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Posted By JayP3 on 06/28/2012 6:12 PM
Posted By JohnC46 on 06/27/2012 7:15 PM
Posted By JayP3 on 06/27/2012 5:20 PM
Why must everyone judge, ask for personal information, and make predictions?
It's none of anyone's business.
Just answer the question like BrianB or pass on replying.
Jay
Once some saw "unpaid dues",many believe, myself included, that one pretty much has no justification for not paying their dues and they are hurting all no matter their reasons/witnesses even when they might be right in the end game.
Have you ever been accused of being a non-dues payer?
Yes.
Prior to EBT or other similar electronic fund transfers (which I now use) there was a situation in which my check was not recieved along with a utility and CC payment made the same day.
It turned out there was an issue with the community mailbox (Townhouse complex) in which after investigation a few others had 'lost' parcels too. The letters were found and eventually all was worked out and the mailbox repaired.
So 'testifying witnesses' who had similar problems mailing parcels would be beneficial.
This is an unusual case but stuff happens.
This site is for learning and ideas. I find the jugdgements, with as otheres have said, few or incomplete facts to be unappealing and diminishes it's value and attractiveness to new members.
Sorry you feel people are being judgemental - I, for one, have found this site very useful. I don't necessarily agree with everything that's posted, but I find one thing that makes the difference in getting useful information is to provide details on the situation. That old saying "the devil is in the details" is extremely true when dealing with HOA situations - or anything else.
If you're here because you want someone to validate what you already believe or plan to do, it may or may not happen, especially if you leave out pertinent information and that has turned many a civil and criminal case. And if you're upset because people don't agree with you, well, that's ok, too. There may be another issue down the road where you'll find you're right on target with what you think you'd like to do. The information's going to come out anyway, whether you tell us,your board - or a judge, if things come to that.
If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it. Marcus Aurelius