satisfied...and the owner does not have to be in residence, just a family member who is over 55+.

Sounds to me that your really trying to be too restrictive which could get you in court....also sounds like most of the residents (present company excluded) should be in assisted living rather then where they are now.....(and...and...and you whipper snappers who don't even qualify for Medicare.... keep your walker off my grass...

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