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Posted By JonD1 on 05/26/2011 7:09 AM
So let me offer this question to you all. Lets say you have a small child. Boy or girl or perhaps grandchild for whom you are responsible. Lets say someone moves into your neighborhood and it comes to light they are a registered sex offender but the circustances are not known. WOULD YOU ALLOW THIS CHILD TO BE LEFT ALONE WITH THIS INDIVIDUAL IN THE HOPE THEY WERE A LESS SERIOUS OFFENDER?
Would you fight to have this person given the ability to live next door to you?
Now lets say we find out this is the worst kind of sexual predator. Lets say like a recent case here in NY this person repeatedly raped underage young girls with the permission of and making payment to the childrens MOTHER!
So now we have a problem do you allow this person to live next to you or has this behavior crossed any lines?
So now it would be necessary for someone to determine which sexual offenders are welcome and which are not.
I did not group anyone with anybody that was your suggestion which did not occur. And as I stated most sexual offenders have true victims under all circumstances this is NOT in most cases a victimless crime I put their needs and the protection of ANY future victims before considering the rights or considerations provided the criminal.
And finally whether convicted, registered, charged or undetermined statistics show you should worry about them ALL.
IMO there are no "good" sexual offenders.
My answers:
IF i had a child, I would not allow them to be left alone with ANYONE until I knew them, knew their character, and had checked them out. I would not be in the habit of leaving my children with strangers, sexual offenders or non-sexual offenders. I believe part of being a parent is ensuring the safety of my child, and I would not trust anyone, even the government, to tell me that X person is good enough to provide care, or not good enough. If i left them in the care of a government certified, board approved, card toting, child care specialist, and they smacked the crud out of them for no reason, I would not say "well, the experts say this person is good, look at the card they have. must be i am wrong." Neither would I automatically look at the government who told me Mrs. X is a sexual offender, and is thus, incapable of ever turning her life around, always deserving of scorn, and should never ever be trusted because she might do something horrible to a baby, child, or my teen age linebacker of a son." Bottom line, I would trust my research, not what some idiot with a law degree (or worse, some Politician with NO brains) decided was the label they would carry.
One thing I always note about sexual offenders... we register them, scorn them, hound them, mark them, shun them, legislate them, often for the rest of their lives. But a convicted MURDERER gets no label. No legislation. No ban on living next to schools. If I touched a child inappropriately, my life is over. But if I murder and eat ten or so of them, I can do some time, and then live next to a school bus stop and day care center if I want.
One key difference? the children I murdered aren't alive. The ones I touched are.
no wait, that can't be right...