Donna, if I understand the Savanna case wasn't that primarily from a Federal fair housing perspective? In that case the judge found that the rule existed for legitimate community concerns such as parking problems that were occurring and the rule applied to all religious gatherings. If it's a group of five residents you're going to have a hard time arguing that they're causing the parking lot to overflow.
Further, if the board has and plans to continue to give exceptions for memorial services I think you open yourself up to accusations of allowing some religious activities but not others. Be careful there.
What exactly is the board's concern here? That is, how would the interests of the association be harmed by allowing religious meetings that otherwise comply with all other clubhouse rules? You don't need to answer that here but it's just something to think about because if it ever goes to court you need to be able to show that the rule isn't arbitrary and is applied consistently across all cases. At my association we allowed religious meetings if for no other reason than they had to pay the same rental fee as everyone else and the income came in handy!
