FernF (New Jersey)
Posts: 3
Posts: 3
Posted:
I am a brand new board member (secretary) voted in this month. My reason for wanting a board position was to relieve someone else
and have an opportunity to serve my community. I pride myself on my good communication skills and my affinity for people.
Unfortunately my few short weeks as witness to our weekly board meets, my input seems to be pushed aside for more pressing concerns.
Recent assesments&recent storm damage have taken up most of the meetings.Our board has three new members including me. I am the
only women. One new member has an axe to grind prior to this new board. I am ignoring his open inuendo's and focusing on principles
not personalities. 3 out of 5 of us are supporting face to face conversation with oppositional neighbors or "the rule breakers". I'm not one of them.
I am asking my board members to put together an "Alternative Dispute Committee"to hear those in conflict. The board threatens to levi fines
to those offenders but never follows through. Should we develop some other kind of disciplinary committee of homeowners so the board
doesn't have to do all the work involved in running our community? 2 of the 5 are asking me"the good communicator "to be the neighborhood cop.
That is not my intention of being a board member and neighborhood supporter! What's next, in getting people who have been notified via letter of rule breaking,
to get them to change or stop? Knocking on my neighbors door to confront their rule breaking sounds like a recipe for no"LOVE THY NEIGHBOR" energy around here!!!
and have an opportunity to serve my community. I pride myself on my good communication skills and my affinity for people.
Unfortunately my few short weeks as witness to our weekly board meets, my input seems to be pushed aside for more pressing concerns.
Recent assesments&recent storm damage have taken up most of the meetings.Our board has three new members including me. I am the
only women. One new member has an axe to grind prior to this new board. I am ignoring his open inuendo's and focusing on principles
not personalities. 3 out of 5 of us are supporting face to face conversation with oppositional neighbors or "the rule breakers". I'm not one of them.
I am asking my board members to put together an "Alternative Dispute Committee"to hear those in conflict. The board threatens to levi fines
to those offenders but never follows through. Should we develop some other kind of disciplinary committee of homeowners so the board
doesn't have to do all the work involved in running our community? 2 of the 5 are asking me"the good communicator "to be the neighborhood cop.
That is not my intention of being a board member and neighborhood supporter! What's next, in getting people who have been notified via letter of rule breaking,
to get them to change or stop? Knocking on my neighbors door to confront their rule breaking sounds like a recipe for no"LOVE THY NEIGHBOR" energy around here!!!