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RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Folks,

I believe I had raised a thread on this issue some time back, but cannot find it, hence will ask the question again.

We have a board member who has verbally abused some board members in executive session. This board member was censured. Even now the board member keeps on speaking offensively at board meetings (in loud and commanding tones), which I believe, we cannot prohibit. That by itself is not so much a problem since the other board members knows this board member's past behaviors. This time the board member made another allegation regarding another board member in open session, which was requested to be recorded in the minutes, because it is a serious allegation.

My question is, what is the material impact of enforcing discipline on this board member? I believe the most the board can do is move the board meetings to a board member's residence, thereby ensuring this offending board member cannot trespass into the meeting and offend folks' sensibilities again.

Any advice that can help us?

Thanks as always.

CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
Hi Robert,

When I read your recent post, "Question on committee's authority," I assumed that you are not a member of the board. But because you know what occurred in Executive Session, it seems that you are a director, yes?

I haven't read Robert's Rules on the topic, but I believe that your board can publicly censure--at an open meeting-- the offensive director for disrupting the meetings. This might be a deterrent. Also see davis-sterling.com; scroll down the main index to Disruptive Directors.

Also see the recent thread, "Security Guard at BOD meetings?" Janet's idea of taping the meetings might work especially since H/O's can see the taping occur, which might put pressure on the director to behave. Read other ideas in that thread too.

Since you're working with an attorney on the CC&Rs, I assume s/he's an HOA attorney. Look at Executive Committees on Davis-sterling.com and ask the attorney if your board can form one that includes all directors except the offensive one.

Does your board have a Code of Ethics? If not, consider creating one that includes respectful behavior towards fellow directors, etc.

If the director also is an officer, your board probably has the authority to remove the person from office. Check your governing documents.

Why is this director so hostile?
RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Yes, I am a board member too. We actually tape the meetings to help the secretary to ensure meeting minutes are correct. That's not enough of a deterrent though. I believe, in CA, we can remove a board member from their position or office, not from the board. We do not have a code of ethics, but we do require the meetings to follow the Robert's Rules of Order which in my opinion are a comprehensive code of conduct for meetings to be run. That too is violated most times. I do not want to go into my personal opinion on why the director is so hostile, but I do know that the director is not in favor of some board members' viewpoints.
JanetB2 (Colorado)
Posts: 4,219
Posted:

Hi Robert:

Board members are elected by the membership. The other board members cannot keep the individual from attending any meetings or eliminate their participation, as this is only the general membership right to remove from the position. However, as Carol noted he can be removed by the board from any β€œofficer” position, if needed.

You can maybe Censure per your state statutes as noted:

http://www.davis-stirling.com/MainMenu/MainIndex/CensuringDirectors/tabid/1648/Default.aspx#axzz1ms1AoJgj

Otherwise I would recommend video taping meetings, as this is allowed in California. Other individuals reading these posts need to be sure and check their state laws because this is not an option in all States.
RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Yes, the member has already been censored. However, censure does not prevent the board member from speaking at a meeting, and has no material implication on the board member's participation, except that the fact that a censure has happened.
JanetB2 (Colorado)
Posts: 4,219
Posted:
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Posted By RobertR13 on 02/19/2012 6:35 PM
I do not want to go into my personal opinion on why the director is so hostile, but I do know that the director is not in favor of some board members' viewpoints.

Just because this member has a different view point from others is OK. Sometimes you can have a group and one member will be right (maybe from a legal standpoint) while others are all acting on emotion. Potentially it is the different viewpoint which the membership preferred and why he was elected.
RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Agree completely. But as I read somewhere on this forum, we can accept or fight, as long as it is done politely and professionally.
RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
My apologies, I shouldn't have been terse.

I meant that it is ok to have different opinions, and actually different opinions should be welcome too. However, the opinions must be expressed politely and professionally.
BruceF1 (Connecticut)
Posts: 2,535
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By RobertR13 on 02/19/2012 5:23 PM
This time the board member made another allegation regarding another board member in open session, which was requested to be recorded in the minutes, because it is a serious allegation.

I would ask the member to provide proof, or evidence, to support his allegation, in writing, to the board, so that it can be considered by the board in closed session.

Also, according to proper procedure, unless debate is regarding a motion, no other discussion should be taking place, unless the meeting has been opened to general discussion.
LarryB13 (Arizona)
Posts: 4,099
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By RobertR13 on 02/19/2012 5:23 PM
I believe the most the board can do is move the board meetings to a board member's residence, thereby ensuring this offending board member cannot trespass into the meeting and offend folks' sensibilities again.

Robert,

The idea of holding a board meeting in a board member's home so that one board member can be kept out of the meeting is to me far more offensive than anything that that board member could have possibly done. This indicates to me that you have zero understanding of a board's duties. Just where did you get the idea that you may legally excluded an elected board member from a meeting of the board? Similar nonsense came up in the recent thread about using a security guard to oust a board member from a meeting.

You, sir, have no business on the board of directors and you should do the members a favor and resign.

Larry
RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By LarryB13 on 02/20/2012 9:24 AM
Posted By RobertR13 on 02/19/2012 5:23 PM
I believe the most the board can do is move the board meetings to a board member's residence, thereby ensuring this offending board member cannot trespass into the meeting and offend folks' sensibilities again.


Robert,

The idea of holding a board meeting in a board member's home so that one board member can be kept out of the meeting is to me far more offensive than anything that that board member could have possibly done. This indicates to me that you have zero understanding of a board's duties. Just where did you get the idea that you may legally excluded an elected board member from a meeting of the board? Similar nonsense came up in the recent thread about using a security guard to oust a board member from a meeting.

You, sir, have no business on the board of directors and you should do the members a favor and resign.

Larry

I do not understand where you're getting your idea from. This information of holding a board meeting at a board member's residence is actually from one of the lawyer/DS blogs, and not mine.

Please do me a favor and refrain from negative comments, at least to me.

Thank you.
SusanW1 (Michigan)
Posts: 5,202
Posted:
Robert - your president does not have control of the meeting.

No one should rant and rave at a meeting. It is distruptive.

A point of order by the president can be given with the remark and a tap of the gavel - "Mr. X, do you have a motion for the board to consider? All I hear are personal remarks, and they have no place in this meeting. You have a warning to keep your remarks focused and on issues."

RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By BruceF1 on 02/20/2012 5:23 AM
Posted By RobertR13 on 02/19/2012 5:23 PM
This time the board member made another allegation regarding another board member in open session, which was requested to be recorded in the minutes, because it is a serious allegation.

I would ask the member to provide proof, or evidence, to support his allegation, in writing, to the board, so that it can be considered by the board in closed session.

Also, according to proper procedure, unless debate is regarding a motion, no other discussion should be taking place, unless the meeting has been opened to general discussion.

Thank you, this is a good idea to ask the member to provide proof and evidence.
RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By SusanW1 on 02/20/2012 9:29 AM
Robert - your president does not have control of the meeting.

No one should rant and rave at a meeting. It is distruptive.

A point of order by the president can be given with the remark and a tap of the gavel - "Mr. X, do you have a motion for the board to consider? All I hear are personal remarks, and they have no place in this meeting. You have a warning to keep your remarks focused and on issues."


Thank you, Susan. The original intent of this discussion was to find the material impact that we can carry out on the basis of such warnings. The board member has consistently ignored such warnings and keeps on shouting/commanding the other board members, as indicated in earlier remarks.
JanetB2 (Colorado)
Posts: 4,219
Posted:
Hi Robert:

Was this individual elected by the membership or appointed to the Board. The reason I ask is because if the board appointed then in CA the board can remove without the membership approving. He who appoints or elects has authority to remove.
RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Thanks, Janet. The board member was elected by the membership and can be removed only by the membership. The most the board can (as per our bylaws) do is remove the director from office, but not the board. That's not required, since this director is a member-in-large with no specific duties mentioned in the bylaws.

Till now, we have only been able to keep silent while the other member keeps shouting, and we have recessed one time because this member was just obstructing board business.

We're losing valuable time because of this one member and another member is now losing patience and complaining to the Chair to do something about this.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
Hi Robert, yes, the meeting chair should do something about it and should instruct the disruptive director to stick to agenda items only and follow Robert's re: discussion, motions, debate, votes on agenda items.

Per Robert's, by the way, reasons for NO votes must be stated verbally and can be placed in the minutes at the dissenter's or dissenters' request.

The meeting chair also might try to encourage H/O's who attend to voice their opinions about the director's discourteous, obstructive behavior. Peer pressure from one's neighbors could be at least a partial solution. How many association members usually attend your open meetings?

Just curious: what size is your HOA? Detached homes, or?
JanetB2 (Colorado)
Posts: 4,219
Posted:
Frustrating I understand … problem is under the state laws your hands are a little tied. While you can censure or ask for their resignation (which they can refuse), then they cannot be prevented from attending meetings, making motions, voting, etc. Possibly recording meetings and posting for membership to view might make a difference. Maybe if the individual sees how they appear in a video or that others will be able to view, it might reduce the confrontations.

Otherwise, unless membership will recall or the individual commits fraud or some other offense to warrant removal then everyone is expected to try and get along and make every attempt to play somewhat fairly together in the sandbox.
RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
Thank you, that's also the impression I was under.

Is it possible to spell out director qualifications required for being a member of the board? What kind of director qualifications may we be allowed to put in our governing docs that can prevent such people from being elected or self-nominating themselves to the board?

Our community, until about 2-3 years back, has been largely run by the loudest-scream prioritization method and it is just since the last two years we have garnered two or three homeowners to stand up for the board and get things straightened out as far as governing docs and spending ability are concerned.

Just so some folks may know where I am coming from, expenses in our association (in spite of having reserve study updates, budgets, etc) were largely made based on the opinions and reasoning of a couple of homeowners and the membership was largely apathetic until it started hurting their wallets.
LarryB13 (Arizona)
Posts: 4,099
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By RobertR13 on 02/20/2012 9:27 AM
Posted By LarryB13 on 02/20/2012 9:24 AM
Posted By RobertR13 on 02/19/2012 5:23 PM
I believe the most the board can do is move the board meetings to a board member's residence, thereby ensuring this offending board member cannot trespass into the meeting and offend folks' sensibilities again.


Robert,

The idea of holding a board meeting in a board member's home so that one board member can be kept out of the meeting is to me far more offensive than anything that that board member could have possibly done. This indicates to me that you have zero understanding of a board's duties. Just where did you get the idea that you may legally excluded an elected board member from a meeting of the board? Similar nonsense came up in the recent thread about using a security guard to oust a board member from a meeting.

You, sir, have no business on the board of directors and you should do the members a favor and resign.

Larry


I do not understand where you're getting your idea from. This information of holding a board meeting at a board member's residence is actually from one of the lawyer/DS blogs, and not mine.

Please do me a favor and refrain from negative comments, at least to me.

Thank you.

Boy, you just keep digging yourself in deeper and deeper!

First you suggested that you could hold a board meeting in a private residence so that you could exclude the attendance of a lawfully elected board member. Now you try to justify that by claiming that you found that advice on the Internet. And we all know that if you read something on the Internet it must be true! Is there no limit to your ignorance?

For the good of your HOA, resign from the board. If you wish to serve in the future then please find some community college classes to take.

And just who are you to dictate that you are beyond criticism? You posted here, claimed to have a problem, and asked for help. What you posted indicates that the problem is you, your lack of knowledge, and your disregard for those members of your HOA who elected the other board member.

I asked this question on the other thread and got no answer, so I will ask it again. What statute or common law permits a majority of members of a board of directors to exclude the attendance of other lawfully elected members from a meeting of the board? Robert? Anybody?

RobertR13 (California)
Posts: 37
Posted:
LarryB13,

Since you sound like the other disruptive board member that I was referring to in my earlier conversations, I am going to start ignoring your rants/raves.

Thank you,
Robert.
BruceF1 (Connecticut)
Posts: 2,535
Posted:
Quote:
Posted By CarolR11 on 02/20/2012 10:08 AM
Per Robert's, by the way, reasons for NO votes must be stated verbally and can be placed in the minutes at the dissenter's or dissenters' request.

Carol,

Can you quote to me the section of Roberts Rules that states this? My understanding of Roberts Rules (nearly 40 years experience) is that no one can be compelled to explain their vote, or their reasons for abstaining.
CarolR11 (Colorado)
Posts: 2,563
Posted:
Hi Bruce, I'll try to find it in the next few days. I've noticed your expertise about Robert's in other posts and admire it. I don't think I kept the reference which I stumbled upon over a year ago. I'm not clever enough to have made it up!

I like it a lot and our board now requires directors to state their reason(s) for voting NO. Usually the reason is obvious during debate of the motion, but not always. Expressing it makes it difficult to vote NO out of spite or out of the desire to obstruct. It also helps eliminates "reasons" like: "it just doesn't feel right," or "I just don't like it," and encourages serious thinking and analyses.

After their reason(s), the presider asks the director if they'd like the reason for voting NO recorded in the minutes.
JohnC46 (South Carolina)
Posts: 14,265
Posted:
Carol

Am I misunderstanding?

My experience says you cannot "force" anyone to explain their vote. Ask them their reasoning yes, but not force them to explain.

In one organization the BOD used to just list vote totals but one contrarian BOD Member had always accused the BOD of hiding things. As soon as he got on the BOD, he made a motion for us to list who voted how. Motion was seconded, discussed, and it carried. As part of the discussion one BOD member said he knew some had accused the BOD of hiding things while staring directly at the contrarian and that he was going to vote for the motion just to show some how wrong they were.

JanetB2 (Colorado)
Posts: 4,219
Posted:
Hi John:

It is not forcing it is more respectfully requesting. City Council and Boards also are expecting the members to do this same thing in many areas. It helps if someone wants to possibly file court case that there is a valid reason they were denied what they wanted by the board or council and that it was not done out of spite.

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