RandyR4 (Florida)
Posts: 12
Posts: 12
Posted:
I live in a HOA in Florida and have been harassed to death by the HOA, stalking physically threatening acts with a vehicle, where my wife was in fear for her life. This last act prompted the president come to our home and offer a truce, that if we did not pursue legal action for the threats unto my wife with a members car, they would no longer harass us in any manner. My wife who is disabled was home when the president showed at the door, she did not get a copy of what she signed, but there was a witness present over the age of 21 and the discussion leading up to signing the paper. ( I have since asked for a copy of the signed document and have yet to receive a response)
The issue now is a boat and trailer that was parked in my driveway temporarily.
The owner of the boat and I took it out fishing, which we have numerous times and as always when the owner drops me off at home we both rinse and wash the boat ( which is not mentioned in the by laws ( the by laws state that the boat will not be stored at any members home) This day after fishing the boat trailer had a flat, also there were nails in the other tire, this made the boat and trailer unsafe for travel on any roadway obviously and for safety reasons as well as the LAW the boat could not be moved and taken back with owner as was the usual.
I got a letter from the HOA Attorney stating mandatory mediation was required for this boat and trailer issue and I had 20 days to pick from their mediators offered and that this issue would be discussed at mediation.
Having never any intent to use my driveway for the owners boat and the only reason it was there was for obvious safety issues and since the boat trailer tires were repaired and the boat nor trailer an issue, I wrote to the HOA and addressed the need for mandatory mediation in this instance,explained the situation with the boat and trailer and it no longer an issue and why it was ever of issue, as well inquired as to the lack of communication before a threat of lawsuit or mediation were demanded, where it would entail costs of all members of the HOA due to the legal fees of all, and again, the boat and trailer no longer of issue.
I got no response.
I have 20 days to agree to the mediation which costs considerable money, money from me with a disabled wife as well as other members as the funds and dues the members pay are what funds these legal issues.
I was not fined for breaking this by law, even though there were circumstances to explain the situation, but I would much prefer a fine, then to pay near 900.00 or more dollars for a mediation, or that these funds are also taken from members dues, as they are.
I would expect that the Board would act in good faith and respond, yet that has not happened, and the president who came to my home and had my wife sign something to resolve the bodily harm threats with a vehicle of another on their board is no longer the president.
This HOA, is acting in bad faith and retaliating, continuing to harass me due to past issues such as described.
Any input is appreciated.
The issue now is a boat and trailer that was parked in my driveway temporarily.
The owner of the boat and I took it out fishing, which we have numerous times and as always when the owner drops me off at home we both rinse and wash the boat ( which is not mentioned in the by laws ( the by laws state that the boat will not be stored at any members home) This day after fishing the boat trailer had a flat, also there were nails in the other tire, this made the boat and trailer unsafe for travel on any roadway obviously and for safety reasons as well as the LAW the boat could not be moved and taken back with owner as was the usual.
I got a letter from the HOA Attorney stating mandatory mediation was required for this boat and trailer issue and I had 20 days to pick from their mediators offered and that this issue would be discussed at mediation.
Having never any intent to use my driveway for the owners boat and the only reason it was there was for obvious safety issues and since the boat trailer tires were repaired and the boat nor trailer an issue, I wrote to the HOA and addressed the need for mandatory mediation in this instance,explained the situation with the boat and trailer and it no longer an issue and why it was ever of issue, as well inquired as to the lack of communication before a threat of lawsuit or mediation were demanded, where it would entail costs of all members of the HOA due to the legal fees of all, and again, the boat and trailer no longer of issue.
I got no response.
I have 20 days to agree to the mediation which costs considerable money, money from me with a disabled wife as well as other members as the funds and dues the members pay are what funds these legal issues.
I was not fined for breaking this by law, even though there were circumstances to explain the situation, but I would much prefer a fine, then to pay near 900.00 or more dollars for a mediation, or that these funds are also taken from members dues, as they are.
I would expect that the Board would act in good faith and respond, yet that has not happened, and the president who came to my home and had my wife sign something to resolve the bodily harm threats with a vehicle of another on their board is no longer the president.
This HOA, is acting in bad faith and retaliating, continuing to harass me due to past issues such as described.
Any input is appreciated.