Bama,
Welcome to the forum. As the Banner at the top says, this is a positive place for community association leaders to share ideas and learn from each other. Although members of this forum often assist each other with various issues and procedural matters, as the
posting rules state, "please keep it clean, helpful, positive and friendly." As you read through the threads on this forum, many have different perspectives on the issues presented. Sometimes this different perspective is taken in the manner intended (to be helpful) and sometimes it is not.
I don't know what the difference between a violation and an extreme violation is other than semantics. Based on your posting and from what I recall from earlier posts on the topic, it appears that a Board of Directors resolved the issue. Most resolutions are those that nobody is completely happy with.
As for what I've learned from this thread, it appears that the current Board violated this individuals legal right of due process (i.e. the right to face accusers). It's also possible that the board violated State laws (Corporate and/or HOA/Condo) by not allow an elected Director to attend the meeting (but I have not done the research to verify if this is or isn't the case).
It's apparent from your post that you do not agree with the decisions of your current (and perhaps past) Board of Directors. As with any disagreement, members typically have the following options at their disposal:
1) Live with it.
2) Complain about it.
3) Solicit signatures to hold a special meeting to recall the director/s
4) Submit their name as a candidate to the board in the next election.
5) Move.
Even if the old board is tossed out and a new board is voted in, to revisit a resolved issue (even if the decision to resolve it was a considered a bad one) tends to open up many issues for the Board. First of which would be the perspective from the membership. Two issues that could happen that I can think of are:
"if a board can erase an agreement made by an earlier board what must I do to legally protect myself?"
"Why is the board costing me money to pay legal bills for an issue that was already resolved?"
I'm sure that their are other issues as well. Once the Assessments go up to pay legal costs to revisit an old issue, these are the problems a new board will possibly be creating. This is why it's best to leave a bad decision as a bad decision, learn from it and move forward. Otherwise, your Association could be in the news which could affect home sales which could affect property values.
Again, Welcome to the Forum.
Tim