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RickB4 (Kentucky)
Posts: 23
Posted:
What can be done about frmer board members (1 or 2) who are waging an angry and ruthless campaign of never ending harassment against a board and its management co? They raise issues all month as if they were life or death matters (and most are trivial or non issues or only violations in their own eyes, not as written) and then raise them again at meetings (acting as if the board has never addressed them previously), makes false comments and allegations repeatedly (both during the month and while acting out at meetings, usually in violation of meeting conduct rules). They often engage in their own selective enforcement within the community and mass violation reporting and basically makes life difficult for anyone serving on the current board or mgmt co. I believe the aim is trying to get them to resign so they can resume power again. Is there anything that can be done to prevent such community terrorism of an HOA by one of its own members? They are wasting away our mgmnt co. time each week on all their issues and wild goose chases. Previous board was very unpopular with owners. Owners now are happy but board is under seige. What can be done to limit the influence the harm done by a few radicals who do not reflect the views of the other 99.9% of the owners? How do we make the job anything such that good people will stay on the board, despite the below the belt attacks? It feels like a couple owners can ruin it for everyone else.
DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:

Rick,

Yes, a couple of big mouth crazies can ruin it for a whole community. Every association has them. Unfortunately, this country has free speech laws and all that you can do is hope that they run out of wind sometime soon.

Now if they get into liablis territory, then they can be warned. If you have a newsletter or website, have the Board make a strong, straight forward statement. Include the management company as well as they are also being attacked.

Address this to the community, telling them how the Board policy works, how to deal with issues and complaints. Be aggressive with your stand towards the membership and about cooperation. Include how much the Board appreciates the members, talk about helping and anything positive about your association. It will put some thoughts into the members heads about the positives and hopefully the crazies will die down soon.

Also, make sure that you follow your meeting agenda and do not let them disrupt meetings.
RickB4 (Kentucky)
Posts: 23
Posted:
Donna, thanks for the good advice. I only wish there were better options, as we are basically doing as you say. It is just unfortunate that an owner can basically get away with harassment and apparently the skys the limit. You normally hear the stories about the HOA coming down on a homeowner, but rarely do you hear about the opposite. A few bad apples can indeed ruin it for everyone else as I don't know how many people would do a job for free and take the mud balling as well.
DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:

Rick,
Unfortunately these folks do have their right to attend meetings as well. But the Board or meeting leader must control the demeanor of the meeting. Do your bylaws address how members may speak at member or Board meetings? In Florida where I am from and still own rental property, members may ONLY speak at meetings if they have requested the right to do so in writting and this request must be on the agenda so there is the ability to control bad behavior to a point. Good Boards will listen to valid requests and issues. But Boards must also make the meetings comfortable for the other members who attend so that should be your first priority.
GlenL (Ohio)
Posts: 5,491
Posted:
Rick, as long as they know that they are irritating the BOD and MC the more they will do it. The MC's standard reply (unless it is something urgent) is we'll bring it to the Board's attention. When they bring something up that has been dealt with if I were on the Board I would answer the question and then I would add: Just like we told you last month when you brought it up. Your memory loss seems to be getting worse; have you considered seeing a physician about it? It could be a sign of early onset Alzheimer's. We used to have one who would send massive tombs of complaints every couple of months and I took great delight in doing the replies but I thrive on thinly veiled sarcasm. The Board will also need to know the CC&R's inside out and when they publicly complain about a violation that is not a violation, I would pull out a copy of the CC&R's and tell them you are unfamiliar with that section. Perhaps they could show you where it's at?

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BrianB (California)
Posts: 2,820
Posted:
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Posted By DonnaS on 10/07/2010 8:19 AM

Rick,

Yes, a couple of big mouth crazies can ruin it for a whole community. Every association has them. Unfortunately, this country has free speech laws and all that you can do is hope that they run out of wind sometime soon.
Also, make sure that you follow your meeting agenda and do not let them disrupt meetings.

I frequently like Donna's advice, and only pick on this to further pick a point:

There are NO first amendment rights in a corporation board room, except what is granted to you by the corporation. (That said, be sure to check your state laws to see if they legislated something that requires an HOA to provide some). In general, if someone is ruining a meeting by being an ass, it's the chairman's fault for allowing those actions to continue.

Donna is dead on with her last line: Follow your meeting agenda (ie, set the rules and follow them) and don't let them disrupt.

You can also try the following:
ask for items being brought before the board to have a written summary statement for easy inclusion in the minutes
after a speaker has had their two minutes, have someone on the board carefully read a fact based statement of summation on the issues brought forth, for inclusion in the minutes, along with a statement of who brought forth the 'facts' and statements (ie, tie the person to the outrageous statements in writing)
ask probing questions, seeking clarifications and facts. play "reporter", and ask for sources of information and claims, evidence, etc. of those bringing them. Turn the spotlight on them to prove their claims.

DonnaS (Tennessee)
Posts: 5,671
Posted:

Thank you Brian for helping me along here. I appreciate the addition.

In case someone is not clear on this, I normally am PRO BOARD. I always give the benefit of doubt to the Board . Many are not good but many are. So we need to flush out the crappola and do give advice on making the Board work, not solving some problem from a non complier or someone who does not even know what their governing documents are. Here, we are giving advice (good I hope) to Rick on how to deal with problem members.
EdS10 (Washington)
Posts: 3
Posted:
You'll have to excuse the long posting, but when I first read your topic I thought it was from one of my fellow board members because the scenario is so similar to one we face with the previous president going on 3+ years now. We receive emails 2-5+ pages long that attack practically everything we're required to accomplish. They actually put forth '13 Motions' at the last HOA meeting as if we didn't have enough to cover. The individual is not rational and highly manipulative which wears members down. We're volunteers after all and don't need this on top of our regular day to day lives, but if we don't stand in their way of undermining the board, we're sure that he'll attempt a return to power and the association can't afford a return to their failed fiduciary policies. You can't deal with individuals like these rationally since they're not normal; they thrive on being contrary and combative.

You may want to check out the book by Dr. Simon: "In Sheep's Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People" Excellent. It covers a myriad of personality traits and tactics used by manipulators. At least it helps you to understand the kind of individual(s) you're dealing with so you can minimize the affects of these irrational people.

Keep in mind to keep a record of all communications. Be careful not to slander or libel the individual's. Whoever has the association records ought to spend some time doing a review of the past board's actions or inactions since they may just be hiding something that they did and prefer it not to be found out or have the desire to get back into office so they can continue their former activity without prying eyes. The reason I say this is because the former president's continued harassment caused us to do just that and while we didn't find any financial manipulations; not that there wasn't; we did find issues such as taxes not being filed; required meetings not held or recorded though they were referenced; late fees written off; finances not invested as required; allowing a member approx. 2 years behind in their dues and not in good standing to join the board; etc. Suggests collusion. They all point to failure of their fiduciary duties and subject to lawsuit if the membership saw fit to do so.

Get input from your property manager. This past year our property manager really helped to get us through some of this with the following advice:
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Think about what is the worst thing that can happen should you and your board choose not to read all of his "tirades". Then once you identified what that is, ask yourself, "can we live with it". If you can, then don't worry about not reading his stuff. If you can't, then design a game plan to get through it.

Put him on notice: #1 - That the board has received his correspondence and will address it the next time they meet as a "whole". Help him to understand that there will be no immediate response to his emails. #2 - That in the future the board would appreciate it if he only communicated with one member of the board and it will be that member's responsibility to bring the matter before the entire board. You as a board can decide who that person should be. #3 - That at future board meetings, if he would like to discuss anything that there will be time allotted on the timed agenda during the "homeowner's forum" portion of the meeting for him to speak. This means that you will need, as a board, to have a timed agenda that everyone, including the board, sticks with.

As long as the board members are making good business decisions and can document what you have done in overseeing the operations of the community, the individual really won’t have a leg to stand on if you go to court. It’s called the “Business Judgment Rule”. Court usually won’t happen, because they’d have to spend the money to do so. Stick to your policies and procedures, be consistent, and document everything and you should be fine. You, as a board, could seek that same legal advice as to how you could have an attorney respond to all the former members accusations.

****Prior to the HOA meeting the 13 motions were proposed and our property manager stated that we need to up the ante.***

You folks need to talk to an attorney immediately. I would also recommend that you have him/her present at your meeting if possible. You can even have the attorney conduct the meeting. It's my understanding that this individual can not make motions from the floor. However, the attorney could better enlighten you on this.
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While he hasn't stopped meddling, this is an example of how we replied to his messages from that point forward:

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The Board of Directors of XYZ Homeowners' Association acknowledges receipt of your email and attachment.

The motions proposed will be addressed during the "other business" section of the annual homeowners' meeting as time permits and not to the exclusion of business discussion or motions presented by other homeowners.
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Good luck!
SteveM9 (Massachusetts)
Posts: 3,699
Posted:
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They raise issues all month as if they were life or death matters (and most are trivial or non issues or only violations in their own eyes, not as written)


Granted there are some crazy people out there, but the board is there to deal with these problems. Like it or not. If they bring up valid issues, they should be addressed, even if you don't like them personally.
JeffP6 (Florida)
Posts: 91
Posted:
Is this person disruptive to Board Meetings?

Do you have an open floor section of the meeting?
Are their state laws requiring the member to ask for time on the agenda to discuss items?

I can totally understand how you all feel. We had 1 previous board member that never did anything and barely showed up for meetings when they were on the board and yet after they were removed they chose to attend meetings and be beligerant to the sitting Board. We had another member who was a previous board member that took it upon herself to do things around the neighborhood when she didnt like a Board response (wripping out plantings etc..)

Our solution. We have a deputy sheriff that we pay off duty to patrol our neighborhood 8 hours per week. On the week of the Board meeting he is present at the meeting and then patrols either before or after.

It is very helpful having a deputy there. People in general are more respectful when he is there and if someone chooses to be horrible to us during the meeting we can adjourn have them removed and reconvene. We have had to do this one to the 1st former board member.

As was said before FL has a law requiring that the member send a request be added to the agenda to be recognized at a board meeting. While we havent had to really enforce this it is nice knowing that its there if it gets bad.

As far as your PM - we have had individuals within our sub that have been rude and harrassing to our PM as well. When she gets one of those emails it generally comes to the Board from her, one of us responds to the individual, copies our PM, and her boss at the management company. In a couple of pretty bad incidents our letters have bluntly told the member that we authorize the PM to not respond to them if they choose to harass further.
RickB4 (Kentucky)
Posts: 23
Posted:
I agree that the problems need to be addressed ... and they do. But the expectation for immediate action, even on very small items (change a lightbulb, etc.), is not always realistic or cost-effective. Most of the complaining is because they do not know what is already going on and/or don't like the answer previously given or just want to assume nothing is happening since it didn't happen in a day. Thats not an excuse, but just saying that you must be reasonable, and as others have posted here, we know some people are not reasonable and can't be reasoned with because they themselves are not reasonable people. Another part I dislike is that since the board doesn't agree with them, then they must all be idiots, lazy or wrong. I think its fair to understand that when you represent say 1000 homes, a couple of homeowners who are the only ones with these problems month after month do not represent a reason alone to appease them unless it is work which needs to be done and is inline with the priorities agreed upon by the majority of the board.
RickB4 (Kentucky)
Posts: 23
Posted:
They are extremely disruptive at board meetings. When they do not attend, it is a night and day difference (better).

It is true that we need to stick to our mtg rules and it is largely a failure of our pres. to enforce that consist., as he doesn't want to be like them (the former board). I keep saying we are diff. but order at mtgs is a must.

They tend to abuse the talking time and act out angrily when someone tries to tell them thx but yur time is up. They also talk, snicker and make rud comments during the mtgs. They also try to get up and make a scene but most in attendance just look at them and roll their eyes in disgust.

I like the deputy idea. What does that cost roughly?
MaryA1 (Arizona)
Posts: 388
Posted:
Rick,

I think the BOD should speak with their attorney; fully explain everything they are doing and ask if there is any legal action that can be taken.
JeffP6 (Florida)
Posts: 91
Posted:
It is like a 4 hour min and we pay both the deputy and the county. Deputy for his hours and the county for the use of the county vehicle to patrol.

Its like 27-30 per hour or something.

We started out using it as a deterrent from crime. 2 neighboring subs and us each do 8 hours each per week and the deputies patrol all 3 subs for 4 hours at a pop so we get a total of 24 hours of visibility. It works out well and they patrol in both marked and unmarked cars.
BrianB (California)
Posts: 2,820
Posted:
If you can't afford a police officer (or cannot arrange one, or don't want to get one), maybe just having an outside person present could help. Some people (not all) may be a bit of a blowhard because they are in among friends, but bring in a stranger, and they suddenly want to make a different impression. See if you can bring in some other professional person to attend the meeting, either as a special guest, honored guest, observer from another HOA, or perhaps on the pretext of running the camera/tape recorder, or a stenographer to take good notes (any excuse in a storm). Maybe the idea of being recorded (stolen from an earlier post, great idea!) or being observed/judged by an outsider might calm things down. It also adds a bit of civility to the proceedings, perhaps.

Just a thought that came to me.

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