PH (Delaware)
Posts: 32
Posts: 32
Posted:
Hi
I am in the process of being extracted from the HOA I am a board member of. Upcoming BOD meeting only to cast me off. I will be outvoted 3-1
I cant go into everything here just the latest. The community is torn because of having no HOA action for a couple years and now the self appointed BOD run it like a prisoner of war camp. I came on board to be a voice of reason and to try my best at trying to offer another perspective on things. I tried many times to reason with this board, consists of CEO, VP and the CFO follows whatever they do. The missing position is mine. They have no regard for the covenant trying to force residents to do what they (BOD) want regardless if it is supported by the covenant. The VP had instructed me to force residents to comply with her rules regardless if they were supported by the covenant.
The residents for the most part are so tired of what has happened in the past they almost all have given up.
Meetings when called have 15 in attendance at most and they are the friends of the BOD.
The BOD are aggressive and have no clue how to approach anyone or talk to them. They charge and yell. They play favorites to their friends and themselves and wonder why they are not liked.
I was meeting all the residents and spoke to them with respect no matter what their grievance letting them know I would be fair and always willing to talk to them not yell. I have been getting a great response.
Have spoken to 30 out of 150 so I do not have enough support to fend off the upcoming storm. Had I had the time I would have many to back me.
My question, the CEO and VP have been spying on me and have heard I am making people calm and willing to work with me on covenant violations which is also my job. The feedback I have been getting about the CEO and VP is horrible. I begged these people (residents)to give me a chance to try to make things right.
I had to fight to get these board members to allow me, I know that seems nuts but yes they told me I cant do anything without their approval, and after several heated meetings they were forced to allow me to introduce myself to the community. Now I have been told I am to stop all contact with residents, do not give out my email address or phone number. The VP told me the only email address I can give is hers! Yes that is what she said. She does not want me to have any contact with the residents. I was told the only way I can is if the CEO and VP are with me when I make contact with the residents.
This is the tail end of everything but I could not type everything in this post. I have been told by a few friends that the BOD feel I am after their seats and want to get them tossed. This couldn't be furthest from the truth. I just want them to be fair and do the right thing. I want them to be civilized not barbaric with their approach.
My question
Do I have any recourse against them when they toss me? I am willing to sue if I have a strong case. I cant afford to throw away cash on a suit I cant win. For the sake of the community I feel I need to keep my position because I have to live here too.
I know many will say contact an attorney. Unfortunately I have never had an attorney tell me I should not hire them as long as they knew I was going to pay them.
I am hoping for some here to tell me if they know of anything like this and if I have a shot.
Also I have the meeting upcoming shortly, is there a special way to handle myself or maybe suggest an action. This BOD do not follow rules and have already told me that do not care about legality.
This is the first time I have been in this position. I have been on boards before but they always had a few people that were level headed not a dictatorship like these guys.
as my user name states "please help."
I am in the process of being extracted from the HOA I am a board member of. Upcoming BOD meeting only to cast me off. I will be outvoted 3-1
I cant go into everything here just the latest. The community is torn because of having no HOA action for a couple years and now the self appointed BOD run it like a prisoner of war camp. I came on board to be a voice of reason and to try my best at trying to offer another perspective on things. I tried many times to reason with this board, consists of CEO, VP and the CFO follows whatever they do. The missing position is mine. They have no regard for the covenant trying to force residents to do what they (BOD) want regardless if it is supported by the covenant. The VP had instructed me to force residents to comply with her rules regardless if they were supported by the covenant.
The residents for the most part are so tired of what has happened in the past they almost all have given up.
Meetings when called have 15 in attendance at most and they are the friends of the BOD.
The BOD are aggressive and have no clue how to approach anyone or talk to them. They charge and yell. They play favorites to their friends and themselves and wonder why they are not liked.
I was meeting all the residents and spoke to them with respect no matter what their grievance letting them know I would be fair and always willing to talk to them not yell. I have been getting a great response.
Have spoken to 30 out of 150 so I do not have enough support to fend off the upcoming storm. Had I had the time I would have many to back me.
My question, the CEO and VP have been spying on me and have heard I am making people calm and willing to work with me on covenant violations which is also my job. The feedback I have been getting about the CEO and VP is horrible. I begged these people (residents)to give me a chance to try to make things right.
I had to fight to get these board members to allow me, I know that seems nuts but yes they told me I cant do anything without their approval, and after several heated meetings they were forced to allow me to introduce myself to the community. Now I have been told I am to stop all contact with residents, do not give out my email address or phone number. The VP told me the only email address I can give is hers! Yes that is what she said. She does not want me to have any contact with the residents. I was told the only way I can is if the CEO and VP are with me when I make contact with the residents.
This is the tail end of everything but I could not type everything in this post. I have been told by a few friends that the BOD feel I am after their seats and want to get them tossed. This couldn't be furthest from the truth. I just want them to be fair and do the right thing. I want them to be civilized not barbaric with their approach.
My question
Do I have any recourse against them when they toss me? I am willing to sue if I have a strong case. I cant afford to throw away cash on a suit I cant win. For the sake of the community I feel I need to keep my position because I have to live here too.
I know many will say contact an attorney. Unfortunately I have never had an attorney tell me I should not hire them as long as they knew I was going to pay them.
I am hoping for some here to tell me if they know of anything like this and if I have a shot.
Also I have the meeting upcoming shortly, is there a special way to handle myself or maybe suggest an action. This BOD do not follow rules and have already told me that do not care about legality.
This is the first time I have been in this position. I have been on boards before but they always had a few people that were level headed not a dictatorship like these guys.
as my user name states "please help."