JonD … ENOUGH please …
I will respond to you ONCE, so hopefully you will finally understand in many of your posts you make erroneous and inflammatory ASSUMPTIONS. As you will note above most of us tend to ignore you, but you just do not know when to quit.
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The Board hasn't bothered to meet. This suggests to me both the Board AND the other property owners aren't real interested. Who might then take extra resposibility on?
Per Mary the board did finally meet once, due to her insistence. It appears she is trying to take on the responsibility of insuring they will have proper meetings and a proper HOA going forward. This is what is important … not your assumption. Quote:
And while I agree in a perfect world it would be best for others to have a role in overseeing the operations seems like this property lacks options.
This property has all the options in the world they desire, as long as there are individuals like Mary who will put forth the effort to insure future success. This is what is important for their future, for everyone to be involved. It is also important for us and HOA’s to encourage that success … not tear it down with inflammatory statements. Quote:
And on a human nature level you now have a new member of the Board questioning how and why the Board President and his wife who serves as Treasurer do their jobs. Holding the opinion they should not be permitted to do what needed to be done and I might add done with the at least the suggested approval of the remaining Board members.
The Board President’s wife does not serve as Treasurer. She and one other individual have both agreed to take on the responsibility, if so chosen. Everyone who starts a thread will be posting their opinion/question and it is not your place to twist it around to what you assume their opinion consists. All you do is inflame their potential anger and potentially make their anger and situation worse. Quote:
Seems many people find fault and then offer how they think things should be. When you have just two active members tough to spread any responsibility very far.
You assume two active members? From what Mary has stated there is Mary, the President, President’s wife, other potential treasurer candidate, and any others she did not mention. As far as we are concerned they could have numerous “active members” not mentioned. If people find fault in their HOA … “so what” it is their opinion. Many of us ignore what they find fault with and try to assist on a POSITIVE note. Most of us would like to see issues that start out negative … end positive. You on the other hand appear to want to turn posts into inflammatory assumption gripe fests. In the future if you have a concern you should try to ask a nice polite question such as, “May I ask why do you feel …”. And please avoid twisting what someone has written to suit what you think/assume they have stated. Please let the poster explain …
Many individuals who start threads are doing so because they have a problem or concern they have recently encountered. Sometimes they are angry and may make statements such as some I have seen recently describing their board as “storm troopers”, “rogue”, etc. Everyone needs to understand (especially on first posting) that they are just venting their anger and frustration. Let’s all try to turn those situations around by ignoring the “venting” and put individuals on track to a positive feeling and outcome. This then will hopefully assist them and their HOA towards a positive mutual harmony instead of fueling continued resentment or anger.
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Posted By SusanW1 on 01/28/2011 10:06 AM
I think Jon was admonishing me - but no matter.
I have broad shoulders.
Susan … you are AWESOME … I for one was able to read between the lines and know you were taking Mary’s hurt regarding Jon’s posts onto your shoulders. Mary is new to our group and it is unfortunate that her first postings have encountered this experience. Hopefully, we all will be mindful in the future of an individual’s feelings.
Mary … I apologize for the false assumptions made and hope you will not think badly about this site and continue your hard work within your HOA. I for one think you will be GREAT!!!
Jon … I think deep down you know what you owe both Susan and especially Mary …
Now let’s all make up … we are all one Big HOA Family.