Nancy,
Both the
North Carolina Planned Community Act and the
North Carolina Condominium Act (same language in both laws) specify [emphasis added]:
"Meetings of the executive board shall be held as provided in the bylaws.
At regular intervals, the executive board meeting shall provide unit owners an opportunity to attend a portion of an executive board meeting and to speak to the executive board about their issues and concerns. The executive board may place reasonable restrictions on the number of persons who speak on each side of an issue and may place reasonable time restrictions on persons who speak."
Therefore, although it may be different from what happened in the past (and therefore causes perception issues of the board's actions), it appears that the current board is within the law. If you desire to attend a session (or portion) of the meeting tell the board that you would like to attend and what why (I'd even cite this law). If they say no, then there's an issue. Until you ask, the issue is only a perceived issue that may or may not exist.
Tim