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GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
We've all read and heard stories of HOA's gone wild but what causes it? Could it be apathy? I am the VP of a Condo community and this year we sent every owner a questionnaire asking for the wants and opinions of everyone as to how the property is run. What they liked/didn't like, what they would like to have in the way of amenities, etc. We gave everyone a stamped - self-addressed envelope and we asked that no one sign them. It was 100% anonymous and yet less than 40% were returned. Is it simply because we are doing such a great job that everyone is happy and have no complaints? Or is it because people just don't care until it affects them?

Are bad HOA's caused by people who can't be bothered to volunteer to help out the community by serving on the BOD or a committee a couple of hours a month/year? If you rely on the same people year after year to "gitter done" with little or no oversight/feedback. Is it unreasonable for them to turn into the HOA dictator? If you're expected to do everything and no one ever complains or questions how things are handled because they don't want to be bothered to do it. Is it unreasonable that you start to assume and act as if you are always right? (Not me btw)

Is an HOA really "out of control" simply because an individual who hasn't read the CC&R'S and violates a rule they didn't know about or chose to violate because it is a "stupid" rule anyway, gets caught and is made to abide by? When they get caught do they simply inquire as to the proper way to do things? Or if they feel that they are being singled out when everyone else has some violation, do they ask why? Or is the first thing out of their mouth, "I'll sue!"?

Final thought; yes I know there are some incompetent people running HOA's & MC's, some are even crooks. You get that in every sector of life from the government to the fortune 500 company, so an HOA will get their fair share. But are they allowed to keep their positions, and get by with things simply because no one is paying attention?

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KittyC (North Carolina)
Posts: 22
Posted:
I would have answered the questionaire! I wish my developer/HOA would ask the residents what they want the HOA to do for them. It has been 3 LONG miserable years with my developer as the complete controller of my neighborhood. Every house came with an extremely long list of restrictive covanents: we had no say at all. Since then a few of the homeowners (either chosen by the developer or self-chosen because of personal agendas) have decided how my $1000 per year dues are spent. There has been NO DISCUSSION and no request for input from the homeowners. I get an accounting at the end of the year. There is an HOA website which is paid by my dues. However, replies to posts are blocked, and posts are censored by the administrator of the HOA. kitty in Chapel Hill, NC
RonaldW (South Carolina)
Posts: 901
Posted:
Posted By KittyC on 12/09/2006 11:45 PM

There is an HOA website which is paid by my dues. However, replies to posts are blocked, and posts are censored by the administrator of the HOA. kitty in Chapel Hill, NC


We have a website. I am the webmaster

I would never consider putting anything like this forum on my association website. Every neighborhood has one or more troublemakers who want to argue everything. It's all to easy to post garbage to a forum, call people names (had that here a few days ago), and just generally undermine the community. Think of an association meeting with nobody in charge and no rules. Moderating such a site would be a 24 - 7 job and then there would still be those who posted complaining that their posts were deleted.

Accepting suggestions and complaints from the members is fine as long as they go to the board members only.


Ron
SC
RonaldW (South Carolina)
Posts: 901
Posted:
Posted By KittyC on 12/09/2006 11:45 PM
........ Every house came with an extremely long list of restrictive covanents: we had no say at all. ......


Actually, you had a very big "say". You chose to purchase the property with the "extremely long list of restrictive covanents". Your decision to purchase the property was your approval of the covenants.

If you want to know what's going on, if you want your oppinion heard, get involved with the HOA. Attend the meetings, volunteer for a committee, run for office.


Ron
SC
CharlesW1 (Georgia)
Posts: 826
Posted:
GlenL

I too would have filled out the questionnaire. It’s unfortunate. This is my first elected (by default) term as VP. Community involvement has got to be one of the most difficult things for many HOAs, if you want to better your community, it very important that the BOD forms committees. IMHO. In our neighborhood it is only the previous board members and maybe their wives that are on a committee or every once in a while someone new (like myself and my wife) that will get involved. I feel as long as no one is “paying attention” then they will continue to be incompetent in their position It is like that everywhere you turn today. It isn’t until they are confronted in what there doing wrong, that it will ever change “get by with things simply because no one is paying attention?” One of my favorite quotes that Dr.Phil is always saying is, “ you can not change what you don’t first acknowledge” I feel that the people in any position to better serve others should be doing what they are suppose to be doing or else be told otherwise. It’s apparent to them that what they are doing is correct that is why they continue doing it. As a board member if you don’t fulfill your obligations, you can be “sued” by members of your association.(I believe so) So I would say then anyone in the position to better serve others must do their job or be release, immediately. PERIOD!

Good post.
Best of luck, keep reading previously written posts for some very good advice.

Chuck W.

Charles E. Wafer Jr.
hoatalk (California)
Posts: 603
Posted:
Moderated sites can work and so can unmoderated ones. HOATalk's website customers are using both effectively. It depends on the community.

It's only a big job if you check it many times a day. With our service, moderators get emailed when they have new posts to approve so no need to check in too often. Also, accepting delayed posts is really part of a moderated forum. If someone's post sits for a day unapproved, then it's OK. Forums are for feedback over time, not emergency requests and member's would have to understand that a volunteer is doing the moderation and is not available all the time. The alternative in many communities is no forum at all, because the Board would not approve an unmoderated forum. The slower communication of a moderated forum is better than none at all. And look at it this way, many MCs standard service level is to return calls in 1 business day or more, so other communication channels also have delays.

On your question of apathy; of course that's a big problem. Another problem is a basic misunderstanding of what the HOA is and what the member's role is. Many owners treat the HOA the way they treat the phone company, "I pay $x per month and I expect these services for my $x. All I have to do is pay the bill.". They treat the Board like a service company working for them.

In this case, education is the key. Many (most?) people have no concept that THEY are are HOA and when they bought their home they also bought into a co-op of sorts that they must help run. I'd say this is the root of many of the problems. Owners have to understand that the Board are all unpaid neighbor volunteers doing the other neighbors a favor by spending time running the HOA. Owners need to understand that every dollar of services provided must be paid by the members. They need to understand that they all ultimately own and have liability for the ammenities (pool, common areas, etc). They need to understand that every hour of work needed to run the HOA and maintain it's common elements must either be volunteer time or purchased services that they pay for. They must understand that if they just complain to the board so much that all the Board members quit, then nothing will get done at all.

Many members expect too much of the Board. For example, they expect them to work with the police to solve crime issues, go to the local zoning board to fight undesirable adjoining development, etc. These are nice extras if the Board takes them on but are not part of the charter. I'm sure many of you have other examples.

When it comes to management companies, members also need to know what services were purchased. Who may contact the MC for requests and what are the turnaround times? Is the MC supposed to police the community for violations? Is the MC supposed to check the community for needed maintenance; how often? Again, set proper expectations and if member's want higher service levels they have to be willing to pay for it.

Every HOA should try to educate owners on what the HOA is and everyone's role (MC, Board, Committees and owners). It should help things run much better.

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CharlesW1 (Georgia)
Posts: 826
Posted:
KittyC,

If you aren’t doing so now, I would have to agree.
“You can not change what you don’t first acknowledge”

Pretty much when you signed for ownership of your home, you also agreed to the “long list of restrictive covenants”. You did have an opportunity to disapprove at that point.

Get more involved. You don’t like what is being done, then do something about it. If more people would have the mind set that you have, just think how wonderful your community could be.
I’ll make one observation here, I see you have turned to this discussion forum for advice which would indicate to me that you care enough or you wouldn’t have posted what you did.

Chuck W.

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GeraldT1 (<Not Specified>)
Posts: 519
Posted:
GlenL,

Good post, but you have questions (13 to be specific) and no real answers.

If you had anything over 25% or near 40% return rate on questionnaires, that is a success. Probably more involvement percentage wise than you currently have!!

I believe the root cause of "out of control" HOA's is an equation made up of owner apathy, poor Board and owner communication, unwillingness to read and discuss by-laws, delusions of grandeur, board agendas, and last but not least timing (which is everything). At the end of the day however, it is the Board as a governing body that is the determining factor in a well-run association. The Board is held to the highest standard and must do the right thing, regardless of owner apathy.

With all due respect to anyone who complains, quite crying a river, roll up your sleeves, get creative, solicit participation (PR), and get your neighbors involved. I've done it in my community, many many times, and have been very effective.

IMO, an HOA/COA Board should send multiple communications throughout the year to the residents explaining the importance of owner participation and the positive effect it will have on everyone's bottom line. Get neighbors involved in something exciting (bus trip, New Year party, fund raiser, etc.) and publish the success in a flyer, or newsletter.

Best of success!!
GeraldT1
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RonaldW (South Carolina)
Posts: 901
Posted:
Posted By hoatalk on 12/10/2006 6:12 AM

On your question of apathy; of course that's a big problem. Another problem is a basic misunderstanding of what the HOA is and what the member's role is. Many owners treat the HOA the way they treat the phone company, "I pay $x per month and I expect these services for my $x. All I have to do is pay the bill.". They treat the Board like a service company working for them.

In this case, education is the key. Many (most?) people have no concept that THEY are are HOA and when they bought their home they also bought into a co-op of sorts that they must help run. I'd say this is the root of many of the problems. Owners have to understand that the Board are all unpaid neighbor volunteers doing the other neighbors a favor by spending time running the HOA. Owners need to understand that every dollar of services provided must be paid by the members. They need to understand that they all ultimately own and have liability for the ammenities (pool, common areas, etc). They need to understand that every hour of work needed to run the HOA and maintain it's common elements must either be volunteer time or purchased services that they pay for. They must understand that if they just complain to the board so much that all the Board members quit, then nothing will get done at all.

Many members expect too much of the Board. For example, they expect them to work with the police to solve crime issues, go to the local zoning board to fight undesirable adjoining development, etc. These are nice extras if the Board takes them on but are not part of the charter. I'm sure many of you have other examples.

Every HOA should try to educate owners on what the HOA is and everyone's role (MC, Board, Committees and owners). It should help things run much better.


Very well put and true.

The problem is reaching the members to educate them. Not too long ago the city workers drove around the neighborhood and placed notices on every home's front doornob announcing a change in trash pickup days. I noticed my neighbor putting her trash out on the "old" day and told her about the change. I mentioned the notices that were left on the doorknob and her reply was "Oh, I didn't bother to read that". Some people are hard to reach (mentally).

If you really want attendance at meetings, send around a dues increase notice. That will get their attention! (OK, not a serious suggestion but it does work.)


Ron
SC
JosephW (Michigan)
Posts: 882
Posted:
Glen,

I'll try to answer two of the questions. First, a 40% response isn't too bad. People often don't respond to surveys unless they have something specific to say or respond to, and that item may not have been on the questionnaire. In a country where only 50% of the people vote in a national election, getting 4 out of 10 to anwer a survey is actually pretty good. And, it's probably reflective of your association. 4 out of 10 care, the rest just go along until something hits them between the eyes.

As for apathy, when I look back at associations that were good and associations that weren't, the difference almost always came down to the President. That may be putting a lot on one person's shoulders, but as the most visible individual and the person who sets the agenda and runs the meetings, they do make a huge difference. A good President can overcome a bad board, but a good board has problems with a bad President. Just look at the posts of this board - not many problems start out with "We have a good President, but.....", while a lot of them start our with "We have board members who want to do a good job, but the President....."

The best President's have developed leadership skills outside of the association, but apply them inside. They listen, without being critical; know how to build a consensus; know where the association should be heading, can articulate it to others and gets people to help; understands the critical importance of communication, and uses it effectively and in multiple formats (person-to-person, printed and electronic); can handle problem people without taking the abuse personally (a tough one); keeps things on track and on focus; can deal with ineffective board members privately so issues don't public; they recruit good people to run for the board, and they can convince people to serve on committees; they say "thank you" a lot; apathy doesn't seem to exist around them; etc. etc. etc.

With bad President's, the board founders and it's members find it hard to go around the Prez to get things done, or the board just spends a year in-fighting or becoming apathetic.

This may sound simplistic, but for those of you who have dealt with many associations over the years, if you think back to the good ones and the bad ones, it will probably be the President who stood out.


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